Poly Relationships
********** 5/3/98 5:00 PM Begin logging Sub Pub - D/s.
Lady WolfSpirit | <kisses Elder>..i missed you today
fit to be tied | huggggsss ltr....<g>... how are you love?
lost sutra | big huggs & kisses NS
Eldersign | I missed me, too...but the couch didn't/.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <--walks in waving to the lovely folks :)
lost toy robot | okay, fit...you?
Eldersign | :grins:
Lady WolfSpirit | lol
lost toy robot | hello NS!!!
Eldersign | :hugs NS:
wry告lk | hugggggs NS :-)
nightmyst | Hello, Elder, Sir.. and LWS.
fit to be tied | doing well today.... <g>... i seem to live day to
| day right now <wink>
Master of Leisure | winks at NS as he walks into the room and
Master of Leisure | sits down in his black, leather
Master of Leisure | chair....hugggs darlin
*Night Spirit [HOST] | hugs hugs to sutra, toy and that sexy Elderguy
Lady WolfSpirit | <pours Elder and herself a cup of coffee>
Lady WolfSpirit | hello nightmyst
lost toy robot | i know how that is, fit.....
effy | [waves to NS]
Eldersign | :chuckles: NS...I love you.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | hugs to you MoL you are so cute in that chair--look
| good in leather
Eldersign | Hugs, Nightmyst.
Lady WolfSpirit | <leans back against Elder and
| relaxes....flinching...forgot about her
Lady WolfSpirit | sunburn>...ouch!!!!
Lady Rapunzel | <mutters> He'd look better in chains
Master of Leisure | winks back at NS....<S>
nightmyst | hugs, Sir
fit to be tied | <snicker>
Eldersign | :places Nightmyst safely at his feet:
lost sutra | <giggling at thought of MOL in chains>
lost toy robot | sutra? think he got lost? <giggling>
lost sutra | <respectively of course>
lost sutra | lol, toy
Master of Leisure | no....Lady R..you would look good in CHAINS
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Lost got lost again?
Lady Rapunzel | <laughs>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <--spent one night being chained to GrPa--kinda
| liked it
nightmyst | <sits quietly, watching>
lost toy robot | <deep curtsy> it would appear so, GrPa, Sir...
Master of Leisure | I have the chains,,,,hon....<eg>
Lady Rapunzel | <- *has* someone to chain her, thank you MoL ;)
Master of Leisure | yep..I know..darlin.....<g>
lost toy robot | oops....hi, btw....<laffin>
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | From Lady R's attitude and knowlege, I suspect she
| would look good in anything.
Master of Leisure | hmmm.....filet oscar.....toy......wink
lost toy robot | MoL!!!!!! geeeeeeeeeeeeez
Lady WolfSpirit | <smiles>...hello GrPa
Master of Leisure | good to see you..GPDS
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Greetings Lady WolfSpirit
Lady Rapunzel | <laughs> GrPa.. that's not knowledge.. I just have
| lots of books to hand ;)
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok a couple more seconds of group grope then I hope
| to begin
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Hello MOL
wry告lk | <sitting invisible>
Lady Rapunzel | <- has a PhD in bluffing
Lady WolfSpirit | lol LR
Master of Leisure | hands wry a hershey kiss......smiles
lost sutra | you mean we have to stop groping NS??? <pout>
Lady Rapunzel | But okay, okay, I *do* have an attitude
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Oh come on NS, we like the group grope
MoL's Katie J | and a charming one too, Lady Rap
MoL's Katie J | <s>
Lady Rapunzel | <smile> Katie
*Night Spirit [HOST] | sutra you can not grope and type at the same time
Lady WolfSpirit | <freshens Elder's coffe and pours a cup for
| nightmyst...lights a cig for Elder>
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Hi Katie
lost sutra | i can try, NS
*Night Spirit [HOST] | theres the special lady of the hour
lost toy robot | LOL....if there's a way, NS..sutra will find it
fit to be tied | huggggerssss KJ
Eldersign | :takes ciggie, and draws, deeply:
nightmyst | <smiles warmly and accepts the cup> thank you, Ma'am
Lady WolfSpirit | <smiles>
MoL's Katie J | hiya GrandPa
MoL's Katie J | hugggggggs, fit
Lady Rapunzel | May I make my announcement now, NS?
Lady WolfSpirit | you are welcome nightmyst
*Night Spirit [HOST] | yes Lady R you sure can
Lady Rapunzel | Just a reminder, please... get me those avatars!
| Otherwise there won't *be* a picture <smile> Thanks.
MoL's Katie J | hugs and kisses around the room <s>
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Yes Lady r
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Sorry about the lower Case R l Lady R
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Ladies and Gentlemen welcome to the weekly sub pub
| CO--today in a sort of
*Night Spirit [HOST] | continuing of last week--we are gonna discuss poly
| realtionships
Lady Rapunzel | ;) GrPa.. I don't mind.. not if it's you
*Night Spirit [HOST] | lucky for us we have 2 of the lost family here
Lady WolfSpirit | <leans back against Elder trying to get comfy>
lost toy robot | <giggling> appears lost is....well....lost
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Poor lost lost
Master of Leisure | hmmm.....chocolate mouse with raspberry
Master of Leisure | sauce and white chocolate shavings
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I hope to also cover how to do a poly realtionship
| and bi sexual and switching
lost toy robot | :-P MoL
*Night Spirit [HOST] | lost is always lost <wink>
Lady Rapunzel | Oh MoL, *stop* thinking about your stomach!
Master of Leisure | chuckling
Eldersign | MoL...you're a hedonist.
Eldersign | :grin:
Lady WolfSpirit | <perks>..switching??...<BG>
Lady Rapunzel | <laughs>
Master of Leisure | ROFL....
Erek & kisa | <Slips in quietly, waves to all and settles into
| comfy chair, kisa at his feet>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | yep Switching, poly, bisexual and how to have fun
| with more then 2
MoL's Katie J | <climbing into Master's lap, and snuggling to his
| stomach>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | hugs to kisa and Erek--always lovely seeing you here
Erek & kisa | (((NS)))
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Lday WS how about you starting us :)
Master of Leisure | laying her head on my shoulder.....and
Master of Leisure | bruishing her hair bak from her face
*Night Spirit [HOST] | make that Lady WS
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Just a short ad. tell everyone you think might be
| interested about this
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | discussion everyone. The more the better, Maybe we
| can expand to two a week.
Lady WolfSpirit | starting what??
*Night Spirit [HOST] | you are a switch--how do you Domme to one and sub
| to another?
Lady WolfSpirit | <mumbling...hell...didnt bring any darn notes or
| anything>
Lady Rapunzel | <laughing>
Lady WolfSpirit | uummm...very carefully??
fit to be tied | <giggle>
Lady WolfSpirit | <BG>
fit to be tied | lol
Master of Leisure | notes....you dont need no stinkin
Master of Leisure | notes.LWS.....chucklin
Lady WolfSpirit | seriously....
Lady WolfSpirit | it is not easy
Beorn & suchy | Greetings Playmates <S>
Master of Leisure | hugggs..suchie,,,,,,and shakes......Beorn
MoL's Katie J | Why is it not easy, Lady WS?
MoL's Katie J | What do you find difficult?
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Hello Beorn & suchy
Lady WolfSpirit | i am naturally Domme, so being Domme is not a
| problem...it is being sub that i
Lady WolfSpirit | am still having a problem with...<BG>
Beorn & suchy | Shakes MoL <S> hugggs .. GPDS <S>
Lady WolfSpirit | i find it hard not to disobey
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Lady WS how many subs do you have?
MoL's Katie J | That is more of a bother than splitting your
| affections?
Eldersign | :whistles casually:
Lady WolfSpirit | i have a tendency to rebel...
Lady WolfSpirit | i have one NS
Lady WolfSpirit | <smiles at Elder>
Lady WolfSpirit | true Katie
*Night Spirit [HOST] | rebelling in a Switch I think is normal
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Lady WS, that's one of the reasons I don't even try
| to sub. I'd do the opposite
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | just because I was told to do something.
Lady WolfSpirit | <smiles at NS>...well, then its nice to know im
| normal??
lost toy robot | <smiles at lost> welcome, Sir...
lost sutra | <running to master's left leg>
Lady WolfSpirit | lol GrPa...exactly
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Lady WS I always thought you were :)
lost sutra | glad you could join us, sir
lost toy robot | <running to his right leg>
lostonearth | cserve didn't want to let me in sorry to be late
Lady WolfSpirit | but as far as dividing my affections...i dont find
| that hard at all
Eldersign | Evening, lost. :)
*Night Spirit [HOST] | loston earth as always I am tickled to seeya
MoL's Katie J | We were talking about the difficulties inherent in
| multiple relationships,
MoL's Katie J | lost, Sir.
lostonearth | good evening, night spirit (s) hugs
Erek & kisa | <Kisa> <<Sometimes a common problem with switches
| that, not always easy to obey - so I don't do so
| for anyone except Erek>>
MoL's Katie J | just to bring you up to where we are in the
| conversation <s>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok shifting--lostonearth, sutra and toy how do you
| do the poly thing?
Lady WolfSpirit | my main goal is to make sure that Elder is loved
| and pleased and happy....my
Lady WolfSpirit | sub comes second to that
lost sutra | lots of communication...honest communication
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Better watch it lost, your family may think they
| are free if you keep missing
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | this.
Erek & kisa | <<And sometimes even we have some set tos over
| whose driving this bus>>
lostonearth | shakes, friend grpa (g)
lostonearth | my most prized possessions free? never (s)
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | shakes lost
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Kisa are you and Erek both switches?
kara (C) | hi everybody, sorry i'm late
Master of Leisure | explain your communication.......sutra,
Master of Leisure | toy,,,,lost
lost sutra | if i may, lost sir?
lostonearth | (letting toy robot and sutra begin)
Erek & kisa | NS - No, I (Erek) am only Dom, kisa is bi=switch
| and tends to Dom only fems
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Sounds like NS and I Erek & kisa
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek and kisa do you both double dom...dom others
| together?
lost sutra | if there is anything bothering any member of the
| 'family' it should be talked about, rationaly
lost sutra | and openly and a mutual decision on how to handle
| it should be reached, that all three
lost sutra | agree upon......after discussing each members views
| & the pros & cons of the decision
Lady WolfSpirit | also sounds like Elder and I
Erek & kisa | <<No>> Not really
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Except that she likes to dom men too.
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Double domming is fun
*Night Spirit [HOST] | so sutra for your the family it is all 3 must agree?
lost toy robot | we have used this way of communicating....since I
| joined the family...and it
lost toy robot | has created a warm...loving situation for all of
| us....
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | What if they disagree sutra?
lost sutra | yes, NS
Master of Leisure | what if the three of you do not agree on the
Master of Leisure | thing that you are discussing...sutra
lost sutra | otherwise one is left out
MoL's Katie J | <great Doms think alike>
Lady Rapunzel | <subs seldom differ>
Beorn & suchy | ( only sometimes, Katie .. ) <S>
lost sutra | then we need to find out why & tackle or disect the
| issue until if becomes a non-issue
lostonearth | there must be agreement
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok here is a thought---sutra, toy and lost go to
| the movies, 2 of you want to
*Night Spirit [HOST] | see Titanic the other wants to see City of
| Angels--how do you solve this?
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | <Bowing deeply> Thank you Katie <Hitting head on
| floor>
!PK's~crickett~ | made it folks <s>
Painter | walks in waves....watches...<s>
MoL's Katie J | <uploading ice to GPDS>
Eldersign | (What does lost want to see?)
lost sutra | lost goes to City of Angels & toy & sutra go to
| titanic
lost sutra | <s>
Excite Me | Good evening everyone
Master of Leisure | ice >>PERK
Erek&<kisaE> | ((Putting rest of answer on hold while others talk,
| is something to come back to tho))
Lady WolfSpirit | lol Elder
lost toy robot | <giggling> i will see whatever lost wants to
| see....
Eldersign | :chuckle:
Lady WolfSpirit | my thought
lost toy robot | <laffin @ sutra....>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | interesting
lost toy robot | chick movie hon?
lost sutra | er, um ....... what sis said (right sir?)
lostonearth | but there will be no discussion on "godzilla"
lostonearth | (sometimes being the dominant one has benefits (g))
Lady WolfSpirit | rofl
!PK's~crickett~ | lol
Eldersign | rofl
Master of Leisure | lafffin...
fit to be tied | LOL
*Night Spirit [HOST] | lost why not take me to see it, it opens on my
| birthday <wink>
Master of Leisure | godzilla is great....
Painter | mmmHe breathes..fire...like some<smile>
lost sutra | godzilla is a must see.....
lost sutra | no discussion needed
lost toy robot | <S> agreed
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | what if sutra and robot badly wanted to see movie
| you thought you would hate
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | lost, and they wanted you to go too.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok sutra and toy and lost--how is housework broken
| up?
Lady WolfSpirit | <--would rather go see Barney the purple dinasour
| live than sit through godzilla
lost toy robot | <quiets at this question>
lost sutra | lost moves his feet when the vacuum goes by the
| couch
lostonearth | we will be taking a hint from grpa on that one, ns
| (s)
kara (C) | lol
wry告lk | lol sutra
lost toy robot | lol sis
lost toy robot | that is...if he has the remote? <S>
Erek&<kisaE> | LWS - Shoot Barney, feed 'em to GACKzilla <g>
lost sutra | ahhh sis, he ALWAYS has the remote
MoL's Katie J | but really, you manage to reach a consensus on
| everything? one way or another?
Lady WolfSpirit | lol
*Night Spirit [HOST] | anyone else here had a poly experience?
lostonearth | we try, katie
lost sutra | you have to Katie........to many emotions come into
| play otherwise
Erek&<kisaE> | Yes - both together and in previous relationships
MoL's Katie J | <s>
Lady Rapunzel | I would like to ask something of the lost family,
| if I may?
Beorn & suchy | ? now maybe i am very weird ... I am not too sure
| anymore ... But exactly What
Beorn & suchy | is the discussion ? I dont want to stub my toe ..
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <--thinking no matter what lostonearth is the boss
| <and is so damn sexy>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | please Lady R
Lady Rapunzel | Who joined last?
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | I suspect you can't always agree on everything. But
| you can agree to let the
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | others have their way at times.
lost toy robot | <agrees with NS about the sexy
lost toy robot | that would be me, Lady Rap
Painter | mmmactually I did one time for awhile...before I
| knew It was Dom/sub<s>
lost sutra | yes, GRPA
Lady Rapunzel | How did you feel about toy joining, sutra?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Beorn and such--the discussion is poly realtionship
| 3 or more
Master of Leisure | communication has to be the
Master of Leisure | key,,,,here...eveything must be open to all.....
wry告lk | sutra.. how do you feel with toy being called the
| "special one"?
lost sutra | i think it is wonderful, Lady Rap
Beorn & suchy | Thank You , NS <S>
lostonearth | may i take a bit of screen time here?
Lady Rapunzel | Did you think that straight away, sutra?
lost sutra | it (if i may quote my sister) just feels right
Painter | two sisters...err who ...liked me was 18...
lostonearth | sutra is the dear one, wry
*Night Spirit [HOST] | please lostonearth--go for it
wry告lk | <s>
fit to be tied | <tiptoeing back in dusting off her butt>
Painter | so I took both of them they liked it I did too..
Eldersign | <= Dated the Kovacevic twins in high school...one
| had a
Eldersign | birthmark...er...
lostonearth | as some of you may know, i have two sides of my
lostonearth | dominant self
Erek&<kisaE> | <tossing cyberline to fit, hoping our own seatbelts
| hold>
lostonearth | one is laid back and one is "hard"
fit to be tied | thanks Erek and kisa...<G>
Painter | was natural as hell we didnt even know it was
| wrong<g>
Lady WolfSpirit | <smiles at Elder>
lostonearth | it is near imposssible to find one submissive who
| can
lostonearth | fulfill both sides
!PK's~crickett~ | <listening>
lostonearth | sutra has been in my life for a while now and
| fulfills the
lostonearth | hard side
Painter | at 18 I guess. is different from this but similar...
Lady WolfSpirit | <tells Painter to ssshhhhhh>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | lost does sutra or toy ever dom the other?
lost sutra | <snuggling against master's left side.....listening
| intently>
lostonearth | one who serves in that way can easily find
| themselves
lostonearth | feeling that they are nothing more than a whipping
| post
lostonearth | not yet, ns
Erek&<kisaE> | lost - Hmmm, but don't the subs also cycle thru
| levels of needing harder & softer???
lostonearth | sutra knows/feels she needs a sister to support her
lostonearth | when i am being extra sadistic/hard.......
Painter | LWS...someone make you queen dear?
Master of Leisure | in your case,,,lost.....toy would be the one
Master of Leisure | who takes care of your soft side, but she is
Master of Leisure | also in training for the hard side....
Lady Rapunzel | Yes, but I think only within the specific
| requirements they have for the way they need a Dom
| to be... am I right, lost?
Lady WolfSpirit | just trying to listen to an actual conversation
| Painter..not babble hon...<s>
lostonearth | to some extent, mol
Painter | <smile> I see..
lostonearth | they both have different natures on how to serve
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I love it when GrPa is going at it hard and I hold
| someone else..but sadly most
Painter | the babble..
*Night Spirit [HOST] | folks I play with want to submit to me not with me
MoL's Katie J | I appreciate your input, Painter.
lost toy robot | no, MoL, sir....i have been there..and never wish
| to return....i will always be
lost toy robot | a gentle sub ....
wry告lk | <smiling at toy>
lostonearth | we tried with river, but as many of you know, that
| did not
lostonearth | work out
Master of Leisure | brb
lost sutra | <hugging toy>
lost toy robot | <hugging sutra.....>
lostonearth | i was led to believe, by her, that she was the one
*Night Spirit [HOST] | lost we all hope to find the right person<s>
| sometimes we do sometimes we don't
lostonearth | for some time now, i have been looking for someone
lostonearth | who i can relate to and who can also accept sutra
| as a
lostonearth | sister
Erek&<kisaE> | lost - asking again as question seems lost in scrol
| but don't the subs also cycle thru levels of
| needing harder & softer?
MoL's Katie J | as do the Doms, Erek?
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | It's hard to find the right someone for that lost
fantasy man | hello there, a/s?
Lady Rapunzel | Only within the bounds of what they specifically
| require from a Dom, I think, Erek. IMHO
lostonearth | toy robot came into my life and i almost immediately
lostonearth | knew that she was the one
Lady WolfSpirit | i was thinking the same thing Katie...<S>
Erek&<kisaE> | MOL -as lost already said, he's got at least two
| sides to his nature <g>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | fantasy man you may not ask that during a CO,
| however you may stay and
*Night Spirit [HOST] | contribute
lostonearth | my two do not cycle
Painter | so lear it is<smile>...
lost sutra | yes Erek & kisa....but what i consider soft, most
| subs consider hard
lostonearth | due to their past experiences, they both have strong
lostonearth | beliefs as to how they want to serve
Master of Leisure | yes,,I know that Erek....have for a long time
Lady Rapunzel | No, Painter.. Lear had *three* girls <laughing>
lostonearth | i will never try to change them
lost sutra | when i want soft.......i still leave a scene with
| marks & welts
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | hard and soft are VERY relative terms
Erek&<kisaE> | Very relative
Erek&<kisaE> | <<VERY>>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | lostonearth have you ever given thought to more
| then 3 of you--needing a 4th or
*Night Spirit [HOST] | more member?
lost toy robot | when i want hard....a spanking may be required...to
| illustrate the difference
lost toy robot | between sutra and i
lost toy robot | <giggling>
Lady WolfSpirit | <thinking lost would definitely die a happy man>
lostonearth | no, ns but i have been approached by
| submissives
lostonearth | lately who would like to also be members of the
| family
lostonearth | (g)
fit to be tied | lol
Senses | How does one communicate whether they want hard or
| soft?
lostonearth | we need time together as a trio so i have declined
Lady WolfSpirit | attitude Senses
Erek&<kisaE> | LWS - and likely right shortly too <g>
Lady WolfSpirit | lol Erek
lost sutra | <weg> thinking about more trio times
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | I understand lost. I think we could handle a third,
| But more would be too much.
lost toy robot | <weg> here too sutra
lostonearth | i agree, grpa
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Senses alot has to do with knowing what you want
| and being able to discuss it
*Night Spirit [HOST] | with who you are with
MoL's Katie J | and reactions to what is going on in a scene too,
| Senses ....
Senses | okie <s>
MoL's Katie J | Body language.
Lady WolfSpirit | <--when she needs hard, she's a very bad
| subbie..<BG>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I was lucky to one night have leashed to me sutra
| and river--wondering if I
*Night Spirit [HOST] | might ever get another chance with sutra and toy?
Erek&<kisaE> | UH - I do have soemthing to inject here
lostonearth | if there is ever an addition to this family, it
| will be my two
lostonearth | special/dear ones asking me to bring in someone they
lostonearth | have met
*Night Spirit [HOST] | yes E and k?
lost sutra | i will admit to being a little worried about how
| toy will react the first time she witnesses a
lost sutra | scene when i want a hard session
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | NS is a switch and a SAM too Lady WS
wry告lk | I envy the closeness displayed here.. and *that's*
| really odd.. <laffing>
lostonearth | wait until september, ns (es)
Lady WolfSpirit | SAM??
Erek&<kisaE> | About knowing hard and soft, etc - it does need to
| be said that at least every so often a sub must do
| what they might not --
lost toy robot | that is a concern of mine as well., sutra...
*Night Spirit [HOST] | lost I do so love ya
Eldersign | Smart assed masochist...i.e, you.
Lady WolfSpirit | lol Elder
Erek&<kisaE> | rather do simply because the Doms wants to do it or
| jhave it done.
Beorn & suchy | ( whispers cause i dont waqnt to intrude .. but i
| jusat adore getting together
Beorn & suchy | with my sub fem friends ,S. and engaging in some
| very delicious .. consensual
Beorn & suchy | activities with Beorn at the helm ... <S> i watch
| him sometimes ,,. and chuckle
Beorn & suchy | .. as he d=ivided himself ..
lostonearth | suchy?
Beorn & suchy | yes loe ?
!PhantomKnight | <glides in>
lostonearth | you have said it eggs ackley
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok kisa a question Erek tells you to stand in
| traffic--do you do it cuz you
*Night Spirit [HOST] | were ordered do you argue with him, or do you trust
| him not to harm you and he
*Night Spirit [HOST] | will stop you?
!PK's~crickett~ | <VBS>
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | We have had sub female friends come over and have
| double dommed them. Anyone
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | else try that?
fantasy man | any sexy wanna chat
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | It's interesting, doming someone else with someone
| you normally dom.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | we have done couples GrPa, me, anothr dom and a sub
Erek&<kisaE> | <<I know that he will not ever put me at more risk
| than he can handle, in fact will move to lessen any
| risk greater than what --
Beorn & suchy | Beorn> Yes .. Gr Pa .. ... we do that .
lostonearth | fantasy man, be quiet
Master of Leisure | have not done that,,,,,GPDS.....
*Night Spirit [HOST] | fantasy man I will not tell you again, please stick
| to the subject which is
*Night Spirit [HOST] | poly relationships or please leave
Master of Leisure | katie has no desire for that
Erek&<kisaE> | he feels capable of handling. This is a trust
| issue I know, but at some point one takes that leap
| of faith.
Master of Leisure | brb
fantasy man | go straight to hell lostonearth
lost toy robot | ohmy
*Night Spirit [HOST] | kisa I agree
lostonearth | that is another reason i have wanted two
| submissives.
lostonearth | when there are sisters, there is no feeling of
| jealousy
lostonearth | that a single sub might feel with an addition...
Beorn & suchy | Beorn> There are times when suchana is in Switch
| mode and we are both Dom/ming
Beorn & suchy | .. and times when she exists as my personal
| attendant, doing what ever i desire
Beorn & suchy | her to do to assist me in Domming the other person
| (s)
Erek&<kisaE> | so the other side of that is I'd know something was
| wacko if he ordered me to do something that
| stupid.>>
wry告lk | how did they become sisters, lost?
Electricblueyes | I know this will pass unnoticed, but
Electricblueyes | my experience is, jealousy is always
Electricblueyes | there, in unexpected people
wry告lk | sutra was a single sub, was she not?
lostonearth | sutra has been a domme, but she never wants to let
| it
lostonearth | out again, so she would have to share submissive
lostonearth | duties if we were to invite a third. ido not want
| her to feel
lostonearth | that way
Lady WolfSpirit | yes Electric...if it is an unexpected person
| joining...
lost sutra | <smiling up at lost>
MoL's Katie J | yes, that's the difference .. whether or not you
| expect and or agree to it.
wry告lk | <sigh> I don't understand..
Electricblueyes | N0--meaning the least you would
Electricblueyes | expect that from
Lady WolfSpirit | true Katie
Lady WolfSpirit | before i collared blaze, Elder and i discussed it
| at great length
lost sutra | wry.....i was Domme for many years....lost is the
| only dom i have ever met that can make me
lost sutra | willingly submit.....i have turned the tables on
| any others that tried.......
Lady WolfSpirit | no Electric...it it is discussed before it is done,
| jealousy should never enter
Lady WolfSpirit | the picture
*Night Spirit [HOST] | lost what if in a few years sutra did decide to
| become Domme to toy at
*Night Spirit [HOST] | times...how would this effect the relationship?
Erek&<kisaE> | Ebeyes - some people are monogamous by nature and
| should not be expected or required to be aught
| else, otoh the poly's
Erek&<kisaE> | are usually capable of accepting another polyy
lost sutra | he has needs that i know i will never meet, or
| desire to meet....that is the part of him that toy
lost sutra | fulfills...she fulfills the same for me
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Lady WS it should never--however at times it does
Lady WolfSpirit | <smiles at NS>
lostonearth | if i may say something to mine...........i love you
| both and
lostonearth | you are equals in my sight. i do not know how i
| would
lostonearth | get along if either of you were not in my life
lostonearth | sutra will only domme toy robot if toy robot
| desires it
Electricblueyes | sutra, fine--but what if one partner is
Electricblueyes | a player--one is not??
lostonearth | that will be a decision that i will have no part in
Lady WolfSpirit | <smiels at lost>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | but it would be alright with you lost if this was
| what she needed and toy
*Night Spirit [HOST] | agreed?
lost sutra | NS, it is more likely that at some point that toy
| will domme me to some extent
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | sutra, that sounded like something NS has said
| about me.
lost sutra | in what sense EBE?
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | The thing about not many being able to dom her.
Jessie* | Hi all
*Night Spirit [HOST] | see I search for a sister like ya'll have--just not
| been lucky to find one for
*Night Spirit [HOST] | us
Lady Rapunzel | <- feels that way about Endemoniado, GrPa
mr.fix it | hello everyone
Lady Rapunzel | I simply couldn't submit to any other, not for any
| length of time
Lady WolfSpirit | you will find one NS...<S>
Electricblueyes | sutra--let's say I want to play, but my
Electricblueyes | "friend" doesn't like that--then what??
lostonearth | we had a player, ebe (g)
*Night Spirit [HOST] | hi jessie and mr fix it welcome to the sub pub
| weekly CO tonight subject is
*Night Spirit [HOST] | poly relationships in D/s
Erek&<kisaE> | lost - I know you feel that they are equals, but is
| one not primary???
lostonearth | (noticing that toy robot has grown quiet)
Beorn & suchy | Master stated that He would LOVE to add a third
| party to our family ...
lost toy robot | i'm here, Sir.....listening intently...
wry告lk | <ggling>pick me!!!
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | To some extent NS, Lady R, and sutra, it's probably
| a matching of personalities
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | too.
Erek&<kisaE> | wry - lol
lostonearth | (shaking head) how can one be primary if they
| fulfill
lostonearth | different parts of me?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | suchy how do you feel about it?
Lady Rapunzel | Yes, of course, GrPa <smile> That's love for you
lost sutra | then it does not work EBE
Beorn & suchy | ( we would only pick you wrywry ! )
Beorn & suchy | i would welcome it NS ..
Erek&<kisaE> | lost - then you are lucky indeed, for all the many
| times I've had multiple subs, eventually one came
| to be primary, even in
Erek&<kisaE> | my own head
Erek&<kisaE> | if not always in my heart
lostonearth | if i am in a certain "mode" for a while, i may
| spend a bit
lostonearth | more time with one over the other, but it all works
| out
lostonearth | evenly in the long run.....
Naked$lave<f> | Night Spirit, you didn't say hello to me.....
| <sulks>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | lost if I may do you find you spend more time with
| one or the other or with
*Night Spirit [HOST] | both at the same time?
lost sutra | <hugging sis> you get him when he acts like a man???
Electricblueyes | Ahhhh--but my Mistress wants to
Electricblueyes | choose my sub! Now what???
lostonearth | and it does help that they are both extremely
| intelligent
lostonearth | women
lost toy robot | ROFLMAO must be sis.....
Beorn & suchy | i would adore sharing my Master, my life, my heart,
| soul and desires withy
Beorn & suchy | someone Beorn feels is as equally special to Him as
| He feels i am ! <S>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | well in that case hello naked slave and are you?
Naked$lave<f> | I am.....and I'm gagging for a shagging....sadly
| neglected.
Erek&<kisaE> | ]Ebeyes - then whoever that is is NOT your sub -
| they are your Misstress and she is ordering you to
| Top
lostonearth | as i said, ns, it depends on my "mood/mode"
Erek&<kisaE> | <<Usually a bad scene too>>
Lady WolfSpirit | lol Erek..she is his Mistress
*Night Spirit [HOST] | naked not here--but you may contribute to the CO on
| poly relationships in D/s
MoL's Katie J | I have sent that to naked privately.
Lady WolfSpirit | Electric, as your Mistress, she does have the right
| to choose for you
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | That's a shame Naked slave. It's always sad to see
| a neglected slave.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | so lost it might be you and toy, toy and sutra,
| sutra and you or all 3 together
*Night Spirit [HOST] | depending on moods?
lost sutra | EBE, if your opinion is not being sought then it is
| not your choice
Erek&<kisaE> | LWS - Not sur if even I follow all my is'is's <g>
Naked$lave<f> | Yes isn't it Grandpa....
Lady WolfSpirit | as well as approve or disapprove of one you choose
Electricblueyes | what????
lostonearth | yes, ns eggs ackley
Electricblueyes | Now ait!
lost sutra | <perking> at NS's comment
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Now this is a CIO, and you need to participate
| Naked Salve. or just listen.
Electricblueyes | wait!
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | CO, not CIO
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok hold on EBE has the floor
Electricblueyes | why should my Mistress choose for
Electricblueyes | me??
Lady WolfSpirit | as your Mistress Electric, she has the right to
| choose a sub for you.....or
Lady WolfSpirit | approve/disapprove of one you choose
Lady WolfSpirit | perhaps she does not trust your judgement Electric
Lady WolfSpirit | <S>
Erek&<kisaE> | LWS - I disagree <<And I>>
lost sutra | disagree with LWS
lostonearth | <---disagrees
Lady Rapunzel | <- thinks that maybe that would be something to be
| *discussed* between Ebe and the relevant woman ;)
Lady WolfSpirit | <smiles>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <--listening
Beorn & suchy | I also Disagree LWS ..
Electricblueyes | LWS--will wrestle you later <s>
lost sutra | the right for her to choose is given by the
| sub...not taken
Lady WolfSpirit | you arent man enough Electric...<sweet smile>
Electricblueyes | I agree, sutra!!!
Erek&<kisaE> | If I can put a spin of this ---
Lady Rapunzel | <- hands LWS a fresh cup of coffee
*Night Spirit [HOST] | yes E & k
Lady WolfSpirit | and i believe he gave her that right when he asked
| her if he could have one
Electricblueyes | Oh no--gonna have to wrestle LWS
Electricblueyes | right now--LOL!!!
lost sutra | no, LWS voicing a desire & consenting to have one
| picked for you are two very different
lost sutra | things
lostonearth | if a dominant is willing to let the submissive
| choose a
lostonearth | submissive for themself, then the decision rests
| solely
lostonearth | with the submissive as to who that submissive may be
Lady Rapunzel | That's true.. by *asking*, one is implying that
| permission is requested and required.
Erek&<kisaE> | I'm het male, only interested in fems, but just
| because kisa might be Kisa and Doma fem, I'd feel
| no right to also do so
Lady WolfSpirit | <growls at Electric>
Erek&<kisaE> | The sub of my sub is not necessarily MY sub.
lostonearth | and the dominant must stay out of the
lostonearth | submissive-dominant's relationship
Lady Rapunzel | By the very fact that he *asked*, he would be
| implying that he chooses to let *her* have a say.
Electricblueyes | My Mistress hates my sub!!!
Lady WolfSpirit | not if the dominant feels that the sub's sub is
| dangerous
Lady WolfSpirit | exactly LR
*Night Spirit [HOST] | well noiw see this is also based on the type of
| relationship people have--a TPE
*Night Spirit [HOST] | it would always be the Doms choose
*Night Spirit [HOST] | in others it is different
Erek&<kisaE> | LWS - I'm not sure that is something to be handled
| in the dynamic of D/s relationships as much as it's
| a social issue
*Night Spirit [HOST] | depends on how you make the relationship
MoL's Katie J | a TPE?
Lady WolfSpirit | perhaps Erek/kisa
Erek&<kisaE> | I can advise my sub I think her's is bad for her,
| But i have no right to interfere there
*Night Spirit [HOST] | TPE=Total Power Exchange
Lady Rapunzel | *All* of this depends on how you make the
| relationship
Erek&<kisaE> | Her sub did nopt submit to me!
MoL's Katie J | thank you, NS :)
Electricblueyes | disagree, NS--would you want to be
Electricblueyes | with someone you felt repulsive
Electricblueyes | cause GP asked you to??
lostonearth | in the lost family, there is one dominant and two
lostonearth | submissives. if the submissives choose to have a d/s
lostonearth | relationship themselves, it will be without any
| input from
lostonearth | me
Lady Rapunzel | Hey guys, we all *know* that this depends on how
| you agree on the nature of the relationship
Lady Rapunzel | Each to their own
Lady WolfSpirit | very true LR
Erek&<kisaE> | NS & LR - Tpe or not - if the sub's sub never
| submitted to the Dom, then the Dom MUST stay out of
| that D/s relationship!
Senses | How would you react if one did turn on you lost?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | EBE the relationship we have is based alot on what
| I call our goal--our goal is
*Night Spirit [HOST] | happiness together, so he wouldn't ask me to put up
| with someone I don't like
*Night Spirit [HOST] | and visa versa
Lady Rapunzel | All I'm saying is that this is another
| 'communication' thing
Lady Rapunzel | Each relationship makes its own rules
lost sutra | yes, Lady Rap
Erek&<kisaE> | \Lr - absolute true
*Night Spirit [HOST] | yes Lady R
lostonearth | but if a submissive wants a submissive for
| themselves
lostonearth | (in any other relationship) in order to fulfill
| "switch"
lostonearth | desires, then the submissive's dominant must stay
| out
lostonearth | of the second relationship unless invited in
Lady Rapunzel | But I agree with LWS... *asking* implies that
| permission and approval is sought
Master of Leisure | nods at LadyR...the dynamics of the situation
Master of Leisure | all depends on good communication
Master of Leisure | between all involved
*Night Spirit [HOST] | but on a list I am on--many are into a TPE and the
| Dom is Dom to all under him
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <her> like a food chain only 1 can be on top
M4phonesexF | HI ALL
Electricblueyes | I have a question--is this conference
Electricblueyes | word of honor--mouth shut!???
Lady WolfSpirit | yes...if Elder had had any misgivings about blaze,
| he would have either
Lady WolfSpirit | forbidden me to accept her, or advised me against
| it...
*Night Spirit [HOST] | EBE no it is recorded and posted
Electricblueyes | thought so
lostonearth | if one turned on me? there would be serious
lostonearth | discussion. i served when i was trained, but
| never, ever
lostonearth | will again.....
Eldersign | And yes...I did consider the problems first.
Lady WolfSpirit | <smiles at Elder>
Erek&<kisaE> | NS - then that Dom had better be working out the
| submissions of his sub's subs in advance or it's
| just plain predatory
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok lost a question---you are the Dom, sutra gets
| sub X, all of you agree,
*Night Spirit [HOST] | however suddenly sutra and X are together more then
| you want--what do you do?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek and kisa I agree--but personally I could never
| do the tpe--epe maybe
*Night Spirit [HOST] | epe=erotic power exchange
lostonearth | purely hypothetical, ns since sutra has had to
| totally
lostonearth | bury her domme tendencies and is desirous, for her
lostonearth | own reasons, to never let them surface again, but i
| will
lostonearth | try to answer for me
lostonearth | my two will have to answer that for themselves
Erek&<kisaE> | NS - most intel-elegant Doms may get a TPE from
| their sub(s), but then know to turn some of the
| decision making back to the sub
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <wink> Erek you are wise beyond your years :)
Erek&<kisaE> | <<I ain't holding my breath till I'm blue just
| 'cause E forgot to say "breath">>
Lady WolfSpirit | lol
wry告lk | <laffing>
Electricblueyes | This discussion is badly in need of a
Electricblueyes | Dominatrix
mr.fix it | been a real eye opener be back later if anyone
| wants to chat
lostonearth | i would tell sutra that when she is ready, she can
| return
lostonearth | to our play, but until she gets it out of her
| system or
lostonearth | decides to leave, she will not be included in play
Lady WolfSpirit | Electric, i am Domme...
Eldersign | :glances at LWS..and Ebe:
*Night Spirit [HOST] | */swat* EBE feel better <hugs EBE>
wry告lk | interesting, loe...
Excite Me | I think I agree with lost's train of thought...
Electricblueyes | LOL--Elder--no dispespedct
Electricblueyes | intended
Lady Rapunzel | If only we had LIONESS.... <sigh>
Lady WolfSpirit | as do i Excite
*Night Spirit [HOST] | lost would that be a punishment for her spending so
| much time? or jealousy on
*Night Spirit [HOST] | your part?
lostonearth | it would not be fair to my toy to do anything else
lostonearth | neither, ns
Electricblueyes | OUCH--LWS!
lost toy robot | <s> i'm back....see my name...what did i miss?
lost toy robot | <giggling>
Lady WolfSpirit | i didnt do anything Electric..NS did..<BG>
wry告lk | would you explain the "fair" loe?
lostonearth | better scroll back, toy (quite a bit)(g)
*Night Spirit [HOST] | toy you missed everything I bought you <wg>---only
| kidding :)
lost toy robot | i can't, Sir....i was dumped
Lady WolfSpirit | i dont think it would be either NS
lost toy robot | ROFL NS
MoL's Katie J | yes, a few Dom/mes dont' like that word ... *fair*
lost sutra | <brushing off sis's sore butt>
Lady WolfSpirit | not punishment or jealousy
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Lady WS how would you see it?
Electricblueyes | Well, can't hit the host! LOL
lost toy robot | ooohh..thanks sutra <S>
Lady WolfSpirit | it would be sutra's decsision on where or who to be
| with
*Night Spirit [HOST] | EBE you can if you think you can get away with it
Erek&<kisaE> | loe has got a pretty good grip on things IMNSHO,
| but then I've never claimed that what works for me
| will work for you (Tu et Vu)
lostonearth | in a ":group" relationship, a dominant must always
| strive
lostonearth | to be fair (even if it is only in the long run)
wry告lk | loe.. can you explain the "fair"?
Electricblueyes | Oh really NS--"swat!!!!""
Lady WolfSpirit | fair??...you mean D/s is fair???...tsk
Lady WolfSpirit | i was lied to
wry告lk | I mean what would be unfair to tpy?
lost sutra | equal time & attentions wry
Senses | "All is fair in love and war"...isn't that the
| comment that gets them out of
Senses | it? <s>
wry告lk | oops.. she'd be having more than her share of
| time.. how would that be unfair?
Erek&<kisaE> | Fair in it's unfairness??? Interesting concept,
| very Macciavelliane
Lady WolfSpirit | lol
Excite Me | D/s is not always fair, but there is a certain part
| that is a give and take
Excite Me | situation for the betterment of the group
Lady WolfSpirit | <smiles at Excite>
MoL's Katie J | I dont' know, Senses .. not sure how much of D/s is
| love, and how much is war
MoL's Katie J | <G>
lostonearth | if a dominant chooses to take on two or more
lostonearth | submissives, he/she must treat them equally. to take
lostonearth | one on in a minor role denigrates that submissive's
lostonearth | service
Lady WolfSpirit | lol Katie
Senses | <s>
Erek&<kisaE> | LOst -there I have to disagree
wry告lk | <sigh>
Electricblueyes | Lost--I do not think that is
Electricblueyes | possible--you will always prefer one!
lost toy robot | why should he prefer one of us over the other, erik?
lost toy robot | rather EBE
Lady WolfSpirit | no...that is not always true Electric....it all
| depends on the person
lost sutra | we fulfill different roles.....Erek, both preferred
| for different reasons
Erek&<kisaE> | Often it is not only impossible, but unnecessary to
| have all subs treated equally in all things - say
| time, intensity of pplay, mode
lostonearth | and if sutra is spending extensive time with a
lostonearth | submissive of hers, is it fair for her to also have
| equal
lostonearth | time with me?
Master of Leisure | each relationship is unique,,Erek..
Erek&<kisaE> | and oh - y'all getthe idea
Lady WolfSpirit | to me, i prefer to be with Elder more than i do my
| sub...i value him more...but
Lady WolfSpirit | that is the way I am...lost is different
Erek&<kisaE> | MOL -Yep
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <--grumbling and dusting
lost sutra | the Dom has the difficult part......all I as a
| member of a trio need do is love & respect teh
lost sutra | other member
Filkus | <Runs in........takes a seat>
lost sutra | members
lost sutra | even
lostonearth | our relationship is different, wolf spirit (g)
| neither of my
lostonearth | submissives is domme to the other.....
Electricblueyes | True or not, in the mind of one will be
Electricblueyes | that the other is preferred!
*Night Spirit [HOST] | does anyone here want to try a poly relationship,
| but is nervous about it?
Lady WolfSpirit | yes lost..i know
mickey | Hiya everyone
Filkus | <--- Curious but totaly freaked at the prospect.
Erek&<kisaE> | I'm not just trying to split hairs - just very
| concerned that anyone think that because I or lost
| or MOL does things a cetain ---
Erek&<kisaE> | way that this way is THE ONE TRUE WAY
Master of Leisure | I have no interest in a poly relationship..NS...I
Master of Leisure | prefer to be with one sub,,,,,I always
Master of Leisure | have....and enjoy it that way,,,,,my sub gets all
Master of Leisure | of my attention, love , respect and that is the
Master of Leisure | way I like it
lostonearth | if sutra chose to have a submissive, she would
lostonearth | understand that my taking a timeout with her was not
lostonearth | based on my preference for toy (at least i hope so
| (g))
*Night Spirit [HOST] | the first time I actually watched GrPa with another
| woman--and I mean totally
*Night Spirit [HOST] | with her, I was more curious then jealous...then I
| did things to please him
Electricblueyes | Ummm--GPDS scares me <s>
wry告lk | the lost family seems very happy.. there's
| something to be said for that..
Filkus | <Tends to agree w/ MoL.
MoL's Katie J | <likes it too :)
Master of Leisure | but i do honor and respect anyone who is in
Master of Leisure | a poly relationship...I admire the ability to
Master of Leisure | communicate amongst themembers of the
Master of Leisure | group
Lady WolfSpirit | i do to MoL
mickey | Hello....anyone want to welcome me to this forum
Marc | nope
*Night Spirit [HOST] | hello mickey glad you can join us
Erek&<kisaE> | Mickey - hello and this is a scheduled Conference
| so please be polite
lost sutra | if you are honest about what you are feeling, be it
| jealously or not & it is openly discussed
lost sutra | then you have difussed it before it becomes an issue
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Why EBE?
lostonearth | my toy?
lost toy robot | yes, Sir?
Electricblueyes | Mol provided me with wise advice
Lady WolfSpirit | very true sutra...<S>
Excite Me | true sutra
Electricblueyes | Cause Gp--don't know a sadist!
lostonearth | would you care to explain, as the newest member of
| the
lostonearth | family, what you feelings are about the three of us?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | sutra you hit it--being honest and as in any
| realtionship without it there is
*Night Spirit [HOST] | no trust, but some folks have a hard time being
| honest with others and
*Night Spirit [HOST] | themselves
Erek&<kisaE> | NS - Some?
Erek&<kisaE> | Most
Erek&<kisaE> | It ain't easy
*Night Spirit [HOST] | true
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | But any good sadist tailors what he or she does to
| what you can and want to
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | take EBE
lostonearth | i ask this in case that sutra and i have grown to
| have
lostonearth | "shared sight"
lost sutra | noone said it was easy Erek......
Electricblueyes | To be honest, I don't trust you know
Electricblueyes | when is the time to lighten up
Erek&<kisaE> | lost sutra - I did not mean to implie you had
Master of Leisure | agrees with NS...honesty and openness ar
Master of Leisure | vital to any relationshiop,,whether poly or
Master of Leisure | mono......trust builds from that honesty and
Master of Leisure | clairvoyance and deepens the relationship
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Therefore there should be nothing to be afraid of,
| unless you want to be afraid
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | that is.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I have met lost and sutra when they were with
| river, and would honestly say
*Night Spirit [HOST] | they have a good structure a way to make all
| happy---which is not easy
Erek&<kisaE> | Was really making the point it wasn't as easy to
| say it needed doing and then go do it for real
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | That's legitimate EBE. That's why safewords were
| invented.
lost sutra | <understood> that is what i meant as well
lost toy robot | Sir....i had concerns about the family...i had
| never been involved in a
lost toy robot | polywhatever kind of relationship before. But, we
| discussed it....the three of
lost toy robot | us....sutra and i and lost....we came to some
| understandings...and have since
lost toy robot | worked through issues in this way....i love them
| both.....and feel that we are
lost toy robot | indeed a family...
lostonearth | i would never asked toy to join sutra and i as an
| equal if i
lostonearth | had had the slightest doubt that the three of us
| would be
lostonearth | anything less than totally open and honest
Master of Leisure | not easy at all...and it is lost that has built
Master of Leisure | that structure and communicated with his
Master of Leisure | subs and that is what makes it work
Erek&<kisaE> | I Know that it takes all the members continued
| efforts to make a poly family work
Electricblueyes | Hmmmm? like what you say, GPDS
*Night Spirit [HOST] | like I said GrPa and I would like a 3rd member but
| it would have tio be someone
*Night Spirit [HOST] | who viewed our same ohiolosphys and one we could
| call family
Erek&<kisaE> | <<We've been there , when it worked and when it
| failed>>
Paul (London) | Hi.... everybody {hugs}
lostonearth | i must admit that having two such inntelligent
| women in
lostonearth | my life does mean that sometimes i must take a
lostonearth | "timeout" from being dominant and all of us become
lostonearth | equals
lost sutra | <wondering if that means there will be times in the
| future when toy or i get the remote>
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | The second thing EBE, is that I never play with
| anyone until they are
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | comfortable with me. They need to be able to trust
| me. If the can't we need to
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | talk.
lost toy robot | <looks at sutra wondering.....did i miss that time,
| sis? <giggling>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | we have never found a sub female who wanted to be
| part of a family all we find
*Night Spirit [HOST] | want him alone and me sometimes----and I am
| his...in fact I wear a tag calling
*Night Spirit [HOST] | me slut1, slut 2 is agnes
*Night Spirit [HOST] | sutra buy 3 universal remotes
lostonearth | but one with override? (g)
lost sutra | but NS, then lost would have to have all three
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Well, we have three TVs NS
lost toy robot | a Domme remote, Sir?
lost toy robot | <laffin>
Excite Me | LOL
lost sutra | lol
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <--wondering why lost watches tv unless it is to
| recoup?
lostonearth | domme? (g)
Lady WolfSpirit | lol NS
wry告lk | they're ALL Dom when it comes to a remote..
lost toy robot | oops
Master of Leisure | chucklin
lost toy robot | sorry, Sir.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | true true
fit to be tied | lol
lost toy robot | Dom remote
lost sutra | "remote" is a general term in the lost family
Ebe--busy! | Sally, my Mistress, is very careful
Ebe--busy! | GPDS
*Night Spirit [HOST] | before we go to much more since it is wrapping up I
| would love to thanks Katie
*Night Spirit [HOST] | J and GrPa for their help, I would like to thank
| the lost family for their help
*Night Spirit [HOST] | and thank you all for coming
lost sutra | remote = power
Lady WolfSpirit | <smiles at NS>
lost sutra | thank you NS, GRPA & Katie
lostonearth | i hope that we were able to contribute, ns (s)
wry告lk | my thanks to the lost family for sharing with us..
| it was very helpful for
wry告lk | me... <s>
MoL's Katie J | yes, many thanks to all who contributed, especially
| lostonearth, sutra and toy
Lady WolfSpirit | as usual, you and GrPa host a very good
| conference..and Katie...<BG>
MoL's Katie J | <huggggggs the lost family>
lost toy robot | <S> hugs to all......
lostonearth | hugs or shakes to all
lost sutra | group grope time again????? <perk>
wry告lk | andm as always, thanks to Katie and NS and GrPa..
*Night Spirit [HOST] | lost you guys are the best and I am looking forward
| to Sept. oh and
*Night Spirit [HOST] | lost--sutra has not sent in the notice on the
| website
Erek&<kisaE> | ((Now I know why kisa trys to keep the remote on
| her side of the love seat -- her bid for power!
| <g>))
Beorn & suchy | Hugggs everyone <S> i enjoyed the topic <S> .
lost toy robot | grope? <perk>
Master of Leisure | my most humble thanks to lost and his
Master of Leisure | family and to GPDS, NS and my katie,,,,,,
Lady WolfSpirit | lol
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Thank you all. Play well and enjoy each other.
Ebe--busy! | I especially needed this tonight!
lost sutra | my master has not set a date yet, NS........i await
| his decision
MoL's Katie J | hugs to GrandPa and NS .. thanks so much!!
Erek&<kisaE> | Thanks Ns and Grndpa
*Night Spirit [HOST] | also for those interested in the Sept. party
*Night Spirit [HOST] | http://www.hypnoinfo.com/folsomparty
Master of Leisure | chucklin @ Erek...you mean you just figured
Master of Leisure | that out
Excite Me | <clapping for all involved>....<S>
Erek&<kisaE> | Good CO - just the right touch of chaos <s>
Lady WolfSpirit | lol
*Night Spirit [HOST] | sutra he accepted my party invite, you were
| supposed to go to the site and
*Night Spirit [HOST] | check it out
lostonearth | and it was said earlier, but i want to repeat what
| the
lostonearth | other person said......just because it works for us
| does
lostonearth | not mean that we think that we are on the only true
lostonearth | path.....
Ebe--busy! | thank you all
MoL's Katie J | <putting the chaos back on the spice shelf>
Erek&<kisaE> | MOL - Uh actually no, but well, you know <g>
Lady WolfSpirit | <smiles at lost>
Beorn & suchy | NS <S> May we remake an old announcement to those
| who do not know ??
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Glad you enjoyed it EBE
Master of Leisure | yep..i know...i keep the remore..Erek....lol
*Night Spirit [HOST] | yes of course Band s
Master of Leisure | remote too
Ebe--busy! | I'm still stuck
Erek&<kisaE> | <If I didn't keep it he'd fall asleep on it!>>
Lady WolfSpirit | <blows kisses to all>
Master of Leisure | laffffin...
Ebe--busy! | but, helpful to be here!
Master of Leisure | smooches..LWS...thanks for the input
lostonearth | (smiling @ beorn and suchy's announcement in
lostonearth | advance)
Lady WolfSpirit | good night everyone...take care....<S>
Master of Leisure | nite ..darlin
Erek&<kisaE> | Hey! Being a Dom is hard work, I earn my naps!!! <g>
Beorn & suchy | As some of you may know, suchy and i were prone to
| having a few difficulties
Beorn & suchy | in our relationship ./ Part due to <minor
| children> and part due to her
Beorn & suchy | <sometimes> lack of self esteem> .. Tired, i had
| grown weary .. During our
Beorn & suchy | time away last week, we talked long and deep I
| asked Suchana to marry me ..
Beorn & suchy | and she said Yes .. <S>
lost sutra | <hugging suchy, again>
MoL's Katie J | I'm very happy for both of you!
*Night Spirit [HOST] | oh B&s I am so happy for you
lost sutra | re congrats to both of you
lost toy robot | <hugging suchy tightly>
Beorn & suchy | ( I have promised to Flog her more often ... )
Master of Leisure | Congratulations,,,,Beorn....and suchie,,,,,
fit to be tied | congratulations!!!!!!!!!
wry告lk | <smiling at Master B-e-o-r-n>
lost toy robot | congrats congrats congrats!!!!
Excite Me | <clapping very loudly>....Congratulations to Beorn
| and Suchana....
Master of Leisure | make sure you do..Beorn....<g>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | well that is 2 weddings this year
*Night Spirit [HOST] | should we make it more?
Erek&<kisaE> | Congrats!!!!!
Beorn & suchy | Beorn> Thank You all very much .. I only hope I can
| .. Nuetralize the little
Beorn & suchy | beast !
Excite Me | LOL
*Night Spirit [HOST] | oh B&s where do you live?
Master of Leisure | its a lielong thing...Beorn
Beorn & suchy | ]Key West
*Night Spirit [HOST] | need a kink freidnly minister?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | friendly
MoL's Katie J | when you are lucky, it is, Master.
MoL's Katie J | Sometimes, it doesn't work out that way.
fit to be tied | <looking at KJ>
Beorn & suchy | Chuckling .. No NS we have several very good
| friends who are Orddained and in
Beorn & suchy | the Sceen <S. but thank you .
lostonearth | ns, i suggested to them to get married in september
| at
lostonearth | folsom street fair, but they can't make it... :-(
Erek&<kisaE> | B&s - our wedding anniversary is Wednesday - and so
| far we haven't killed each (a few close calls tho
| <g>)
Master of Leisure | knows what she is thinking and hugggs her
Master of Leisure | tightly against him....kisses her softlyl
marianne | Greetings everyone ..:smile::..
Master of Leisure | whispers ;to her ....that her life has
Master of Leisure | changed.....for the better
MoL's Katie J | <huggs MoL back>
Beorn & suchy | Well, Erek, I felt after three years of being
| together, one on here, one
Beorn & suchy | LDistance .. and one living together .. its time to
| " Up the Ante"
*Night Spirit [HOST] | shame B&s you could have one with us if you could
| have made it :)
Excite Me | G'night everyone..... I enjoyed what discussion I
| had the pleasure of
Excite Me | listening to..
MoL's Katie J | hello, marianne
Beorn & suchy | ( I am making her wait, NS ... perhaps until spring
| )
Master of Leisure | good nite,,,Ex......
MoL's Katie J | The transcripts are posted in the library, EM
Excite Me | <S> thanks KJ
Beorn & suchy | irl !
Erek&<kisaE> | Only a little slower than we - 1 year here, 1 LDR,
| and 8 months lving together <S>
MoL's Katie J | Master B-e-o-r-n .. it is spring.
Beorn & suchy | LOL
marianne | Hi katie ..<S>
Beorn & suchy | NEXT Spring Katie ....
Master of Leisure | chucklin
MoL's Katie J | ahh, missed that word <G>
Erek&<kisaE> | Important word: "Next!"
Beorn & suchy | Pe3rhaps we will host a gathering of the Tribe h
| ere in the Keys late this
Beorn & suchy | winter .. as suchy says .. " when they are all
| freezing thier floggers off "
Beorn & suchy | ... Perhaps Then ,,
*Night Spirit [HOST] | well the librarian is slow here gonna yell some
| tomorrow
Erek&<kisaE> | Full service, 2 lines, No Waiting - Next!" <lol>
wry告lk | <laffing at Katie>
Beorn & suchy | ( can any oine tell i am typing for Master ?? )
| giggling ..
*Night Spirit [HOST] | good night all and thanks once again for coming :)
********** 5/3/98 6:31 PM End logging Sub Pub - D/s.