Nipple & Breast Torture

********** 8/23/98  4:58 PM Begin logging Silken Ties.
            Observer | Good evening everyone
       MoL's Katie J | good evening to you, Observer
      *Night Spirit* | Good Evening all
       MoL's Katie J | huggggs, NS sis!
         night nurse | good evening all
       MoL's Katie J | hello, night nurse
         night nurse | good evening Mol's Katie
      *Night Spirit* | hugs Katie sis
       MoL's Katie J | ahhh, Good evening, Lord Ex :)
      Lord Excalibur | Thats better, taken my coat off now
                 RON | hello everyone
       MoL's Katie J | hiya Ron
            ~daisEy~ | greetings to all
       MoL's Katie J | hello daisey
      Lord Excalibur | hello Katie, NS my dear and everyone else
           ~wrybrat~ | evening all <s>
       MoL's Katie J | hugggggs, wrywry Birthday Woman
     *The Inspector* | hello all
         Aria (busy) | <slips in quietly, for once>
     *The Inspector* | huggs Katie
           ~wrybrat~ | hugggggs Kate <s>
            ~daisEy~ | Kisses Miss Aria
     *The Inspector* | and Aria
       MoL's Katie J | hugggs, Inspector
               wendy | oh... i feel soo bad sneaking off in here like this!
         night nurse | hello Aria
            ~daisEy~ | Kiss kiss TI
         Aria (busy) | kisses Miss DaisEy
     *The Inspector* | hiya daisEy
         Aria (busy) | hello night nurse
       MoL's Katie J | hello, wendy <s>
            ~daisEy~ | smoochies wry wry
       MoL's Katie J | *kotc* Aria
         Aria (busy) | kotc Katie
      Lord Excalibur | hello Aria and Inspector
         Aria (busy) | (so much for being quiet)
     *The Inspector* | hiya LE
         Aria (busy) | hello Lord Excalibur
            ~daisEy~ | <G>
       MoL's Katie J | Lessee .. do we paddle wry for her Birthday <G>?
           ~wrybrat~ | 0o00o0o..yessssss
       GrandPaDeSade | Hello all
               wendy | hey Katie J!
      Lord Excalibur | hello GPDS
       MoL's Katie J | good evening, GrandPa
      *Night Spirit* | everyone needs a good paddling
     *The Inspector* | shakes GPDS
            ~daisEy~ | <perk>
      Lord Excalibur | no not everyone my dear NS
       MoL's Katie J | I can't imagine you would give any other kind, NS
       GrandPaDeSade | Good evening LE, Katie, The Inspector
                JOY  | hi kids <S>
       MoL's Katie J | hugs, Joy
     *The Inspector* | huggs Joy
               wendy | hello Joy
         night nurse | hi Joy
       GrandPaDeSade | Wanna try to paddle me NS???
            ~daisEy~ | ooOOOoooOO Joy<kiss>
      Lord Excalibur | hello Joy
                JOY  | <<<<room huggsss>>>
       MoL's Katie J | wry is the birthday woman .. she gets first 
                     | paddlings <G>
      *Night Spirit* | only if you promise NOT to touch my back GrPa <wg>
       MoL's Katie J | <smiling at my love>
               STEVE | hi all...who's getting paddled?
       MoL's Katie J | We take turns, Steve
   Master of Leisure | strolling into the room,,,,,,and smiles as he sees
   Master of Leisure | her
               STEVE | is there a line?
       MoL's Katie J | NS .... we are doing Nipples tonight?
       GrandPaDeSade | I won't touch your back at this point, (new 
                     | tattoo), but the rest of you won't
       GrandPaDeSade | be safe NS.
      Lord Excalibur | oh I think I will be GPDS
       GrandPaDeSade | Sounds good to me Katie
               STEVE | oh is this the nipple torture thing?
      *Night Spirit* | yep tonight is breast torture and nipple torture 
                     | and also care
   Master of Leisure | <---loves to do nipples.....<weg>
     *The Inspector* | and where is Bubba when you need him?
         Aria (busy) | <g>
       MoL's Katie J | I know, honey <blush>
      Lord Excalibur | mh favourite of mine as well
         Aria (busy) | he's ummm busy
   Master of Leisure | lafffffin,,,nippless....TI
               STEVE | <taking bandaids off nipples>
               STEVE | ouch
       GrandPaDeSade | <--Is known as the "human nipple clamp"
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Hiya folks.......am I on time?   (for a change)
         Aria (busy) | you are nikki
           ~wrybrat~ | huggggggggs nik <s>
      Lord Excalibur | only just nikki
            ~daisEy~ | kisses sis
       MoL's Katie J | as much as anyone tonight ... lazy summer evening 
                     | <s>  hugs
      *Night Spirit* | btw found this really beautiful website for clothing
      *Night Spirit* | http://www.gypsymoon.com/
   Master of Leisure | on time,,nahhhh..wink
     ~nikki~  (busy) | wry!!!   HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
           ~wrybrat~ | thanks, sweetie <s>
         Aria (busy) | larger sizes?
     ~nikki~  (busy) | ((((((((((  Hugs to ALL  )))))))))))))   <<----- to 
                     | save time
      *Night Spirit* | now we will begin with the lovely birthday girl 
                     | tell us about your favorite
      *Night Spirit* | breast torture
      *Night Spirit* | yep Aria :)
      Lord Excalibur | yeah its a summer evening here as well Katie, its 
                     | raining <s>
       GrandPaDeSade | Aria, if she likes it, yes.
   Master of Leisure | its too damn hot here...
   Master of Leisure | but a great day for shopping,,,hehe
           ~wrybrat~ | umm.. I'm a learner.. better start with someone 
                     | else.. <laffing>  too cowardly
           ~wrybrat~ | for the clover clamps.. they hurt too much!
         Aria (busy) | cool showers Master of Leisure Sir
   Master of Leisure | you are lucky,,,aria,,,,,<s>
      Lord Excalibur | with a partner of course Aria
         night nurse | you all should be here then ,,,it is a beautiful 
                     | summer evening
         night nurse | just perfect
      *Night Spirit* | ok Aria you win tell us about your favorite breast 
                     | torture
       GrandPaDeSade | Fingers can be worse wry
         Aria (busy) | no no Sir, in a shower stall <g> and with a partner 
                     | as Lord Excalibur suggests
         Aria (busy) | my favorite breast torture is biting
         Aria (busy) | combined with wooden clothes pins
   Master of Leisure | ahhh....gotcha,,,,,that works well...my dear
                JOY  | and some ice
       MoL's Katie J | ice is good.
         Aria (busy) | the ice is only for later, when I can't get my bra 
                     | back on
       MoL's Katie J | very good.
         Aria (busy) | ice isn't toture <G>
           ~wrybrat~ | biting is torture?  I thought that it was just 
                     | fun.. I'm an expert and I didn't
           ~wrybrat~ | know it..
       MoL's Katie J | depends how you use it <G>
      Lord Excalibur | ice first to numb and then the clamps or pins, then 
                     | waite for them to come back
      Lord Excalibur | to life <wg>
   Master of Leisure | ice works well with biting,,,aria....its a good
   Master of Leisure | combination
      *Night Spirit* | Aria how hard is the bite and do you like clothes 
                     | pins on the breast, nips or
      *Night Spirit* | in zipper?
       GrandPaDeSade | I have a metal pin in a tooth. It once held a 
                     | filling that has fallen out. Now
       GrandPaDeSade | it's handy for that "special bite"
       MoL's Katie J | you are clever, Lord Ex
      Lord Excalibur | thank you Katie
       MoL's Katie J | zipper?
         Aria (busy) | thats how i got outed to my mom... the bites are 
                     | extraordinarily hard... I
         Aria (busy) | ended up with 19 bite marks that lasted a month the 
                     | last time I played as hard
         Aria (busy) | as I like
     ~nikki~  (busy) | <<--- loves those bites, Aria   <g>
       GrandPaDeSade | fastening a bunch of pins together,then pulling 
                     | them off all at once, or in
       GrandPaDeSade | sequence is called a zipper.
      *Night Spirit* | zipper is a bunch of clothes pins tied together at 
                     | just the right moment you
      *Night Spirit* | pull them all off
       MoL's Katie J | thank you, Grandpa
         Aria (busy) | and I love the clothes pins all over the 
                     | breasts.... we used a whole bag of 100
         Aria (busy) | the last time we played with them... you can do a 
                     | zipper, cause thats
         Aria (busy) | interesting... but I don't care where they are or 
                     | how they come off
     ~nikki~  (busy) | <wincing/perking at the thought>
          Mike's wen | i have a question... is it possible that biting can 
                     | cause permenent damage that
          Mike's wen | would render a female useless in breast feeding?
       GrandPaDeSade | They are also fun to whip off.
            ~daisEy~ | no, wen
         Aria (busy) | thats what they did GrPa <g>
      *Night Spirit* | wen the milk ducts are pretty well in the middle of 
                     | the breast, not likly
       GrandPaDeSade | wen, we don't bite that hard.
     ~nikki~  (busy) | I don't think so, wen......there was a study of 
                     | that on a threadin HSX.   I
     ~nikki~  (busy) | think it was proved that there was no perm damage
         Aria (busy) | they clipped them off with a crop
            ~daisEy~ | <nod> nik nik
         night nurse | you would have chance of doing damage from leaving 
                     | clamps on too long
      *Night Spirit* | it would really take LONG teeth to reach that area
     *The Inspector* | off with a crop?   <making notes>
          Mike's wen | thanks.. just wondering!
       GrandPaDeSade | And remember, they are designed to withstand a 
                     | child with teeth biting on them.
      *Night Spirit* | night nurse good point, how long is long enough for 
                     | clamps on nipples?
       MoL's Katie J | When a kid bites, breastfeeding is over.
       MoL's Katie J | IMHO
         Aria (busy) | <g> yes Inspector
                JOY  | i heard no more than 15 mins?
         Aria (busy) | you are right Katie
         night nurse | well 15 minutes approximately
            ~daisEy~ | <thinking the books say round 5 or 10 mins>
     *The Inspector* | see these forums are interesting and informative
         night nurse | or until they are no longer feeling the desired 
                     | affect
      *Night Spirit* | I have heard 15 minutes also
       GrandPaDeSade | Not for all Katie. Some continue. (Masochists in 
                     | hiding)
           ~wrybrat~ | dais, what books?
          Mike's wen | i have found that they desensitize after 8 min
   Master of Leisure | chucklin
      *Night Spirit* | night nurse what type of breast torture do you like?
            Sherkahn | greetings <S>
   Master of Leisure | each person is different,,,wen,,,,,some can take
   Master of Leisure | them longer,some less.....comes from experience
         night nurse | clothespin and clamps  <S>
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Ohhhh if they are on for long enough it is the 
                     | coming OFF that is the killer!!!
     ~nikki~  (busy) | LOL
                JOY  | hi Sherkahn
         night nurse | and of course whipping
            Sherkahn | hi JOY
            ~daisEy~ | <quiet kisses>
   Master of Leisure | wnks at nikki,,
          Mike's wen | well, here is a question for all the females 
                     | present... how long do you prefer?
            Sherkahn | <S>
         Aria (busy) | i love for them to be on a long time... but then I 
                     | am a pain slut <g> in the
         Aria (busy) | area of the breast
     ~nikki~  (busy) | I think it depends what else is going on at the 
                     | same time......<g>
         Aria (busy) | thats true too nikki
          Mike's wen | have you ever orgasmed from strictly nipple torure 
                     | and no other contact?
     *The Inspector* | if you get busy elsewhere you might forget 
                     | them.............<G>
         night nurse | once the desired feeling is reached mine tend to 
                     | stop hurting so then it is
         night nurse | time to take them off...about 15 minutes for me<ggl>
     ~nikki~  (busy) | <<---- hasn't   <sob>
      *Night Spirit* | ok here is my favorite, we have these tiny paper 
                     | clamps, and we put like 40 on
      *Night Spirit* | my breasts, and wait a long while (not on nips) and 
                     | then take them off.  I also
      *Night Spirit* | love the nipple clamp or clip trivia
            ~daisEy~ | <still trying> wem<S>
      *Night Spirit* | loose clothes pins whipped off my breasts
      *Night Spirit* | wen you betcha
         Aria (busy) | me? from breast torture, yes, nipple torture alone, 
                     | no
         Aria (busy) | hi tina, when did you slip in?
         night nurse | well clothespin work well when you have changed the 
                     | grip and have done some
         night nurse | sanding on them
      *Night Spirit* | ok how many here like brest torture (not including 
                     | nipple torture)?
            *~tina~* | <smiles at aria......a while ago doll>
         Aria (busy) | doh <G>
       MoL's Katie J | yes, night nurse, I find regular clothespins/pegs 
                     | too tight for my taste
         Aria (busy) | <waving hand urgently>
          Mike's wen | not sure
          Mike's wen | .....yet
       GrandPaDeSade | Anything with a seratted grip can't be torn or 
                     | whipped off without causing
       GrandPaDeSade | damage.
         night nurse | jumping up and down
     ~nikki~  (busy) | <raising hand>          (and hugging tina too)
            *~tina~* | <---breast bondage ..<s>
         Aria (busy) | too tight?
         night nurse | me ,,me
       MoL's Katie J | mostly, I like it.
     *The Inspector* | Katie............pull the springs off and stretch 
                     | them out and then put 'em back
     *The Inspector* | together
       MoL's Katie J | I have real sensitive breasts, and can get 
                     | desensitized easily
          Mike's wen | yeah... i am the same as Katie
       MoL's Katie J | course, it does make for an easy orgasm .. lol
      *Night Spirit* | Katie also go to a discount store they usually sell 
                     | cheap clothes pins, less
      *Night Spirit* | bite
         night nurse | that is why clothespin work well Katie
         Aria (busy) | mine are really sensitive too.. and that wasn't a 
                     | slam at you lovie, i sure
         Aria (busy) | hope that you understand that
      *Night Spirit* | tina tell us about your favorite breast torture
         night nurse | you can adjust them to any tightness
         night nurse | roughness you prefer
     Lady WolfSpirit | <walks in and takes a seat in the corner>
       GrandPaDeSade | Go to a store that imports cheap foreign clothpins. 
                     | The springs are usually
       GrandPaDeSade | weaker.
            *~tina~* | personally I like all, nipple t, breast t, but my 
                     | fav is bondage.....and
            *~tina~* | floggings...
       GrandPaDeSade | Hi LW
     Lady WolfSpirit | <smiles>...hello GrPa
       MoL's Katie J | oh, yes .. I love having my breasts tied tightly 
                     | <YUMMY>
          Mike's wen | so what about brushing breasts and nipples with a 
                     | hair brush....
          Mike's wen | anyone like that?
            *~tina~* | a nail file is pretty nice wen
        Spider Pants | Too much chaffing for me
      *Night Spirit* | yeah emory board on the nips then apply tiny bit of 
                     | rubbing alcohol
         Aria (busy) | never tried either of those, hair brush or nail file
            *~tina~* | oh yes NS<smiling>
         night nurse | it is just a matter of toughing the nipples like 
                     | when you breast feed
      *Night Spirit* | yes night nurse why I recommend breast cream (like 
                     | we use when nursing) to
      *Night Spirit* | toughen them up for more pleasure
       GrandPaDeSade | By the way, when there are a whole bunch of pins or 
                     | clips on the breasts, and
       GrandPaDeSade | they've been there a few min. Then it's time for a 
                     | nice close hug, or to just
       GrandPaDeSade | run your hands over them.
          Mike's wen | yes... toughening is a good idea... i hate that 
                     | crusty feeling that happens a
          Mike's wen | couple of days ofterwards
             Marlowe | hello room
          Mike's wen | hello M!
         Aria (busy) | Madrigal loves to turn me over then GrPa... we have 
                     | a bondage table that he
         Aria (busy) | then has me lean against <G> and spread my legs 
                     | really wide.... so that he can
         Aria (busy) | cane the area of my ass where it meets my legs.....
            *~tina~* | NS ...being bond with nipple weights attched is 
                     | quite a lil thrill of
            *~tina~* | mine.....also quite a test of endurance as 
                     | well...<g>
      *Night Spirit* | also good is using a wash cloth on them to toughen 
                     | them
       Peanut Butter | Hello
            *~tina~* | bound I meana
            *~tina~* | mean
       GrandPaDeSade | Teeth gently nibbling can get pretty intense after 
                     | awhile too.
           MR FIX-IT | anyone 4 cybersex
       GrandPaDeSade | Sounds like fun Aria
      *Night Spirit* | ok how many like the breasts bound?
     ~nikki~  (busy) | The "sweet spot"  Aria??   LOL
         Aria (busy) | <nodding> it is
            *~tina~* | <---does!
          Mike's wen | i do i do
         Aria (busy) | I love it <g>
     Lady WolfSpirit | <--doesnt
     ~nikki~  (busy) | <<-- has never been bound
         Aria (busy) | yes nikki the sweet spot <G>
       MoL's Katie J | <waving hand furiously>
      *Night Spirit* | ok let's hear good ways to bind breasts
         night nurse | yes and if they really get sore and crusty ..udder 
                     | cream is a wonderful
         night nurse | solution<Smiling>
       MoL's Katie J | Like isn't the word
           MR FIX-IT | any females want cybersex
         Aria (busy) | no Mr Fix-it this is a conference
      *Night Spirit* | Mr fixit this is a conferance about breast torture 
                     | not a pick up bar
   Master of Leisure | leave,,,,fix it,,,,,<sly smile>
     Lady WolfSpirit | well hugs and smooches MoL...<s>
   Master of Leisure | hugggs and smooches,,LWS..<s>
           MR FIX-IT | did'nt know sorry
       MoL's Katie J | I take those in sends .. and I have him <s>
   Master of Leisure | figured you did,,,,little one
             ~Grey~m | good evening Katie.....MoL
   Master of Leisure | good evening,,,Grey
       GrandPaDeSade | I did too. sorry to jump on your bandwagon Katie.
         Aria (busy) | well we begin with a lasso loop, and slide it 
                     | around the base of the first
         Aria (busy) | breast... then the we wrap around the bases, in 
                     | figure 8's
       MoL's Katie J | no problem <s>
            *~tina~* | Spartan often will use a figure eight method of 
                     | binding with soft rope, and
            *~tina~* | then bind around my ribs as well........but I like 
                     | feeling it hard to breath as
            *~tina~* | well.......
      *Night Spirit* | Aria any special type of rope needed?
          Mike's wen | and little loops around the nipples too!
            *~tina~* | same here aria
     ~nikki~  (busy) | <taking notes>
   Master of Leisure | i like the figure 8 tina,,,,around the ribs and 
                     | around
   Master of Leisure | the neck.....
         Aria (busy) | well the cotton one works best... that with the 
                     | polyester is rough and
         Aria (busy) | scratchy...
            *~tina~* | yes MoL......<smiles>
         Aria (busy) | and you should wash it first to get it to soften up
     *The Inspector* | good old fashioned clothes line
         Aria (busy) | handles better that way....
     *The Inspector* | cotton
         night nurse | have not done breast binding yet ,,how does it feel
     Lady WolfSpirit | <sneaks a smooch to TI>
            *~tina~* | you can take it from the breast MoL...down thru the 
                     | labia and back to the
            *~tina~* | neck.....<weg>...
         Aria (busy) | its wonderfully intense
     *The Inspector* | <huggs LWS>
      *Night Spirit* | Aria you mentioned washing it, can you give us 
                     | details on how?
       MoL's Katie J | oh, I love it
             ~Grey~m | <sits next to nikki peeks at her notes> hey girl
     ~nikki~  (busy) | tina!  <pant, pant>   Will ya show me??
       MoL's Katie J | makes me tingle all under
   Master of Leisure | winks at tina,,,,,,you sure can,,,,,,and you can 
                     | apply
   Master of Leisure | different pressures with the rope in different areas
   Master of Leisure | too
            *~tina~* | lol....only if you let me demo on you hon
          Mike's wen | it makes you feel like your whole being revolves 
                     | around your breasts
     ~nikki~  (busy) | ^5's tina.....<s>
         Aria (busy) | sure... I cut it into lengths of 20 feet or so, and 
                     | then knot the ends so that
         Aria (busy) | it doesn't fray... that with the polyester in it, 
                     | can be melted, but I prefer
         Aria (busy) | the strictly cotton kind....
         Aria (busy) | then I dump it into the washing machine and run it 
                     | through a normal cycle
     ~nikki~  (busy) | So what is this hemp rope then?
            *~tina~* | do you dry yours aria......or hang it?
     Lady WolfSpirit | lol
   Master of Leisure | you are gonna have fun in NYC in 
                     | Feb....nikki,,,,,<w>
     Lady WolfSpirit | sounds like we are doing laundry
            *~tina~* | lol
         night nurse | mmm will soon have to try it...sounds like 
                     | something that sends a wonderful
         night nurse | message all over your body
     Lady WolfSpirit | <grins>
         Aria (busy) | using diaper solution... to get rid of the stuff 
                     | that the factory uses to
         Aria (busy) | bleach it... then I just hang it to dry in the 
                     | sun....
     ~nikki~  (busy) | I sure hope so, MoL.......we are coming over en 
                     | masse......20 or so I think....
      *Night Spirit* | personally I like soft curtain cord, the thick kind 
                     | that is wound, I have alot
       GrandPaDeSade | NS sounds like she is getting interested.
      *Night Spirit* | of red it looks hot as well as feels hot
            *~tina~* | wow niki!
   Master of Leisure | we could get Dirk to do some japanese rope
   Master of Leisure | bondage demos.....tina...what do ya think ?
            *~tina~* | Im sure Dirk would be more than happy to demo 
                     | MoL...sounds great
         Aria (busy) | i have never tried that Night Spirit, as binding... 
                     | used it to make a pleasure
         Aria (busy) | flogger, but never for breast bondage
      *Night Spirit* | no one invited me to NYC in Feb
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Soooo is there varying ways of doing breast 
                     | bondage???
            *~tina~* | NS...there has not been an oficial post yet.....but 
                     | you damn well we want you
            *~tina~* | there <weg>
          Miabellina | hi
         Aria (busy) | yes some just bind each breast seperately
            *~tina~* | oops....forgot the know
         Aria (busy) | and you can use thick rubber bands as well
         Aria (busy) | if the breasts are bigger
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Okayyyyyy I have to ask.....how does it feel??
         Aria (busy) | they also sell rubber sleeves? that you can cut to 
                     | the width that you want and
         Aria (busy) | then put those around the breasts
      *Night Spirit* | yes nikki there is you can use wide or thin rope, 
                     | bind together or figure 8,
      *Night Spirit* | alot depends on what you like...However must once 
                     | again wore when the breast is
      *Night Spirit* | bound circulation is cut--can not be done over long 
                     | periods of time
       GrandPaDeSade | If you get some of the very heavy chopsticks they 
                     | use in food preparation, put
       GrandPaDeSade | one above and one below the breasts, then put 
                     | rubber bands on each end, the
       GrandPaDeSade | pressure works nicely too.
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Is it used as an enhancement to other TT tho?
                 mac | hello night spirite
               Angel | hi people
   Master of Leisure | hmmm.....good idea,,GPDS....haent tried that......
                 mac | hi
      *Night Spirit* | ok let's get into heavy breast torture anyone into 
                     | spanking, flogging the
      *Night Spirit* | breasts?
         Aria (busy) | <<<<me me me
      *Night Spirit* | hiya mac
         night nurse | ooohhh the chopstick thing sounds very interesting
                 mac | yes i am
     ~nikki~  (busy) | <<--- loves breast flogging.......short sharp slaps
      Lord Excalibur | it is night nurse
       GrandPaDeSade | How about slapping breasts?
         night nurse | yes LE ,,hello
      Lord Excalibur | or use then around the nipples as well as the 
                     | breasts
                 mac | tell me more night spirite
         night nurse | love to have my breasts slapped and flogged
      *Night Spirit* | we have some floggers for that, suede and leather, 
                     | but hurtful one is one made
      *Night Spirit* | of thing rope with tiny brass beads on it
      Lord Excalibur | btw hello to you night nurse
     ~nikki~  (busy) | I prefer a pussy whip being used on them......or a 
                     | light flogger......rubber
     ~nikki~  (busy) | works best for me...
         Aria (busy) | never had a rubber flogger
         Aria (busy) | <pout>
       GrandPaDeSade | Or the one made of thin rope strands with knots 
                     | tied in them NS?
      Lord Excalibur | I use a short deer skin flogger
         Aria (busy) | the very first time that they were tortured, it was 
                     | with a cat .... and I
         Aria (busy) | thought i was going to go out of my mind in 
                     | pleasure from the pain
     Lady WolfSpirit | <--prefers a crop used around and on nipples
         Aria (busy) | deer skin is too soft for me <G>
         Aria (busy) | I like that too Lady WolfSpirit
      *Night Spirit* | ok let's get real wild flogged breasts with clamps 
                     | on nipples
      Lord Excalibur | ok so borrow the heavy one <s>
         night nurse | well if you use deer skin with other accessories it 
                     | feels great
                 mac | tell me any good tips for my miss
      *Night Spirit* | deer skin is good for warm ups get those endorphins 
                     | awake
         Aria (busy) | <grinning> you trying to make me really wet here 
                     | Night Spirit?
         night nurse | you are so right NS
      Lord Excalibur | you got it NS
                 mac | got no deer skin
      *Night Spirit* | no Aria but would you like to be <wink wink>
         Aria (busy) | ummm can i plead the fifth?
         Aria (busy) | <g>
       GrandPaDeSade | Hey, if it works, you got something extra out of 
                     | the CO Aria
           ~wrybrat~ | nope, we know you too well, Aria <s>
      *Night Spirit* | ok so we do like flogged breasts with clamps <wg>
         Aria (busy) | yes we do <G>
     ~nikki~  (busy) | I 'like' the clover clamps with a chain 
                     | attached......then the chain being
     ~nikki~  (busy) | tugged....and tugged......and ..ohhhhhhHH!
         Aria (busy) | at least you and I do it seems
         night nurse | oh yes
     ~nikki~  (busy) | yes, NS
   Master of Leisure | grinnin,,,,,
         Aria (busy) | you know, i have never had clover clamps either
      Lord Excalibur | then attach that chain to clit clamp nikki
                 mac | any one got there nipple pierced
         Aria (busy) | <thinking about that one>
       MoL's Katie J | yes, nikki .. I like that one too
           ~wrybrat~ | mui bigggg hurt, Aria..
         Aria (busy) | <waving her hand> three weeks ago
         night nurse | thinking about nipple piercing
         night nurse | how did it feel Aria?
         Aria (busy) | it was very painful <g> but I would do it again in 
                     | a minute
       GrandPaDeSade | I like to hold both nipples between my fingers, 
                     | then squeeze, twist, roll and
       GrandPaDeSade | pull them
     ~nikki~  (busy) | <pout>  my chain ain't that long, Lord E
      *Night Spirit* | ok had a clover clamp on my breasts and other side 
                     | attached to another sub and
      *Night Spirit* | then Masters separated us slowly
       GrandPaDeSade | You can always get more chain nikki
                 mac | ive got mine done ggggood fun
      Lord Excalibur | oh come on nikki, lets have some imagination here, 
                     | add some chain <s>
      *Night Spirit* | anyone here have pierced nipples?
           ~wrybrat~ | just get the Y thingie <g>
      *Night Spirit* | and does nipple torture with it?
     Lady WolfSpirit | <--sneaking out to find out how Hunter is doing.....
     ~nikki~  (busy) | LOL   Okayy!  <scribbing down shopping list>
         Aria (busy) | I do Night Spirit
      Lord Excalibur | lol
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Not nipples (yet) NS......but I have a few others!  
                     | <g>
           ~wrybrat~ | I found it on the net, nik <g>
      *Night Spirit* | ok Aria how does your nipple piercings fit in to 
                     | torture..and is it better,
      *Night Spirit* | worse or the same?
                 mac | ive got my pussy done
         Aria (busy) | well since I just got them done, i won't find out 
                     | til next weekend
      *Night Spirit* | ok we expect a report <ggl>
         Aria (busy) | you will get one... if i make it back to the 
                     | conference on time <G>
           ~wrybrat~ | <ggl> will you be home by 7 on Sunday?
           *Spartan* | A good evening to all.......
         night nurse | doed nipple piercing require alot of care?
       GrandPaDeSade | Don't do it too early Aria. I might cause them to 
                     | migrate from what I've read.
      *Night Spirit* | ok Lord E your hotseat time---why do you like 
                     | breast bondage?
     ~nikki~  (busy) | I'll talk to you later, wry (re:website)
         Aria (busy) | going to be driving so I am not sure
       GrandPaDeSade | I=It
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Hiya Spartan, Sir  <kotc>
         Aria (busy) | its been a month
                 mac | i had no problem with mine
       GrandPaDeSade | Oh, should be ok then.
      Lord Excalibur | why do I, well I have this thing about breasts when 
                     | they are bound ........
           ~wrybrat~ | <<wants "nether" piercings..
     ~nikki~  (busy) | The labia is much quicker to heal tho, mac.....IMX
           *Spartan* | kisses nikki doll, NS, aria, kj, daisey, lil 
                     | wry.............<s>
         Aria (busy) | or it will be by then GrPa.... and lost said he 
                     | would be careful to look at
         Aria (busy) | them before we do anything with the nipples
      Lord Excalibur | I like to see then neatly bound then add various 
                     | items from there on
      *Night Spirit* | licks oh sexy Greek God
           *Spartan* | evening GPDS, MoL...............
       GrandPaDeSade | Depends on the person nikki. I have heard others 
                     | say the opposite.
     ~nikki~  (busy) | They are a real turn on, wry......
           *Spartan* | :::::blushin:::::::::::
   Master of Leisure | Evening,,,Spartan,,,,,,,good to see ya
                 mac | spartan what do you mean
           ~wrybrat~ | about November.. I think <g>
       GrandPaDeSade | Evening spartan
      *Night Spirit* | Lord E does the prep work and doing the actual 
                     | torture best or the results
      *Night Spirit* | looking at a job well done best?
      Lord Excalibur | hi SPartan
            ~daisEy~ | <kisses> Spartan Sir
      Lord Excalibur | both
           *Spartan* | eveningLE.......
       GrandPaDeSade | lost knows what he is doing.
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Really, GPDS?    Mine healed within three weeks but 
                     | my navl piercing is taking
     ~nikki~  (busy) | foreverrrrrr
         Aria (busy) | hello Spartan
      Lord Excalibur | I take  a great deal of time preparing...........
         night nurse | navel piercing takes a long time to heal
         Aria (busy) | yes I know GrPa <g> or I wouldn't be going to play 
                     | with him again <G>
      Lord Excalibur | then leaving my sub for a while restrained and 
                     | bound so I can admire my work
      Lord Excalibur | <wg>
         night nurse | have to keep everything from rubbing against it so 
                     | it can heal quicker
       GrandPaDeSade | But everyone I have talked to says navels take a 
                     | long time.
       GrandPaDeSade | My daughter's navel took 6 months to heal.
      Lord Excalibur | navels can be quite bad at times
      *Night Spirit* | Lord E tell us some of the art you have created
           *Spartan* | tinas took a long time as well......<navel>
                 mac | my boyfriends got his cock pierced
         Aria (busy) | mine didn't heal at all with the ring in... had to 
                     | take it out was so
         Aria (busy) | depressed...
           *Spartan* | in the navy....oh my
           Sarina V. | Evening all.  Am I too late?
      *Night Spirit* | mac please watch the language
      Lord Excalibur | well........
      *Night Spirit* | hiya Sarina :)
           Sarina V. | Hey there NS.
      Lord Excalibur | both breasts neatly bound, about two inches or more
      Lord Excalibur | then clamps applied
                 mac | sorry ......
      Lord Excalibur | these attached to chains
           Sarina V. | Hello, GPDS, Spartan, KJ, everyone else!
          Freda Love | hello
      Lord Excalibur | then attached to labia or clit clamps
   Master of Leisure | hello..sarina
           *Spartan* | first time for tina , she had a larger ring than 
                     | the second, a small ring
           *Spartan* | healed much quicker I assume due to less friction 
                     | as it kinda tucked into
           *Spartan* | her......
      *Night Spirit* | how long does this take from beginning to end Lord 
                     | E?
      Lord Excalibur | one done, a period of rest and then light to heavy 
                     | flogging
           *Spartan* | hello sarina
         Aria (busy) | that makes sense Spartan
     ~nikki~  (busy) | So, can anyone answer my question........does 
                     | breast bondage enhance TT play or
     ~nikki~  (busy) | it is merely for a visual effect?
       GrandPaDeSade | Anyone else like to press inwards on the nipples, 
                     | (in to the chest). Or does
       GrandPaDeSade | anyone here like it?
                 mac | sorry about the language night spirote
      Lord Excalibur | with all the biting touching licking kissing etc 
                     | around an hour to a hour and
      Lord Excalibur | half
      *Night Spirit* | thanks mac :)
       GrandPaDeSade | Hi there Sarina
      *Night Spirit* | nikki that is really up to the person
           *Spartan* | nikki , in our case, it is a wonderful addition to 
                     | the entire
           *Spartan* | scene.....................
         Aria (busy) | for me, nikki, it enhances
         night nurse | have not tried that GrandPa but sounds interesting!!
           Sarina V. | I love torturing ian's nips.
           Sarina V. | Women don't get all the fun!
       MoL's Katie J | just tried it .. intense, Grandpa
      *Night Spirit* | ok my favorite Greek God, your turn tell us about 
                     | breast torture you have done
           *Spartan* | GPDS, i press all the time.........
      Lord Excalibur | mark this though NS the binding is not as tight as 
                     | wen I just doing a bondage
      Lord Excalibur | scene
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Yes, GPDS.......the end of a crop twisted down into 
                     | the nipple then released
     ~nikki~  (busy) | quickly is quite a hot spot for me....
                 mac | night spirit where are you from
   Master of Leisure | it is a good addition to the scene,,,nikki
       GrandPaDeSade | True sarina
      *Night Spirit* | and Sarina please inform us how you do male's subs 
                     | nip torture?
      *Night Spirit* | goof point Lord E
         Aria (busy) | <<<<going for some head ache meds brb
      Lord Excalibur | I do care you know
           *Spartan* | well NS, most of it is with large nylon n cotton 
                     | braided boat rope, 3/4 inch,
           *Spartan* | mostly constrictive together, but it is all in the 
                     | wrapping.....<s>
   Master of Leisure | or the crop ..lilghtly tapped to the 
                     | nipples..nikki,,,,,
      *Night Spirit* | how do you do the wrapping Spartan?
     ~nikki~  (busy) | brb
           *Spartan* | engorging the breasts allows for a sensitivity i 
                     | cant match anyother way......
           *Spartan* | once this way
                 mac | are you still there night spirite
           *Spartan* | even light brush play can be tortureous
           *Spartan* | <lookin for the f**kin dictionary>
           *Spartan* | <now where did tina put it>....
       GrandPaDeSade | NS?
         night nurse | MMMMmmmm am learning alot tonight ..
           Sarina V. | Spartan, do you use suction and/or clamps after 
                     | binding?
      *Night Spirit* | ok brush play has been mentioned, any ideas as to 
                     | the type of brushes to be
      *Night Spirit* | used on nips
      *Night Spirit* | yes?
       GrandPaDeSade | mac said something to you NS
                 mac | HALF INCH BRUSH
      *Night Spirit* | oh Sarina good one.....suction <thinking of GrPa's 
                     | snake bite kit>
           *Spartan* | usually not sarina, i enjoy using an emory board to 
                     | the nipples intermixed with
           *Spartan* | brushes and 
                     | feathers.........................................
            *~tina~* | NS....I have a lovely blush brush that is 
                     | huge....with a very long
            *~tina~* | handle......feels so nice after a strenous breast T 
                     | scen <s>
      Lord Excalibur | use a camel hair brush first and then a small 
                     | stippling brush
            *~tina~* | excuse the typos
                 mac | GRANDPADESADE WHATS NS
         night nurse | agree with you LE....smiling
      *Night Spirit* | mac I am NS
       GrandPaDeSade | NS = Night Spirit
         Aria (busy) | mac, please don't do all caps, its very hard on the 
                     | eyes
         Aria (busy) | and people consider it to be yelling
                 mac | SORRY
       MoL's Katie J | mac read your sends, please
       MoL's Katie J | and the bottom of your window.
      *Night Spirit* | anyone else here use suction on nipples?
            *~tina~* | whats a stipling brush Lord?
           ~wrybrat~ | short really stiff bristles?
           *Spartan* | <new topic>..........a form of suction we have used 
                     | is mixed with some fire
           *Spartan* | play, cupping.............<g>
      Lord Excalibur | its a stiff brush use for textured decoration, ie 
                     | plaster work
         Aria (busy) | never tried the suction
                 mac | first time on the net...ns
            *~tina~* | ohmy.....
            *~tina~* | thanks Lord E
       GrandPaDeSade | NS just loves me to give her hickeys on her breasts 
                     | also. Preferably involving
       GrandPaDeSade | lots of biting and chewing.
         night nurse | well I once had a dry/wet vac used on mine
      Lord Excalibur | pleasure
         night nurse | lots of suction there!!!!!
   Master of Leisure | glares at mac......
         Aria (busy) | wow night nurse
      *Night Spirit* | night nurse give us details
            *~tina~* | lol...nurse.....ya never know what uses people can 
                     | come with for ordinary
            *~tina~* | items...<s>
          Michael P. | evening folks
             Ronster | hello
      *Night Spirit* | Spartan details please
         night nurse | it worked very well
   Master of Leisure | evening,,,Michael
      *Night Spirit* | greetings Michael
         Aria (busy) | hello Michael
         night nurse | better than anything i ever felt before
          Michael P. | sitting quiet and catching up
           Sarina V. | Just be careful with suction around newly pierced
      Lord Excalibur | if you can find one now, they are a bit old, use a 
                     | vacumm that has rotating
      Lord Excalibur | brushes on the sweep head
         night nurse | and the placement is so easy
           Sarina V. | nipples.
      Lord Excalibur | hello Michael
     ~nikki~  (busy) | <hunting out my vacuum>
                 mac | master of leisure what do you mean (glears)
  americas_best97008 | hello
          Michael P. | hi best
   Master of Leisure | word to the wise,,,mac,,,,,,,better to watch and 
                     | listen
   Master of Leisure | and learn,,,,,,before you speak,,,here,,,,,,,ponder 
                     | that
   Master of Leisure | thought,,,mac
  americas_best97008 | hi michell
      *Night Spirit* | Sarina can you give us more details bout care of 
                     | pierce nips?
         night nurse | how about sticking pins in the breasts?
         night nurse | has anyone tried that
          Michael P. | love doing that, then hitting the pins with 
                     | electricity
       GrandPaDeSade | I think anything involving blood is a limit for 
                     | Compuserve.
          Michael P. | like making patterns too
          Michael P. | so artistic
     ~nikki~  (busy) | I have done so on myself, night nurse.....but never 
                     | had it doen *to* me...
                 mac | master....thanks for advice
               Ellen | hi, all........
       GrandPaDeSade | We need to drop that line to keep them happy.
         Aria (busy) | hello Ellen
                 mac | hello ellen
         Aria (busy) | understood GrPa <g>
          Michael P. | don't do it often, have to really have trust to 
                     | start sticking things into
          Michael P. | people IMX, or through people
     ~nikki~  (busy) | <s>  GPDS    Fine by me, Sir
         night nurse | yes GrandPa
               Ellen | <snickering at GP>
       GrandPaDeSade | Sorry, but that is one of their conditions.
          Michael P. | works for me GP
           *Spartan* | we gotta run for a bit....enjoy all....<s>..
         night nurse | its ok..but it is fun<S>
       GrandPaDeSade | No blood, water sports, or scat.
          Michael P. | too messy anyway
   Master of Leisure | cya,,,,Spartan,,,,,,,,,huggggs..tina,,,,,enjoy the
   Master of Leisure | evening,,,you guys
      *Night Spirit* | ok last thoughts on this topic, so far we know, let 
                     | piercings heals first,
         Aria (busy) | No bestiality either <G>
      *Night Spirit* | clamps nips for about 15 minutes, bondage be 
                     | careful not to cut off circulation
      *Night Spirit* | too long, take time admire the work and how to wash 
                     | ropes
       GrandPaDeSade | True Aria
         night nurse | bye Spartab
          Michael P. | night Spartan, tina
      *Night Spirit* | did I miss anything?
         night nurse | oohhh typo
          Michael P. | hiya NS hugs
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Bye Spartan & tina    <hugs>
       GrandPaDeSade | Bye Spartin
         Aria (busy) | nope, think you got it all Night Spirit <G>
       GrandPaDeSade | Bye tina
         night nurse | bye tina
      *Night Spirit* | hugs again Michael
               Ellen | GP....I once ate lunch on a
               Ellen | rock......just ouside the ruins of your
               Ellen | castle.......<s>
      *Night Spirit* | so we all agree we like breast torture
       MoL's Katie J | yes, we like it <G>
  americas_best97008 | bye
         night nurse | very much soo
          Michael P. | yep
       GrandPaDeSade | Oh, how did you like it Ellen?
      *Night Spirit* | any last words?
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Yes, we doooOOO, NS
      Lord Excalibur | yes my dear of course <wg>
   Master of Leisure | no opposition here,,NS...<s>
  americas_best97008 | katie g sucks dont talk to her
       GrandPaDeSade | Actually, my son's castle, the marquis.
           Sarina V. | What's the topic next week, NS?
         Aria (busy) | other than thank y ou for another interesting and 
                     | informative Conference, no
   Master of Leisure | kicks americas in the gonads.......cant say balls i
   Master of Leisure | guess...<g>
      *Night Spirit* | americas she is my little sister, and it is not 
                     | nice to be nasty to folks on
      *Night Spirit* | line
          Michael P. | can I ask a question which might have been covered?
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Thanks GPDS, NS & Katie   <s>
  americas_best97008 | bye all
      *Night Spirit* | Katie what's the topic next week?
       MoL's Katie J | he's mad because I don't do age or sex checks <spit>
   Master of Leisure | and she is my sub,,,americas,,hmmm...lets take
   Master of Leisure | this to pc,,,,brb
       GrandPaDeSade | Sure Michael
       MoL's Katie J | let me look
                 mac | good night to( all) thankyou for letting me join in
                 mac | speak to you (all) tomorrow  :) BYE
      *Night Spirit* | sure Michael
      *Night Spirit* | Night mac
           Sarina V. | Michael, what's the question?
         night nurse | very informative conference
       GrandPaDeSade | night mac
          Michael P. | what do the dominants feel when they see the look 
                     | on the face of a submission
         night nurse | thank to all
          Michael P. | who is bound tightly, maybe having breathing 
                     | restricted just enough to raise a
          Michael P. | flush, when they see it isn't comfortable for them 
                     | yet freely given
          Michael P. | of a submissive that is
       MoL's Katie J | Sunday Aug. 30
       MoL's Katie J | Trust - Deserve or Earn It-
       MoL's Katie J | A deep discussion on trust, do all doms trust or do 
                     | they have to earn it?
         night nurse | good topic Katie
         Aria (busy) | <nodding>
          Michael P. | is that going to be a two way street Katie?
         Aria (busy) | i agree
      *Night Spirit* | oh one of my favorite topics, sis my computer 
                     | passed away can you send the list
      *Night Spirit* | to me
       MoL's Katie J | sure, NS!
          Michael P. | I mean, do dom's trust subs etc, or just subs 
                     | trusting dom's
         Aria (busy) | going to go look at Gypsy Moon
       MoL's Katie J | Trust is always a two way street, Michael
      *Night Spirit* | good point Michael :)
         Aria (busy) | see you all later <G>
       MoL's Katie J | hugs, Aria
                 mac | will you all be back at the same time tomorrow
           Sarina V. | Perhaps you should repost it, Katie.
          Michael P. | so I hear Katie, but not always I'm sure
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Bye Aria  <s>
       GrandPaDeSade | I enjoy the look and the feedback from a 
                     | submissive. But i also want them tio
       GrandPaDeSade | get the most they can out of it. So I will attepmt 
                     | to get them as far along the
       GrandPaDeSade | road of pleasure as possible. That gives me 
                     | pleasure.
          Michael P. | bye Ariea
       MoL's Katie J | thanks for coming everyone!
      *Night Spirit* | no mac next Sunday
   Master of Leisure | bye,,aria,,,<s>
     ~nikki~  (busy) | <sigh>
       MoL's Katie J | yes, I can do that for sure
           Sarina V. | We could also put it on hold so it doesn't scroll 
                     | for awhile.
         night nurse | bye aria
         Aria (busy) | whats the matter nikki?
       MoL's Katie J | easy enough to do Sarina :)
          Michael P. | same here GP
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Nothing, Aria   <s>
           ~wrybrat~ | a q for the Doms.. is it just her pleasure?
          Michael P. | and to see things which are difficult taken and 
                     | given is quite a nonverbal
          Michael P. | communication
      Lord Excalibur | I would agree with that GPDS (lagging again)
       GrandPaDeSade | No, it's mutual pleasure.
          Michael P. | not for me wry, I get great pleasure and a sort of 
                     | security from seeing it
          Michael P. | accepted
                 mac | speak to you next sunday......NS
       GrandPaDeSade | But we get pleasure out of seeing you happy.
   Master of Leisure | Nnope..wry,,it is mutual
          Michael P. | ditto GP
       MoL's Katie J | we look forward to seeing you join us, mac
       GrandPaDeSade | You are welcome any time mac
   Master of Leisure | welcome back ,,,,anytime,,mac.....good way to learn
      *Night Spirit* | wry as all things he is happy when I am, I am happy 
                     | when he is.  We always try
      *Night Spirit* | to reach our goal together
      Lord Excalibur | I get pleasure from seeing my sub happy and she 
                     | gets pleasure form seeingme
      Lord Excalibur | happy, I think thats been said in a more condensed 
                     | manner
          Michael P. | bye mac
           ~wrybrat~ | it's her total submission to the situation that 
                     | moves you?
          Michael P. | actually wry I'm quite amazed and moved by true 
                     | submission
           Sarina V. | The only thing I don't want to see is honest fear, 
                     | Michael.
           Sarina V. | ian takes quite a bit of pain, but if he ever gets 
                     | a fearful
           Sarina V. | look on his face, then I know I'm going over his 
                     | limits.
          Michael P. | especially when the act of it isn't something easy
           ~wrybrat~ | <s>
                 mac | thanks..master
         night nurse | trust is a big issue
       GrandPaDeSade | Both her submission, the fact that she is willing 
                     | to take what I do to make me
       GrandPaDeSade | happy, the fact that it makes her happy, and the 
                     | fact that we can enjoy it
       GrandPaDeSade | together.
         night nurse | it is the base of the relationship
          Michael P. | good point Sarina, fear is not an erotic emotion 
                     | unless it is well thought out,
          Michael P. | and mutually acceptible
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Yes, GPDS  <s>
           ~wrybrat~ | I think that fear is a very good topic, NS
      Lord Excalibur | very true night nurse
           Sarina V. | Yes, fear play is totally different.
                 mac | signing off BY
          Michael P. | fear for the sake of it isn't even sadistic IMHO, 
                     | it is abuse and abuse has no
          Michael P. | place here
      *Night Spirit* | wry I shall add it to the list :)
           Sarina V. | I'm talking about a time when it shouldn't be 
                     | fearful.
       GrandPaDeSade | Depends, some submissives like terror play
      Lord Excalibur | agree with Michael P
         night nurse | agree also with Michael P
          Michael P. | Sarina, I've seen marie get into a space in 
                     | situation where we'd been before,
          Michael P. | it was great before, but that day, for whatever 
                     | reason the signs weren't right
           Sarina V. | GP, I think we all mean when you're on the edge of 
                     | trust.
          Michael P. | the fear I saw in her eyes wasn't of me
       GrandPaDeSade | And what if the submissive requests it?
          Michael P. | it was of not pleasing me in something I'd been 
                     | able to do before
       GrandPaDeSade | Then i would agree Sarina
          Michael P. | same rules applied
          Michael P. | stop, cuddle talke
          Michael P. | fear isn't just of the action, it can be of not 
                     | being able to do the action
         night nurse | the Master should know his submissive so 
                     | well...that should be able to tell
         night nurse | when she is reaching her limit...or to know when to 
                     | slow down
           Sarina V. | Yes, and one of ian's biggest fears is of someday 
                     | being
           Sarina V. | released.  After 7 months, he still doesn't believe 
                     | this is
           Sarina V. | permanent in my book.
       GrandPaDeSade | Actually, in many cases NS feels free to be 
                     | terrified by what I'm threatening
       GrandPaDeSade | simply because somewhere deep inside she knows she 
                     | is safe with me.
  americas_best97008 | MASTER OF LEE IS FUCKING SHIT
          Michael P. | exactly nn, and the sub must communicate to the 
                     | dom, but the communication
          Michael P. | doesn't always require words, and it shouldn't just 
                     | be words.  The dom holds
          Michael P. | responsibility to protect
  americas_best97008 | SHES A SLUTE
           Sarina V. | If I joke about it too often, he gets skittish 
                     | about other
           Sarina V. | play.  You have to go real slowly when they get in 
                     | bad
           Sarina V. | headspace like that.
       GrandPaDeSade | Sarina, NS has been with me three years, and we are 
                     | getting married, and she
       GrandPaDeSade | still has that fear.
          Michael P. | excellent point, and that is erotic fear play
         night nurse | yes Michael P..the communication should be clear
         Aria (busy) | That I think is key Michael, the Dom ultimately 
                     | holds the key for being
         Aria (busy) | responsible for the play
         Aria (busy) | he should be totally in control of the situation
          Michael P. | yes Aria, and the sub the responsibility of 
                     | communicating her fears, being
          Michael P. | honest
         night nurse | and the Master should know himself well enough also
          Michael P. | in words and expression
         Aria (busy) | sometimes you can't at the time
          Michael P. | and a sub should never fear she has failed if she 
                     | can't do something
      Lord Excalibur | true Michael, I have know subs agree just because 
                     | they think they should
          Michael P. | as have I LE
           Sarina V. | All, my system is really slow here tonight and has 
                     | already
           Sarina V. | locked up once. I'm gonna go work on it some more
           Sarina V. | (recovering from a beta disaster).
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Miscommumicaton happens though.......
         night nurse | i am willing to try lots of new things
       MoL's Katie J | thanks for joining us, Sarina <S>
         Aria (busy) | sometimes you are too far gone... and many many 
                     | many dominants (note the lower
         Aria (busy) | case) think that they can coerce and manipulate by 
                     | intimidation
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Bye Sarina  <kotc>
         night nurse | but if it is not enjoyable for either of us or both 
                     | ,,then it is discussed
         Aria (busy) | because they want something
          Michael P. | bye Sarina
   Master of Leisure | nite,,Sarina
         Aria (busy) | somethings don't get discussed night nurse
      Lord Excalibur | that is the right way night nurse
      Lord Excalibur | bye Sarina
         Aria (busy) | not til after...
          Michael P. | the magic cure for all  nn, communication
       GrandPaDeSade | That is one of the hardest things to convince some 
                     | submissives of. That it's ok
       GrandPaDeSade | to safeword. Ok to say you've reached a limit. That 
                     | they WON'T please me by
       GrandPaDeSade | going too far.
         night nurse | yes Michael P
           Sarina V. | ian keeps a journal for me to read in which he 
                     | writes
           Sarina V. | down things on his mind while he's at work or while 
                     | I'm
           Sarina V. | at work...I read it when I have time to keep a 
                     | pulse on his
           Sarina V. | frame of mind.
       GrandPaDeSade | Bye Sarina
     ~nikki~  (busy) | There you go, NS......another topic?  
                     | Communication???
         night nurse | the base from which you should build
         Aria (busy) | no, the magic cure is, safe, sane, consensual, and 
                     | that means being in control
         Aria (busy) | of yourself, totally.... from beginning to end of 
                     | the scene
          Michael P. | that is often the case Aria, and most of the time 
                     | it works, but I feel when
          Michael P. | partners have been together a long time the 
                     | instances of having to learn after
          Michael P. | the  fact diminish
      *Night Spirit* | mikki will add it to the list
         Aria (busy) | that is only true when you live together day to day 
                     | and you learn each others
         Aria (busy) | nuances
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Thanks, NS.....I look forward to it.  <s>
           Sarina V. | Night nikki, GP, KatieJ!   See you around!
          Michael P. | nonverbal and verbel communication are great, but 
                     | real knowledge based on real
          Michael P. | intimacy, true opening of the mind, body and soul 
                     | make even the most subtle
          Michael P. | sign a scream
         Aria (busy) | distance and lack of real time and face to face 
                     | communication can change many
         Aria (busy) | things, just ask partners who travel
         Aria (busy) | how things get distraught and crazy from 
                     | misunderstandings
         night nurse | Michael P..spoken very well
       GrandPaDeSade | Bye all.
      Lord Excalibur | exactly Michael, the full knowledge of the sub, 
                     | mentally as well as physically
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Bye GPDS   <kotc>
           ~wrybrat~ | thanks everyone.. I cherish these times of sharing..
         Aria (busy) | i would, not humbly at all, disagree... if you 
                     | don't live with the person, you
         Aria (busy) | can NOT know them fully
          Michael P. | I do that with marie all the time Aria, and there 
                     | is a necessity for the first
          Michael P. | few hours to learn again
         Aria (busy) | first few hours?
         Aria (busy) | i see, you are a mind reader after that, eh?
       GrandPaDeSade | Aria, even if you do, you can't know them fully.
       GrandPaDeSade | Just better.
      Lord Excalibur | it can be so Aria
          Michael P. | and a recent wonderful experience with someone else 
                     | required going slow at
          Michael P. | first and learning if what was said with words 
                     | translated to what was real in
          Michael P. | person
         Aria (busy) | thats right GrandPa... y ou can't and to think that 
                     | you can, that you can have
         Aria (busy) | this wonderful world of magical connection with out 
                     | that, when you are hampered
         Aria (busy) | by distance is nuts
          Michael P. | no I'm not a mind reader, I'm the dom that has been 
                     | with her before and often,
          Michael P. | the one paying attention, the one that loves her 
                     | and the one that knows her
         Aria (busy) | I see <will keep opinions that are less than 
                     | flattering to myself>
          Michael P. | landmines can happen at any moment and only a fool 
                     | would stop paying attention
      Lord Excalibur | I will remain quite on that point
         night nurse | smiling at Michael P.. and Master of Leisure  
                     | ....respect them for taking the
         night nurse | time to investigate their subs completely
         Aria (busy) | wonderful to know that you can know yourself that 
                     | well and someone else as well
         night nurse | and Lord Excalibur
          Michael P. | I don't see the relevance of that remark Aria, but 
                     | whatever
         Aria (busy) | night nurse, it really doesn't sound like that is 
                     | what Michael is doing at all
     ~nikki~  (busy) | <<--- is still seeking the *me* I need to know....
          Michael P. | it isn't a matter of knowing you can, it is a 
                     | matter of making yourself do it
         Aria (busy) | you don't see the relevance of that remark?
       GrandPaDeSade | I am a hypnotherapist. I have spent many hours 
                     | inside Night Spirits mind with
       GrandPaDeSade | her. On the otherside of those protective gates of 
                     | consciousness. Yet, the more
       GrandPaDeSade | I learn about her, the more I still have to learn.
          Michael P. | not thinking about what pleases me while letting 
                     | another do what pleases me
          Michael P. | exactly GP, the well is deep
   Master of Leisure | smiles at night nurse......knowing your sub
         Aria (busy) | thank you GrandPa... to think that you can know 
                     | someone, and not be that
         Aria (busy) | intimate with them, takes a great deal of gall
      Lord Excalibur | I believe you constantly learn, about yourself and 
                     | your partner
   Master of Leisure | emotionally, psychollogically, mentally and yes
   Master of Leisure | physically take a lot of time,,night nurse.....and 
                     | it is a
   Master of Leisure | pleasure to know kaite
       GrandPaDeSade | It makes me aware of how little one can really know 
                     | about another.
         night nurse | pleasure and pain should be mutual
     ~nikki~  (busy) | GPDS.......can you/do you use hyponotherapy in 
                     | scene???
         night nurse | satisfuying both mutually
          Michael P. | who said that you could Aria, perhaps I missed 
                     | something and don't want to
          Michael P. | misinterpret
         night nurse | this is not a one sided relationship
         Aria (busy) | you seem to continue to imply that Michael, over 
                     | and over again
          Michael P. | never nn
   Master of Leisure | it is very mutual,,,,nn......
       GrandPaDeSade | nikki, some do, I won't. I do do some wonderful 
                     | giuded dreams though. Very
          Michael P. | I don't see that Aria, quite the opposite is what 
                     | I've been saying, but you are
       GrandPaDeSade | vivid. NS has been sold into slavery, and many 
                     | other things.
          Michael P. | certainly entitled to put your spin on it
          Michael P. | (S)
      Lord Excalibur | has to be in my mind
                 m&m | hello all
          Michael P. | hi m&m
         night nurse | trust, communication, and caring along with all the 
                     | others make the
         night nurse | relationship grow,, open...
          Michael P. | ditto nn
      *Night Spirit* | we love to do guided dreams real erotic
         Aria (busy) | Michael, can I restate what you have said, or are 
                     | you busy and need to get
         Aria (busy) | somewhere else?
          Michael P. | absoluletly, there is no excuse for anything other 
                     | than that
          Michael P. | I'm fine here right now Aria, please help me to 
                     | understand where you
          Michael P. | misunderstood my thoughts
      Lord Excalibur | LA and I do the same NS
                 m&m | anyone wanna chat hit 666
       GrandPaDeSade | Past life regressions are also interesting for many 
                     | submissives.
     ~nikki~  (busy) | Really GPDS???   Yikes!  You should hear some of my 
                     | dreams......
   Master of Leisure | very true,,nn
         night nurse | I would not be with anyone Master who did not take 
                     | the time to get to know me
         night nurse | my desires
         night nurse | my pleasures
         night nurse | my dreams
         night nurse | my thoughts
          Michael P. | your fears, history, needs
          Michael P. | and limits
         night nurse | yes exactly Michael P
     ~nikki~  (busy) | That can be quite difficult online tho, night 
                     | nurse...
         night nurse | and  in him knowing me I must also get to know the 
                     | same of him
      *Night Spirit* | nikki and Lord E I have this vampire thing, he 
                     | makes me see him as one,
      *Night Spirit* | beleiving it, feeling it it is hot hot hot
      Lord Excalibur | before taking on any sub I would need to know all 
                     | if not some of all you are
      Lord Excalibur | saying nn and Michael
         night nurse | not if you are asked the right questions
       GrandPaDeSade | nikki, hypnosis can make it so real I have to give 
                     | precautions to the mind that
       GrandPaDeSade | it IS only a dream, and the body should not react 
                     | to any of it with shock.
   Master of Leisure | you should not,,nn......you should have a Dom that
   Master of Leisure | cares as much for you,,,as you care for him..
          Michael P. | if he is honest with you that should happen nn
         night nurse | revealling your inner most thoughts..experiences,, 
                     | past.
      Lord Excalibur | I have heard you mention it before NS
          Michael P. | well said MoL
      Lord Excalibur | totally agree MoL
   Master of Leisure | nods at his friend,,Michael
   Master of Leisure | and LE
         night nurse | that is the relationship i have
       GrandPaDeSade | It is NOT something to play with unless you know 
                     | what you are doing.
   Master of Leisure | good nite,,,,,everyone,,,,,good session,,,,,time for
   Master of Leisure | dinner
      Lord Excalibur | goodnight MoL
   Dorene J. Everett | hello
          Michael P. | thought so from the insight you shared nn
          Michael P. | night and shakes MoL
     ~nikki~  (busy) | I have only been hypotised once......but is didn't 
                     | help me stop smoking  <sigh>
     ~nikki~  (busy) | I was put under and made to eat an onion 
                     | tho....ugh!!
       GrandPaDeSade | Night MOL
          Michael P. | hello Dorne
      *Night Spirit* | I am also off hugs and licks all
         night nurse | smiling
          Michael P. | Dorene (s)
********** 8/23/98  6:31 PM End logging Silken Ties.