A Glossary for the UninitiatedThese definitions are set down here for your entertainment. Please do not carve them in stone anywhere or tattoo them on visible parts of your anatomy. I did not come up with these, please take any gender references and change them to suit yourself. Bottom: the one with his/her butt in the air and tongue hanging out Consensual: agreeable to all involved Dominant: power-hungry bitch/bastard Endorphins: happy drugs released by the brain when you're in love, in pain, or eating chocolate Limits: the point at which something fun becomes un-fun Masochist: endorphin addict Negotiation: exchanging info before a scene -- what you've done, what you might do, what's a definite no-no Novice: new or inexperienced pervert Pervert: practices kinky sex (and practices and practices and..) Play Party: SM sex party Rebel Bottom: likes to make power-hungry bitches/bastard prove it Sadist: gets all wet from making boys/girls moan and scream Safe Word: a pre-set word or signal that means "slow down" or "stop" -- useful if you like to scream "no" when you really mean "yes"! Scene: a date or period of time set off for SM play Submissive: likes to keep power-hungry bitches/bastard happy Switch: enjoys topping and bottoming (not usually at the same time!) Top: the Big Cheese; sports a nasty smile and nastier implements Vanilla: good ol' egalitarian licking, sucking and fucking! |