Touches
********** 6/21/98 4:59 PM Begin logging Sub Pub - D/s.
Janiece | that is how it is here usually...
Radar | hi Janiece
Lady Rapunzel | :-PP nik.. I'm not well...
~wrywry~ | I was here first nik.. you're sucha brat..
| <laffing>
Janiece | hi Radar
Lady Rapunzel | <sneezes>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | greetings all
*mystic rain* | <walks in> hello everyone <s>
Lady Rapunzel | Evening, NS <smile>
fit to be tied | hugs NS
*mystic rain* | good evening NS <s>
~wrywry~ | hugggggs NSsis :-)
*Michael's nikki* | YUKKKK!!!! <quickly erecting serile screen>
Janiece | Good Evening NS
*Night Spirit [HOST] | evening Lady R..hugs fit
~Lady Justine~ | LO Lady of the Night
Master of Leisure | evening,,,,NS.....<s>
Lady Rapunzel | You're *not* funny, nik <laughs>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | hugs wry--you with the best name in cyberDOM
*Michael's nikki* | Hi there, Night Spirit <s>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | hiya Lady J
Radar | what was the name of the book you were talking
| about the other night, Janiece.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | hiya Nikki
Radar | I think you mentioned Ann Rice as the author
Taz | we dont need rain
*mystic rain* | too bad...i'm here <sweet smile>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <--loves Ann Rice
*Michael's nikki* | LOL mystic...
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <--needs mystic rain
~Lady Justine~ | loves Stephen king
~wrywry~ | <--has a yen to bite Lestat's neck..
Janiece | It is called.. 'the further Erotic Adventures of
| Sleeping Beauty"
*mystic rain* | thanks NS ..kotc
Lady Rapunzel | Oh god
Lady Rapunzel | The Beauty Trilogy
~wrywry~ | I think that book is plain dumb, Jan
Lady Rapunzel | Me too
Lady Rapunzel | I read all three in an afternoon
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Janience there is a 4th book?
Janiece | I like the book...
~wrywry~ | ::blush:: trying to form a more pc way to say
| that.. sorry, Janiece
Radar | <g>
fit to be tied | all three... one afternoon... dumb....hmmmmm
Janiece | I had heard there was a 4th one coming out...but I
| don not know if there is one
~wrywry~ | <psst me too, Lady Rap.. then regretted the time>
Radar | didn't mean to cause all this trouble!
ICQ me if you know m | Anyone for a virgin?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | the beauty books are just a fiction tale--in that
| context I liked it--as a how
*Night Spirit [HOST] | to book---<shiver>
Lady Rapunzel | <chuckle> fit.. I read fast anyway... and found
| little plot
~wrywry~ | I am sorry, Janiece..
fit to be tied | plot?
~wrywry~ | plot.. you found any?
Lady Rapunzel | Ex*act*ly, fit <laughs>
fit to be tied | was there susposed to be a plot
Radar | thanks Janiece
Lady Rapunzel | I found one page of plot...
~Lady Justine~ | >~~ hasnt read them so shuts up and listens
Janiece | The plot is shallow... but so was the 'Story of O'
*Night Spirit [HOST] | hold it.....what plot
fit to be tied | well i liked them a lot
Lady Rapunzel | but I ain't telling which book ;)
~wrywry~ | you dont' accept my apologies?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I like story of o..hated the ending though
Janiece | the ending was horriable
Lady Rapunzel | <- never read 'o', deliberately
Lady Rapunzel | Isn't there more than one ending?
~Lady Justine~ | anyone read the New Story of "o"
Lady Rapunzel | Or did I misunderstand that?
~wrywry~ | <sigh>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I did Lady J
*mystic rain* | <last reading i did was Parenting Magazine> <sigh>
*Michael's nikki* | <<----- has, Lady J
~Lady Justine~ | twas good Night
*mystic rain* | lol....stopeed that conversation right in its
| tracks!
~Lady Justine~ | Master De Sade evening
~Lady Justine~ | i have a habit of doing that mystic
*Night Spirit [HOST] | well shame to say in my opinion most fiction accts
| of our lifestyle are boring
*Night Spirit [HOST] | compared to doing it RL
~Lady Justine~ | call me the show stopper
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Good evening lady justine
Janiece | I agree with you NS
*mystic rain* | good evening GrdPa
Master of Leisure | good to see you..GPDS
*Michael's nikki* | Hiya GPDS <~waving
~Lady Justine~ | and how is the Master of the house this fine warm
| evening
~Lady Justine~ | ?
Lady Rapunzel | <smile> GrPa
~wrywry~ | hi GrPa <s>
Lynn | evening, friends <soft smile>
Janiece | Hello Again GPDS
Lady Rapunzel | <- hugs Lynn <smile>
fit to be tied | hugssssss Lynn
*mystic rain* | hello Lynn <s> huggs
Master of Leisure | evening,,,,lynn..<s>
*Michael's nikki* | Hiya Lynn <smoochies>
Jenni | Hello All <s>
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Evning mystic rain, MOL, nikki, Lady R, wrywry
~Lady Justine~ | Lo Lynn
Lynn | huggs Lady Rap <s>
~wrywry~ | hugggggs sweet Lynnie <s>
*mystic rain* | huggs Jenni <s>
Lynn | smoochies nik, darlin <s>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | this should be an interesting CO--today is on
| touches, cuddles, small kisses on
*Night Spirit [HOST] | the body, massage, and ideas on the softer side of
| our lifestyle
Lynn | hugs MoL, Sir <s>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | abrasions (gentle ones)
Lynn | wry wry.. hugs sis <s>
Master of Leisure | hugggs...lynn...<s>
Jenni | {{{Lynn}}}
~wrywry~ | <turning on recorder>
Lynn | hugg Jenni <s>
Lynn | hugggs rain <s>
Lynn | smoochies to you all
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <--runs to MOL, knocks him over and licks him like
| one of his dogs on all the
*Night Spirit [HOST] | parts the dog is not allowed to touch
Master of Leisure | grinnin..wantonly......
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | <--looking for a flogger for NS
*Night Spirit [HOST] | GrPa--promise?????
Lady Rapunzel | Don't tell me you have trouble *finding* them in
| your house, GrPa <laughs>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | licks is also a soft touch
~Lady Justine~ | >~~ passes the paddle over to GR PA
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | AND a paddle for myu other hand.
Master of Leisure | <---envisioning the two breedings and the breeding
Master of Leisure | rack from yesterday
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Thank you Lady J
*Night Spirit [HOST] | GrPa---soft touches love---
~Lady Justine~ | Welcome Master De Sade
lynn | <does this look too little for me? <the name>
Lady Rapunzel | Yes, Lynn
Lady Rapunzel | Put back the cap
fit to be tied | <giggle>
*Michael's nikki* | <settling down for a good CO with two packets of
| crisps, a bottle of mineral
Jenni | yes
*Michael's nikki* | water...and......er.....a box of after Eight Mints>
| <<WEG>>
~Lady Justine~ | wonder if i should turn sub tonight
Jenni | a balanced meal nikki <g>
Lady Rapunzel | <- sitting with nik
Taz | see ya later every one
Erek | Greetings to all.
Lady Rapunzel | <smile> Erek
~Lady Justine~ | HI Erek
*mystic rain* | <--sitting on nik's other side
lynn | K Lady <s>
*Michael's nikki* | Hiya erek....<s>
Master of Leisure | hello...Erek
*mystic rain* | hello Erek
~wrywry~ | hi Erek! nice to see you <s>
*Michael's nikki* | wahhhHHHHHHH MY FEAST!!!!!
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok I am about to start and my first victim is
| rain---tell me the softer side,
*Night Spirit [HOST] | what touches do you like
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | SAMs don't get soft touches as often NS, haven't
| you noticed that, You are
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | usually angeling for something stronger.
~Lady Justine~ | all u need now is sir gault and all will be complete
Lady Rapunzel | Better, Lynn <smile>
*mystic rain* | long slow ones NS
*mystic rain* | <s>
*Lynn* | better? <s>
*Lynn* | lol
~wrywry~ | much better, sweetie <s>
*mystic rain* | then quick ones....
*Night Spirit [HOST] | rain like caresses, kisses, fingers drawing
| patterns?
*mystic rain* | all of those NS.....and more
*Lynn* | gooood <so much for well meaning advice, eh?>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | rain tell us what touches do you think are
| important?
*mystic rain* | i expecially like the touches that never
| really...touch...understand?
*mystic rain* | just the teasing <weg>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | yes I do rain......
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Lynn, do what works for you, not them, unless YOU
| want to please them.
*mystic rain* | i believe they are ALL important
*Lynn* | thank you GrandPa <soft smile>
*mystic rain* | depends on the situation
~Lady Justine~ | ahh but dont u use that in vanilla aswell <teaseing>
*Lynn* | hello LJ
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Lady J that we do, but some folks forget in our
| lifestyle we are not all just
*Night Spirit [HOST] | whips and chains
~Lady Justine~ | Hi Lynn
*mystic rain* | <not good speaking publically....see how red my
| face is!!!>??>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | rain you did very well
*mystic rain* | s@ NS
*Night Spirit [HOST] | how many here massage their
| owners/Masters?Mistresses?
~Lady Justine~ | I have seen ur homepages NS , and enjoyed a wonder
~Lady Justine~ | round them
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Cuddling is very important for most couples, no
| matter who, where, or when.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | thank you Lady J
*Lynn* | oh yes..
fit to be tied | <rasing hand>
Lady Rapunzel | I think, LJ, that the main difference, with regard
| to soft touches, between D/s and vanilla is the
| heightened contrast between our
Lady Rapunzel | use of pain and use of softness.
~Lady Justine~ | welcome NS
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Yes fit?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | fit massages
*mystic rain* | i have net to experience any other touches....
fit to be tied | yep...<G>
~Lady Justine~ | Lady R i am a Domme , i think i know the
| differences how
~Lady Justine~ | ever sutblte
*mystic rain* | the whips...chains...
marieM | sneaking inwith my late Pass
marieM | hiya and hugs all around
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I massage the Owner--he seems to enjoy the touch
*mystic rain* | <-----loves giving massages....
~wrywry~ | we are touch oriented.. whether harsh or gentle..
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | A late pass, who signed that?
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | I do NS
*Night Spirit [HOST] | rain and fit do either of you have a special
| techinique or oil you use?
*Michael's nikki* | (((((((*^* marie *^*))))))) <shovin gup on the
| comfy chair to make room for
*Michael's nikki* | my sis>
fit to be tied | we have a variety of things we do..... some are
| very hard and some very
fit to be tied | soft..... some in the contex of a scene... and some
| just because we are
fit to be tied | emotionally attached
marieM | sneakin inbetween
marieM | nikki and fit
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Agreed fit.
*mystic rain* | just warm oil NS...paying close attention to ALL
| parts of the body
Lady Rapunzel | Goodnight, everyone
fit to be tied | hugssss Maire
Erek | <=== As an owner/operator <g>, I know I enjoy both
| touching and being touched - and that includes
| massages of most varieties <S>.
fit to be tied | nite Lady R
Erek | Nite LR
*Lynn* | Nighters Lady Rap <s>
Jenni | g'nite Lady R <<hugs>>
*mystic rain* | goodnight LadyR
~Lady Justine~ | Night Lady R
~Lady Justine~ | old man sitting in a bar - surrounded by nubile
| young
~Lady Justine~ | girls. local men jealous as hell - how does he do
| it one
~Lady Justine~ | asks once....barman says I have no
| idea...everynight he
~Lady Justine~ | comes in alone and goes out with all the totty
| going - I
~Lady Justine~ | mean he must be 75 if hes a day - and yet regular as
~Lady Justine~ | clockwork, he comes in a 9pm, sits in the same seat,
~Lady Justine~ | drinks
~Lady Justine~ | his half of lite ale and sits there...licking his
~Lady Justine~ | eyebrows....beats me....
~Lady Justine~ | Latest perversion from the states - its highly
| fattening
~Lady Justine~ | its called S&M&M
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | NS likes to oil me then massage me. I enjoy it, not
| only because it is
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | pleasant, but because she enjoys doing it.
Master of Leisure | nite....LR
*Michael's nikki* | Night Night Lady Rap <smoochies>
~Lady Justine~ | oppss sorry forgot that was on the paste
~wrywry~ | <ggl>
Erek | GPDA - Agree with that
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek what touches do you enjoy giving?
*mystic rain* | my rl husband plays guitar for a living...so he
| especially enjoys his hands and
*mystic rain* | fingers massaged <s>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | oh rain...nice touch
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | LJ, Did you see the Kurtzie Swooze piece where she
| showed her tounge?
*Michael's nikki* | <<-- loves amssages but not my feet....oh gawd not
| my feet.....sooo ticklish
*mystic rain* | lol...mine too nik
~Lady Justine~ | umm no Gr Pa a freind sent that over the e mail to
| me
*Lynn* | touches can heal, you know
Erek | NS - too long a list to tell all, but from the
| softest finger-tip just grazing an earlobe or
| jaw-line to the strongest I feel is safe
~Lady Justine~ | i cut and pasted it.. taking out all the persoanl
| stuff
MoL's Katie J | so they can, Lynn, so they can. :)
marieM | i had my feet caned only once the bottoms
*Lynn* | huggs Katie, smooch <s>
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | NS likes small kisses on the neck
marieM | it wouldn't have been so bad except..
*Michael's nikki* | Ohhh ouchie, sis...ouchie!!
*mystic rain* | waves to Katie <s>
marieM | actually
marieM | nikki
*Night Spirit [HOST] | how many here like soft sweet gentle kisses on the
| back of the neck
marieM | it was Micahel was doing to the front of me that
| bothered me more
~Mystery~ <collared> | everyone loves small kissses on the neck kinda sets
| fire to
~Mystery~ <collared> | you
*Michael's nikki* | ROFL
fit to be tied | me.. me... me
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Mystery hugs licks and touches on all those cute
| places you have
*mystic rain* | me....me...
~Mystery~ <collared> | hugs and licks kisses sis
*mystic rain* | <----back of the knees <s>
fit to be tied | oh yes mystic
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | I also like to be NS's living bra. Gentle holding.
~Mystery~ <collared> | hows it going sis and Master De Sade
Erek | Kisa says neck nibbles don't set fire to her, but
| they sure feel good. <g>
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Good mystery
~Mystery~ <collared> | <s>
MoL's Katie J | lol, GrandPa
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Mystery good, tonight we are discussing the softer
| side--gentle kisses and touch
~Mystery~ <collared> | yep i know >~~~ was Lady Justine
MoL's Katie J | I like to use different textures .. to tease, to
| tantalize and excite
~wrywry~ | <morph>
~Mystery~ <collared> | nope switch wry wry
*Michael's nikki* | sis......d'ya think Michael would let me keep my
| shoes *on*??? LOL
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok Mystery--hotseat time--what gentle touches rock
| your boat?
marieM | last night i was at a PEP meeting, they have a
| wonderful full body bondage
marieM | harness made out of leather that is suspened by a
| winch... actually it's like
marieM | mediatin to be up there.. swinging.. alone.. it was
| a good sensation, if you
marieM | like suspension' which i do .
~Mystery~ <collared> | well ones to the neck as i said,. and the ones that
| touch
~Mystery~ <collared> | but dont quite sis
marieM | mediation <S>
~Mystery~ <collared> | and a good old cat o nine tails across my back
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | We have a paddle that has rough rope on one side
| and sandpaper on the other.
~Mystery~ <collared> | luv the feel of the leather
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | When used gently, as a rubbing impliment, it's an
| interesting sensation.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | so Mystery you like a contrast of sensations?
~Mystery~ <collared> | <shies> away from GrPA and that paddle.. think im
| still
~Mystery~ <collared> | owed about 20 slaps
*Michael's nikki* | How *high* up is it, marie????
~Mystery~ <collared> | yes sis., one sensetion is and gets boring
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | We are doing gentle today mystery, you are safe.
marieM | i should explain.. this is in a large industrial
| type building the ceiling is
marieM | high. i was probable 8 -12 feet off the ground
fit to be tied | being bound in leather strips is a wonderful
| sensation
*Night Spirit [HOST] | so how many here like the contrast a swat on the
| rear followed by a sweet kiss,
*Night Spirit [HOST] | hot wax followed by ice....
~Mystery~ <collared> | <sighs> of relief Gr pa
marieM | but it's your joice
marieM | choice
~Mystery~ <collared> | sounds fun sis... use ice alot.. but not the hot
| wax..
*Michael's nikki* | woohooo! <booking flight to CO>
Jenni | I do NS
*Lynn* | <has never had a swat
*Night Spirit [HOST] | fit you like the feel of leather bondage then?
fit to be tied | oh very much....<G>
Erek | NS - While that can be fun, such extreme contrasts
| aren't always the best, sometimes the chance can be
| one of texture, ---
*Michael's nikki* | <SWATTTTTTT> Lynn
*mystic rain* | <looks at Lyn....me either <sob>
fit to be tied | it does not bite.... but holds firm
*Lynn* | hehe nik.. <s>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | fit on wrists and ankle or other places?
fit to be tied | smells wonderful
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Or soft gentle kisses on the neck, punctuated by a
| paddling, flogging etc.?
MoL's Katie J | ahh, yes, the aroma
fit to be tied | arms and legs.... waist.. chest....
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek--continue
~Mystery~ <collared> | only use leather myself sis ....
Erek | chance = change
fit to be tied | kinda like a full body hug
*mystic rain* | mmm...sounds wonderful fit <s>
fit to be tied | oh mystic,..... it really REALLY sends me places
marieM | yes leather is the softest of textures for a lot of
| things , even floggers..
marieM | are like a body massage.. when used that way
fit to be tied | he doesn't even need to touch me... i am already
| gone
*Night Spirit [HOST] | how many others here like the sensation of
| bondage--just the feel of being
*Night Spirit [HOST] | bound like a body hug?
Erek | If I'm kissing, perhaps I'll nip or suck or change
| off to a touch of my hand or of some leather ---
| the sensations are still soft,
*Lynn* | I do
Erek | but the contrast makes the reactions
Jenni | I do
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek what type of reactions happen when contrast is
| done in such a manner?
fit to be tied | he also uses a reall soft rope to do a full body
| web..... now that is something
fit to be tied | to experience
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | How many like the anticipation of just having that
| flogger draped over you, or
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | the paddle run along you. Gently, with no idea if
| it will strike harder of not?
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Is that part of it?
fit to be tied | oh very much GrPa
Erek | NS - Now that depends on to whom it's being done
| and also where on them <G>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | fit now that sounds like quite a sensation
Jenni | Yes GrPa
marieM | definetly <S> GRPa
*Lynn* | it's such a contrast with my high pressure
*Lynn* | existence..the inabilty to control is very very
| erotic
fit to be tied | it is NS...<G>
Erek | Generally I like to hear that little inhaled gasp
| <s>
Jenni | same here Lynn
fit to be tied | i am sure it could be arranged in September
~Mystery~ <collared> | i havde to be silent ..
*Lynn* | <S@Jenni>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek I think that is it--anticipation <sp>
~wrywry~ | we watched him do a Japanese thingie playing truth
| or dare yesterday, fit...
~Mystery~ <collared> | im not allowed to show my pleasure..
~wrywry~ | there weren't a pair of dry panties in the house..
| so I can well imagine..
fit to be tied | yep.... he does that to me a lot wry... it is
| really amazing
*Lynn* | lol.. wry wry.. that is the truth
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <--loves to watch japanese bondage can be so sexy
*mystic rain* | yep! lol
fit to be tied | yea... he told me about that
~wrywry~ | Dirk was incredible, NS
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Mystery why not?
*Lynn* | he was..
Erek | NS - Certainly part of it is anticipation - and not
| knowing for certain what comes next, but there are
| times when the softest ---
LIAM WILL | <agrees with Erek about the inhaled gasp. such a
| turn on
marieM | Mistress Midori came her for a bondage demo.. it
| was very complicated
*Lynn* | fit fit.. we kept saying.. lucky fit fit <s>
Erek | touch *sets-up the sub.
marieM | has to be soooooooooo patient for that
marieM | ========no patient
~Mystery~ <collared> | tisnt allowed NS, one of my own faults im afraid
marieM | patience that is
fit to be tied | i am really sorry i misses it actually.... i am
| usually so far gone by the time
fit to be tied | he is done i have no idea what is going on...
| although he has shown me pictures
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I have seen Midori in person do it was incredible
~Mystery~ <collared> | got a little cocky and escaped my binds.. tis a
| punshment
Erek | It's a great way to both start nad to care for
| after a scene
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Mystery well maybe you'll learn next time
fit to be tied | oh yes Erek.... very true
~Mystery~ <collared> | me learn sis that'll be a first <g>
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | How about something cold applied gently. Cold
| chain, etc.? that gets a gasp, as
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | well as some confusion, and uncertanty as to what
| will be done next.
Erek | Subs still surfacing from sub-space are, well kisa
| says "stupid", which is the wrong word I think, but
| y'all know what she means
fit to be tied | i don't find cold gentle at all....
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek do you and kisa enjoy cuddling esp after a
| scene you both enjoyed together
*Night Spirit [HOST] | or do you find it difficult to go to that
~Mystery~ <collared> | i love cold things down my back specailly ice..
| rubed into
~Mystery~ <collared> | my skin.. down the back of my legs... <wow>
Erek | and to treat one to these little tender touch
| changes is just right.
fit to be tied | but now.... clothes pins.... applied slowly... then
| removed after a veru short
fit to be tied | period of time is very erotic
Erek | We enjoy cuddles often, tho not always.
~wrywry~ | but not gentle, eh, fit?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | fit clothes pins on nipples or all over?
fit to be tied | all over
fit to be tied | almost too much on the nipples for me
Erek | Sometimes *I'm* too wound-up to cuddle
*Michael's nikki* | <winces>
*mystic rain* | clothes pins??? <wow....i have a lot to learn>
*Lynn* | <can take alot of nipple pain..
fit to be tied | <making mental note>
*Lynn* | LOL
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Doesn't cuddling help ease a submissive back down
| after a scene?
fit to be tied | cuddling after is an absolute must for me
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek when you decide on a scene do you start off
| gentle and build up?
Jenni | absolute must <s>
Erek | And sometimes, usually after a very hard but good
| scene, kisa sorta puddles somewhere for awhile
Jenni | yes, it does, GrPa
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ah Erek so leaving her to puddle is her cuddle for
| that time
marieM | yes puddle is a good word i feel like that..
| usually I get rather cold
marieM | sometimes even shakey
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Yes erik, I know what you mean
fit to be tied | it is very difficult for me to submit.... given my
| personality and all....
fit to be tied | without it...the cuddling and reassurance.... could
| be some lingering internal
fit to be tied | damage
~Mystery~ <collared> | well its time i was in bed gotta get up for work in
| the morn
~Mystery~ <collared> | in about 4 hours to be exact
Jenni | I *understand* fit <s>
Erek | NS - Most often yes - but not always, sometimes
| I'll start with a few quick hard swats from a crop
| say -just to see how she is going
Erek | to react
*mystic rain* | goodnight Mystery <s>
~Mystery~ <collared> | <<<<< sis>>>> Master De Sade Night all
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | OK, bye mystery, Nice to see you again.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Nighty night sis
Jenni | 'nite Mystery
*Lynn* | night Mys
~Mystery~ <collared> | licks and kisses sis... in places that are erotic..
~Mystery~ <collared> | night all
Master of Leisure | nite,,,mystery
~Mystery~ <collared> | Nighterz
~Mystery~ <collared> | cya next week
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok so all how important is gentlness before during
| and after sceneing?
fit to be tied | afte a must
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | How many like gentle bites on their body?
fit to be tied | after
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Sorry NS
Jenni | Really, really high NS
*mystic rain* | afraid i must leave also....time to put kids to bed
| ....thank you NS and
*mystic rain* | GdPa....and Katie...
*Michael's nikki* | after
fit to be tied | before and during.... not necessary.... depends on
| what he is trying to do...
bad boy | hi all
*mystic rain* | sorry to miss the rest of this....
*Night Spirit [HOST] | night rain and thanks for all your help this evening
*Lynn* | I like gentle bites until I get near climax.. then
| it has
*Lynn* | to be hard..
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Night mystery
*Michael's nikki* | ((((((( mystic )))))))) night hon :)
*Lynn* | night rainy <s> kiss
~wrywry~ | I'm recording sis..
Erek | NS - That's pretty much individualistic, I know a
| few bottoms and subs who want no touches or
| cuddling after a scene.
*mystic rain* | see you all later....NS and GdPa...see you next week
LIAM WILL | nite, mystic
*mystic rain* | ohh good wry <s>
Boris | HI all
Jenni | nite rain
marieM | usually always after, sometimes not before
| depending on the play, but i always
marieM | feel prepared..
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ah how many here don't want any touch during climax
| just want to ride it--or do
*Night Spirit [HOST] | you want it during the action?
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | The CO are posted in two places.
fit to be tied | Erek.... do you think that is a way to distance
| themselves from the top....
fit to be tied | reestablish themselves?
Master of Leisure | I have yet to meet a sub/slave or bottom who did
| not like
Master of Leisure | cuddling or gentle touches after a scene...Erek
*Lynn* | I have to be bitten
*Michael's nikki* | Riddddddde the wave, NS <s>
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | I can only tell you one here. That is in the Lib, -
| D/s gallery.
marieM | i used to not like to be touched, i have since
| learned otherwise
Erek | fit - could be - that or just that they need to
| find themselves again and can't deal with anyone
| until they do
fit to be tied | <nodding>.... i can see that easily
*Night Spirit [HOST] | so basically it is a mixed bag
fit to be tied | i think i depends on the relationship
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok biting---who likes it and where?
~wrywry~ | yes -- and all over..
*Lynn* | I like it immensely..
Jenni | I do...........everywhere
*Lynn* | nipples..neck shoulders..butt
marieM | most places yes
*Lynn* | thighgs
fit to be tied | if it is a commitment.... more than just
| top/bottom.... i would think the
fit to be tied | cuddling would be very important
bad boy | butt and pecs
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok wry--nibbles or all out bites?
~wrywry~ | both..
*Michael's nikki* | <<----- *likes* nipples, neck,
| ass.....er.....NOT feet <g>
Erek | fit - I think kisa is sorta that way when she
| puddles, equally tho she usually does so close
| enough to touch me, even if she ...
LIAM WILL | where were you girls when marv albert needed you?
Erek | doesn't do so for a few minutes.
fit to be tied | <nodding>
fit to be tied | just the nearness can be enough
Master of Leisure | shakes,,LIAM.....chucklng
marieM | i think some type of contact, warmth even in a Top
| Bottom scene is good
Erek | I respect that slight distancing, so I haven't
| really priesd into it.
fit to be tied | but if you walked away from her.... would she be ok?
MoL's Katie J | <biting lip at the *g* word>
LIAM WILL | thanks MoL
~wrywry~ | <spitting for our Kate>
Jenni | good self control Katie <g>
marieM | not just the immediate time afterwards, but the
| next day as well if it was a
marieM | heavy scene
Jenni | it was a slip of the tongue.........
fit to be tied | nicely done KJ
marieM | sometype of contact even a phone call
MoL's Katie J | danke, wrywry :)
*Lynn* | lol
fit to be tied | <laffin>.... the song on the cd has the line....%it
| don't feel good until it
fit to be tied | hurts..%
*Lynn* | rofl
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <ggl>
fit to be tied | <thinking i resemble that remark>
*Lynn* | i have a question
*Night Spirit [HOST] | yes sometimes a gentle word can be as much as a
| cuddle
*Night Spirit [HOST] | yes Lynn?
Erek | I'll give you one more personal effect, if we don't
| cuddle some right after then *I'm the one who is
| usally hyper
*Lynn* | why..when I love being bitten am I so afraid of
| being
*Lynn* | paddled?
fit to be tied | <nodding at Erek>.... i think Dirk is the same
| way... he needs to make sure *I*
fit to be tied | am ok
Jenni | fear of the unknown?
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | How about feathers anyone?
*Michael's nikki* | Can anyone assist me in understanding why a close
| friend has quite severe
*Michael's nikki* | flashbacks a day or so after scening????
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Lynn anticipation fear of the pain....me it's
| canings, I seem to like them but
*Night Spirit [HOST] | fear it
~wrywry~ | <listening>
*Lynn* | I get angry.. big time..
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Talk to me after the CO nikki. i might have some
| ideas.
*Lynn* | the one time..
*Lynn* | I got smacked once
Erek | Lynn - they are completely different feelings, so
| you may not take to a paddle --- different strokes,
| etc.
*Michael's nikki* | Thanks, GPDS <hug>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | nikki not unusual..yep GrPa can help you about that
*Lynn* | it was a good thing I was tied tightly
marieM | it might have been the person
marieM | didn't prepare you.. or the feel of it for that
| time wasn't right for you
*Lynn* | it was my husband, marie
marieM | have you tried paddle on yourself?
*Lynn* | no
~wrywry~ | but was it during play?
*Lynn* | yes
marieM | any interest?
marieM | i mean to feel that sensation
*Lynn* | never even thought about it, marie
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | How about gently blowing on someone?
marieM | or process it
*Night Spirit [HOST] | well like fireplay--I love fireplay, love the
| feeling but will only alow
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Mistress Whiplash to do it on me---
fit to be tied | yummmmm GrPa
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Or in someone's ear?
fit to be tied | or how about rabbit fur.....<melting sigh>
*Lynn* | that is so erotic..<s>
marieM | i think to experience those sesnation we have
| thought about.. is good..
marieM | although i have had others.. that just intrique me
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | rabbit fur is nioce too.
*Lynn* | blowing in a wet ear.. Mmmmm
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I use this kuma sutra oil on GrandPa's back during
| massage and blow on it--it
*Night Spirit [HOST] | warms up slightly--he loves it
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Nice even
*Michael's nikki* | Ohh NS.....can you descibe the sensations you feel
| during fire-play???
Erek | GPDS - Now there you've hit one of my stronger
| contrasts --- I like to use TigerBalm on certain
| areas and then blow gently...
fit to be tied | he uses it after rolling that blasted pin wheel
| over me... very interesting
fit to be tied | contrast
Erek | across those areas after it's had time to work <g>
marieM | a friend of mine has a single tail of fur with
| weights throughout, holly cow it
marieM | was as gentle then.. WHAP.. it was as stingie as
| any single tail i felt
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | I tried it to. (I like to have some idea what she's
| feeling. It's nice. (Fire
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | play)
*Lynn* | what IS fireplay?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | nikki she puts baby oil on my back (or whereever)
| and then this cool mix of
*Night Spirit [HOST] | alcohol (70) and water and lights it with the
| violet wand--what I feel is warm,
*Night Spirit [HOST] | (less then wax) and then coolness when gone
*Lynn* | <<duh
~wrywry~ | yes, NS, please tell us..
marieM | i hate that thing fit.. Michael has one too
Erek | Shudder - that's one of my limits - got a thing
| about burns
marieM | you dont' burn Erek if it done right
*Night Spirit [HOST] | fit I have that on me while it is electrified--very
| intense
fit to be tied | i actually love it Marie.... but it makes me jump
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | The fire MUST be put out fast, or it can burn
| skin!!!<<<<<<<<
Erek | marie - True - but accidents happen and just the
| sight of the flames is enough to turn me off.
*Michael's nikki* | <<---- crossing fingers and hoping to try it soon
fit to be tied | OMG....<looking at nikki then to NS... turning pale
| again>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek never been burned but then only Mistress W can
| do it, she is planning on
*Night Spirit [HOST] | teaching GrPa how to do it
marieM | nikki, some people use a cup..
marieM | rolling is called
*Michael's nikki* | <wiggling eyebrows at fit>
Erek | NS - never say never <knocking on wood>
~wrywry~ | for what Marie?
marieM | the suctions with the heat.. is easier to control
*Lynn* | I must leave.. huggs my friends <s> Thank you NS
*Lynn* | and GrandPa <curtseys>
marieM | cause the oxegen is contained
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Bye Lynn
marieM | it's a wild sensation..
fit to be tied | hugssss Lynn
Jenni | {{{bye Lynnie}}}
*Lynn* | <blows kisses>
marieM | especially on breasts
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek Mistress W teaches how to do it and safety
| been doing it for 20 years--so
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I trust her
marieM | but it's not as hot as you would think
*Michael's nikki* | Michael has talked about cotton swabs soaked in
| alcohol......
*Night Spirit [HOST] | seeya Lynn
marieM | yes
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Remember, much of what we do can have accidents.
| that's not necessarily a
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | reason not to do it.
Master of Leisure | nite,,,Lynn..<s>
marieM | then just over your skin
*Michael's nikki* | NS......can I talk to you too about violet wands
marieM | it's like a feathery touch
Lord Warwick | is the conf over?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | sure nikki...or you can check out a website I am
| building for the Mistress :)
*Night Spirit [HOST] | no Lord W
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | No Lord W
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok feathers
Erek | NS and GPDS - Believe me that I know what you're
| saying, I forced myself to watch demos, but due to
| my experiences in the
Erek | service I cannot handle falmes on people.
Erek | flames even - sheesh - sorry
~wrywry~ | that's certainly understandable, Erek
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I understand Erek beleive me
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | A VERY good reason Erek
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok who here likes feathers
*Night Spirit [HOST] | and to be tickled
~wrywry~ | never did feathers <ggl>
fit to be tied | make me itch
Jenni | <<hates being tickled
fit to be tied | hate being tickled
marieM | me too
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | The CO lasts until 6, more or less.
marieM | it's worse than anything
fit to be tied | with me... being tickled... if bound... is an
| absolute limit
fit to be tied | will not happen... or nothing will ever happen again
MoL's Katie J | <not ticklish, even a little.
Erek | Kisa hates to be tickled also, but I've found I can
| use a feathe - running the edge the wrong way along
| a nipple say and get very good
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok kisses going up the thigh and across the body?
| anyone here like those?
Erek | non-tickle reactions.
*Michael's nikki* | <<---- extremely ticklish on my sides and feet
fit to be tied | yummmmmm
Jenni | oh hellllllllooooooo, yes NS <g>
Erek | Have to be carefull not to push too hard as a
| feathers edge used that way could possibly cut
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | How about someone rubbing your head lightly?
~wrywry~ | <waiting for ANYONE to say that they don't like
| them>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | good idea Erek :)
~wrywry~ | face touches.. <swoon>
fit to be tied | wonderful GrPa
fit to be tied | pulling my hair works great too
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Actually, some people don't want any kind of gentle
| in a scene.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | fit pulling gentle or hard?
fit to be tied | depends.....
Jenni | oh yesssssss, fit
fit to be tied | but not tearing it out
Jenni | pulling the hair and kissing at the same
| time........awesome
Erek | fit - you and kisa both <g> and not a few others too
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I have one I do, I have very long nails, I stroke
| them gentley on the forearm
*Night Spirit [HOST] | of someone
fit to be tied | Dirk spends a lot of time touching my hair....
| arranging it and rearranging it
fit to be tied | during a scene
Erek | Seems one of the best command gesturess around is
| to at least tug on a subs hair <g>
Jenni | agree Erek
fit to be tied | oh yes Erek
~wrywry~ | <nod>
*Michael's nikki* | <<--- LOVES my hair being tugged as a kinda
| re-enforcement of the
*Michael's nikki* | instruction....
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Pulling hair tends to get ones attention quickly.
| Even gently.
fit to be tied | sure does
Erek | <=== very close to being a hair fetishist anyway,
| so I have kisa wear hers very long
Jenni | perfectly <s>
fit to be tied | <nodding at Erek>
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Does anyone NOT like having their hair pulled, even
| gently?
Erek | There is a lot of power feeling my hand enmeshed in
| a mane of hair.
marieM | i love to have my hair pulled, but hates when it
| get stuck in something <S>
marieM | wierd huh
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | I guess that is everyone for it then.
~wrywry~ | and much power attached with feeling the enmeshed
| hand..
Jenni | <s> @ silkie
*Michael's nikki* | <<-- was gonna get hair extensions before coming to
| CA but there seems little
*Michael's nikki* | point as Michael loves to pull hair,
fit to be tied | laffin
fit to be tied | here nikki... you can borrow some of mine
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Anyone have something we are missing before I say
| the next thing in my mind.
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Something soft and gentle?
*Michael's nikki* | <laughing> Waste of my good money......I'll wait
| till I come home, I
*Michael's nikki* | think.....LOL
Erek | nikki - kisa's is past waist length now and today
| at the beach I heard someone say "Oh that's just a
| cheap weave" --- Choked
fit to be tied | well.....
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | nikki, I was able to pull NS's hair with
| extensions. You just need to grip near
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | the head.
fit to be tied | there are those really neat leather... what are
| they.... hand glove thing
fit to be tied | <laffin>
Erek | Sprayed Iced tea all over and said to 'em "Guess
| again!"
fit to be tied | like pouches
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Soft leather, that's a good one
*Michael's nikki* | REALLY??? GPDS!!!! <perk>
fit to be tied | the inside is really soft....
fit to be tied | but i can't touch anything
LIAM WILL | One needs a full grip on hair, so as to spread the
| force. correct?
fit to be tied | very very cool
~wrywry~ | they're on you, fit?
fit to be tied | over the hands
fit to be tied | buckle at the wrist
Erek | like mittens?
fit to be tied | yes.... but without thumbs
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Yes nikki. Ask the hairdresser. Some methods work
| better than others. But
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | griping near the head he is getting your hair,, not
| the extensions.
Erek | Bondage mitts.
fit to be tied | with a large metal o ring at the top
fit to be tied | yes those
fit to be tied | wonderful invention those
*Michael's nikki* | I once had a chilled chainmale glove ran over my
| ass after a flogging......I
*Michael's nikki* | damn near screamed....
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Gloves are great for isolating the sense of touch.
fit to be tied | wow nikki
*Michael's nikki* | It felt like fire and not cold at all
fit to be tied | how about a scene were you are not touched at all
fit to be tied | only words and suggestion... after some sort of
| bondage
fit to be tied | blindfold a must
*Michael's nikki* | <<--- would go nuts, fit.....
fit to be tied | oh no nikki.... you wouldn't
fit to be tied | very powerful....
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Even a rabbit fur glove after a paddling causes
| interesting reactions.
fit to be tied | very erotic... and suggestive
Erek | fur before, during -and- after <g>
Jenni | oooooo, I believe you fit
fit to be tied | such as hell surprised me
*Michael's nikki* | fit...I would beg for anything after 10 seconds of
| that......<wink>
fit to be tied | nikki.... i doubt that...<BFG>
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | How about verbal humiliation? Not sure it belongs
| here, but it's not a hard
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | physical impact. But an entire scen can be
| conducted this way with no actual
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | pain.
fit to be tied | nope.... wouldn't work for me
Erek | Not my thang
Jenni | never
fit to be tied | well... depends
*Michael's nikki* | No thank you....
fit to be tied | what do you mean by humiliation
Master of Leisure | I am not into that...GPDS
Erek | Any sub of mine is an extension of me and why would
| I treat myself so???
Master of Leisure | nods at erek
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Depends on the person. Some get off on being
| vocally degraded for instance
*Michael's nikki* | Excellent Erek.....(noting this down)
~wrywry~ | thank you, Erek <s>
Jenni | <<--has to go, thank you GrPa and NS.........it has
| been
Jenni | great! Nite all.
Erek | I agree there are those as need that, but they and
| I would be very mismatched kinks
Master of Leisure | nite,,,jenni
fit to be tied | again..... must define "degraded"..... what is
| degrading in the vanilla word is
fit to be tied | very different in the D/s world
*Michael's nikki* | Night Jenni <~waving
fit to be tied | nite Jenni... hugs
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | I give my submissives what they want, because I
| like to see them happy, and
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | some like humiliation.
~wrywry~ | night Jen <s>
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | bye jenni
Master of Leisure | I have had a sub who liked humiliation..GPDS....i
| was not
Master of Leisure | comfortable doing that......
Erek | Hmmm - I've said "Serve with humility, not *in
| humiliation."
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Well, sometimes NS likes to be called, bitch, told
| she deserves the punishment
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | she is getting. told she is there only to please me
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <--likes being called bitch, slut and other lovley
| names, and as he spanks
fit to be tied | i would have a problem with most of that i
| think.....
*Night Spirit [HOST] | saying I deserve this--<swoon> <relurk>
fit to be tied | <laffin>.... well that GrPa... that is cool with
| me..
Master of Leisure | I dont have a problem with that..GPDS...i meant a
| lot more
Master of Leisure | than taht
Scotty | Hi folks
fit to be tied | being publicly embarassed just for the sake of
| it... that is a problem
Erek | Sometimes the words are endearments and not
| humiliating in the slightest, but then I'm not sure
| where the line on that is.
MoL's Katie J | hiya Scotty .. just walked in on the tail end of
| our D/s conference :)
*Night Spirit [HOST] | if we are hot an heavy and he spits on me --well
| colour me happy
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | She likes to be told she is no better than a hole
| in the bed. It works because
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | she knows for certain that that is NOT how I feel
| about her at all.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <--is a sick puppy
fit to be tied | LOL NS
fit to be tied | well that is it.... now who is really in control
| there..<g>
Master of Leisure | chuckling..depends on where he spits....
~wrywry~ | <laffing> the Master of course..
Erek | HMMM - that brings the idea for a CO topic to mind
marieM | NS.. that is becasue GrandPa is saying it.. and now
| one else.. <S> understands
fit to be tied | <looking at wry>
marieM | no one else that is
*Michael's nikki* | I don't think I would handle that type of scene well
fit to be tied | yes.... it is the conncection with that person that
| makes it safe and exciting
fit to be tied | and erotic.... not degrading
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | The submissive, we don't play if she isn't willing.
| Where would I be if she
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | left? Playing with myself? She can stop the scene
| at any time.
fit to be tied | if someone else tried it.... i would put them in
| the hospital
Erek | fit - well that great answer just blew away a CO
| topic <g>
fit to be tied | <laffin>. opppsss
Erek | <balling up note and p-13 toss
fit to be tied | but i like to be in control...<wink>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | wait--you play with yourself--GrPa I will come
| upstairs for that
Master of Leisure | laffffin
*Night Spirit [HOST] | can I help you play with yourself?
fit to be tied | LOL nS
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Harsh words can be very gentle in this context.
~wrywry~ | <laffing>
fit to be tied | yes... very....
Erek | GPDS - Exactly
Erek | But is that really humiliation play?
fit to be tied | they really work with me.... in context..... with
| that person i am connected
fit to be tied | to... and trust completely
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok last thing on here---licks--who loves the tongue?
Erek | Not as I've had others define it, it isn't even
| close.
fit to be tied | MEEEEEEEE
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | She knows what I am saying to her, I am saying
| because she wants me too, not
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | because I feel that way.
~wrywry~ | <waving hand wildly>
*Michael's nikki* | More MEEEEEEEEEEE than fit
fit to be tied | oppsss....damn... being over eager again
Erek | Sheesh - Greedy, thy name is sub
fit to be tied | oh good... nikki... you can take point
Erek | <g>
*Michael's nikki* | LOL fit.......eager is *good*
~wrywry~ | <laffing>
MoL's Katie J | <loves to give tongue <g>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <--loves to lick and loves being licked
fit to be tied | LOL Erek,,,,,, ya know,,, Dirk has said that to
| me.... oooo... about three
fit to be tied | times a week anymore
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Yes, erek, because she can put herself in a place
| where it is safe to feel the
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | humiliation and the sting of the words safely.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | esp. soft sensative areas
*Michael's nikki* | Cya soo, Katie <smiling>
fit to be tied | but that is not what i would call humilation
| GrPa.... maybe it is just semantics
Erek | GdPa -I think you and I are agreeing about one set
| of circumstances, but missing the cues on another
| --- perhaps another time
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | It is safe for her to feel humiliated on some level.
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | There are many levels here. I agree erek
Erek | This should be a CO topic
fit to be tied | hmmmmm..... i have never really thought that the
| feeling i get in that
fit to be tied | circumstance is humilation..... i might have to
| think about that....
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | That might just be a good idea.
MoL's Katie J | yes, Erek, you are correct
marieM | i gotta go.. thanks for the CO all night
fit to be tied | but it makes me feel owned and loved and cared
| for... conncected... nothing bad
Master of Leisure | nite,,,,marie
Erek | G'nite marie
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Night marie
fit to be tied | nite marie...<g>
*Michael's nikki* | (((((((( sis )))))))) Talk to you later, marie
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek GrPa can call me names, leave me on the floor,
| tie me to a slot machine,
*Night Spirit [HOST] | make me kiss his shoes--YOU can't---I trust and
| know he loves me--and it is a
*Night Spirit [HOST] | game
Erek | Katie - you made the note? <g>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | not real
MoL's Katie J | yes, Erek .. I'm a sub, I do details
Erek | NS - We agree there
fit to be tied | agree too NS....
Erek | Nor would I support anything else
Master of Leisure | and she does them very well....Erek
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | But, it is also safe for you to let yourself feel
| humiliasted with me NS,
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | correct?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | only with you GrPa--also you know words which are
| ok and ones that aren't
Erek | MOL - No intention of mis-steeping there - was a
| serious question, well mostly - pardon any
| intrusion.
fit to be tied | that takes time to build.... but can be very
| powerful
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | True.
fit to be tied | when the trust is there.... it is amazing
Master of Leisure | no problem...eriek..understood
*Michael's nikki* | I think you would have to have built up a real
| strong relationship before
*Michael's nikki* | engaging in humiliation play.......yes?
~S¢ôrp~ | Hiya all <tiptoeing through all the chains and
| spreaders
~S¢ôrp~ | and taking a safe seet at the back>
fit to be tied | i only focus on him.... not anything else... that
| is his job.... that draws me
fit to be tied | closer to him... and i can do just about anything
| he asks
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Katie. Another suggestion for a future CO that was
| given to me was the
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | differences between B&D, D/s, S&M
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek sorry I missed part of this--what is a good
| topic?
Erek | I think we need to really discover/define what is
| humiliation - and what isn't here --- D/s has a lot
| of places that ...
MoL's Katie J | hugs, Scorp :-)
fit to be tied | is last weeks posted?
MoL's Katie J | yes, GrandPa <s>
Erek | sound the same as mundane, but part company right
| after that.
fit to be tied | i agree Erek....
~S¢ôrp~ | {{{{{{Katie}}}}}}}
Master of Leisure | hello..Scorp
~S¢ôrp~ | Hiya Hosts
fit to be tied | what pther people may define as humilation.... just
| isn't with me... with the
fit to be tied | right person
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | I think so fit
Erek | door - brb
~S¢ôrp~ | ^5 MoL, congratulations bro
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | It's been submitted anyway
Master of Leisure | ^5....Scorp.....and thanks
fit to be tied | really sorry i missed last week... stuck in an
| airport
~S¢ôrp~ | :o)
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek good idea--another one was difference between
| male & female subs and male
*Night Spirit [HOST] | & females Doms
*Michael's nikki* | Tied up, were you, fit??? LOL
*Night Spirit [HOST] | lol nikki
Master of Leisure | lafffin...me too..fit......for the last two weeks
~wrywry~ | very good idea, NS
Erek | bak - kisa home from the shore with shrimp for
| dinner <g>
LIAM WILL | females are, by nature, meaner?
fit to be tied | LOL nikki.... yes.. Dirk and i were both having
| real trouble finding place in
fit to be tied | that hell hole called Dullas International
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek I will be right over
fit to be tied | planes
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok any last words?
The Beast | Evening
~S¢ôrp~ | I wouldn't say meaner, just nastier when p*ssed
| <ducking>
~S¢ôrp~ | LOL
MoL's Katie J | I have the topic notes
*Night Spirit [HOST] | good Miss Katie
fit to be tied | you need the soft to excentuate the hard....
LIAM WILL | <ducked earlier, still layin' low>
fit to be tied | <wishing she could spell>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Ladies and Gentlemen once again thank you--remember
| next week's is on nasty
*Night Spirit [HOST] | tricks doms play on their subs for their pleasure
fit to be tied | there should be balance... and variation....
fit to be tied | oh dear NS...<LOL>
MoL's Katie J | The announcement will go out early this week ......
| as I am going to meet MoL
MoL's Katie J | .. so look for it on Wed
*Night Spirit [HOST] | fit that says it perfectly
~wrywry~ | thanks NS, GrPa.. and the sweet Kate.. <s>
*Michael's nikki* | <<---- is gonn amke damn sure Michael is here for
| *that* one......LOL
MoL's Katie J | the list is in my computer here in jersey :)
Master of Leisure | you can do it here.....katie
fit to be tied | <G>..... <looking proud>
Erek | Thanks GPDS, NS and MOL's Katie --- another good CO
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Katie you gonna be down south huh?
fit to be tied | thank you all.... great CO
MoL's Katie J | thanks to everyone for attending :)
LIAM WILL | Thanks to all who were responsible, and all who
| gave input for this CO
Master of Leisure | she sure is,,,,,NS...wink
MoL's Katie J | yes, NS, I will
fit to be tied | <doing the happy dance for KJ>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | MOL wanna make a quick flight north <wink>
~S¢ôrp~ | awwwwww I missed it :o(
Master of Leisure | thanks,,,,GPDS,,,NS and my katie...
MoL's Katie J | he may untie me for next week's CO
MoL's Katie J | <laffin
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Katie I hope not
Erek | NS - You're welcome to come for the shrimp, but I
| don't think you'll get here in time <g>!
~wrywry~ | <chairdancing in a big way for the MoL's>
Master of Leisure | hehehe....gots a lots of things planned for the next
Master of Leisure | week..katie will be tied up for that time,,,NS..
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek ----then a raincheck
Master of Leisure | smiling at wry wry....hugggingher
~wrywry~ | NS.. he should just cater our next CO <g>
Erek | Next time y'all are in Seattle, youbetcha
*Night Spirit [HOST] | well gotta clean out the old db--I am a helper in
| 1/2 hour <scarey thoughts>
*Michael's nikki* | NS.......can I ask how *available* violet wands are
| in the US??
Master of Leisure | hmmm...Seattle...like that town
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek only 1 1/2hr flight
*Night Spirit [HOST] | nikki very much
MoL's Katie J | <smooching wrywrywrywry>
~wrywry~ | <waving> night to those who aren't coming back to
| the room...
GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Very easily nikki
Erek | wry - back to the room???
Master of Leisure | Channel..10..Erek
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek on Inimate Chat (GO CB3) ch. 10 dom/submissive
| room
Erek | Oh sorry think of that as a channel not a room <DUH>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Initimate chat
*Night Spirit [HOST] | has the same basic rules as here
Erek | Hmmmm - y'all know that PCEN has reopened
| ALternatives section also
*Michael's nikki* | Do you think I would have any trouble taking one
| back to the UK thru customs???
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ask Mistress on that she would know
Master of Leisure | nite...all...time to feed the doggies
*Night Spirit [HOST] | her email is on that site
MoL's Katie J | kissssses, Master
*Michael's nikki* | ok, NS.....
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <--is in vanish mode
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