Worship

********** 7/19/98  4:59 PM Begin logging Sub Pub - D/s.
            ~wrywry~ | what time is it there.
            ~wrywry~ | ?
               daisy | Greetings to all
  SideWinder(Berlin) | 2am
  SideWinder(Berlin) | britain should be 1am though
*Night Spirit [HOST] | greetings all
            ~wrywry~ | huggggggs dais <s>
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | ((((((((((((( NS ))))))))))))  me got in trouble 
                     | for hugging you the other day!!!
  SideWinder(Berlin) | eveing NS and everyone
            ~wrywry~ | hugggggggs NS <s>
               daisy | <sdmooch> wry wry
               daisy | Hugggerooos NS
*Night Spirit [HOST] | in trouble for hugging me?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | huggeroos daisy, wry
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | yeah in cb lol... i went to the welcome room and 
                     | run in to give u a hug - Apple
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | gave me a warning
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | <giggle>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | well he explained it was an accident--he removed it
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | Oooooo ok  =)
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | <just wondered since when it was a crime to hug 
                     | people lol
*Night Spirit [HOST] | but it is cute you must have a very powerful hug
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | >S<
             Lady A. | good evening NS
             Lady A. | nice to see you again
*Night Spirit [HOST] | hugs Lady A, lovely seeing you :)
  SideWinder(Berlin) | <-- is off to get another southy ginger ale
            ~wrywry~ | evening Lady A <s>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | /u
      Dmi's crickett | ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~``waving at Night 
                     | Spirit<s>
               daisy | ginger ale sounds yummy
                 Owl | <sitting up suddenly>  oops, I must have been 
                     | napping.  Hello, all.
             Lady A. | hello wry
      Dmi's crickett | hi again, wrywry
               daisy | Hugggss crickie
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | ¸,«¤º* «°«°«´¯`·.¸>×cricky×<¸.·´¯`»°»°»*º¤»,¸
*Night Spirit [HOST] | hiya crickett--forgot not in trminal
               daisy | Greetings Lady A
             Lady A. | hello daisy
      Dmi's crickett | ~~~~~waving at daisy!<S>
      Dmi's crickett | is that ember?
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | uh huh
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | no longer ember "owned"   =\
                 Owl | ??did you find and lose a mistress, ember?
      Dmi's crickett | is that good or bad?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | announcement this is the last CO here in IChat, we 
                     | are now moving to keychat
*Night Spirit [HOST] | (GO KEYCHAT) and soon (hopefully) to our own forum
            ~wrywry~ | <s> that would be wonderful.. you're a mover and 
                     | shaker, NS <g>
             Lady A. | <s>
             Lady A. | kind of sad though
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | something like that Owl
*Night Spirit [HOST] | wry baby I am trying--in keychat I have loaded many 
                     | great articles for you all
*Night Spirit [HOST] | to see
  SideWinder(Berlin) | like what?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | well I can't load articles here--they want a 
                     | weblink mentioned is all...and
*Night Spirit [HOST] | IChat doesn't allow weblinks
            ~wrywry~ | wonderful!
*Night Spirit [HOST] | candle play
*Night Spirit [HOST] | negotation
*Night Spirit [HOST] | mistress contracts
*Night Spirit [HOST] | sub pledges
             Lady A. | Its a good move NS
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | wonderful
  SideWinder(Berlin) | did you load them some time ago? because I think I
  SideWinder(Berlin) | downloaded something like that a few days ago ..
             Lady A. | I have visited often......
*Night Spirit [HOST] | what the 3 rings sub rings mean
             Lady A. | wonderful forum
       MoL's Katie J | Good evening :-)
  SideWinder(Berlin) | evening
             Lady A. | hello Katie
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | »»`*"*¤»»¸,«¤º*º¤»,¸««¤Katie 
                     | J¤»»¸,«¤º*º¤»,¸««¤*"*´««
*Night Spirit [HOST] | here you can not put web links on them and most 
                     | authours want that or will not
*Night Spirit [HOST] | give permission to post
  SideWinder(Berlin) | ehm make that 'morning
*Night Spirit [HOST] | hugs Katie/little sis
       MoL's Katie J | hello Lady A :-)
            ~wrywry~ | huggggggs Katie.. how are you feeling?
       MoL's Katie J | huggggs, NS
       MoL's Katie J | better wry, thanks
            ~wrywry~ | I'm glad.. Ive been worried.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | sick sweety?
       MoL's Katie J | a little, yes, NS
*Night Spirit [HOST] | oh poor little sis
               daisy | Greetings G'pa...<hugg>
       MoL's Katie J | nothing a shot of nitro wont fix up <s>
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Greetings daisy
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok all get your last group grope because we are 
                     | about to start--tonight's topic
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | How're ya
*Night Spirit [HOST] | is--Worship
   Master of Leisure | she is feeling better now....NS....wink....
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | >curtseys< GPDS Sir  =)
*Night Spirit [HOST] | hugs MoL
   Master of Leisure | hugggs..NS
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Hello seduction
       MoL's Katie J | huggggggs, Seddy ... like the decoration on your 
                     | handle <s>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | tonight in the subject of worship we will discuss 
                     | worshipping body parts and or
*Night Spirit [HOST] | worshipping the person
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Hi Katie, MOL
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | thanks Katie...
   Master of Leisure | Shakes,,GPDS.....how have you been ?
  SideWinder(Berlin) | <sits back with a notepad and listens carefully>
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | everyone is welcome to call me Seddy  =)
   Master of Leisure | i liked your pic,,too..Seddy,,,wink..
       MoL's Katie J | good to see you, Grandpa
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Good, and you?
                 Owl | I'd like to hear from some guysubs - what puts you 
                     | into the right headspace for
                 Owl | worshiping?
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Ok Seddy
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | >giggle< thankyou MoL
   Master of Leisure | doing great...here..
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok on worshipping anyone here ever worshipped or 
                     | got into worshipping a body
*Night Spirit [HOST] | part?
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | not a body part.... no...
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Owl are you a dom?
       MoL's Katie J | I guess you would need a definition of worship
       MoL's Katie J | do you think?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok
*Night Spirit [HOST] | GrPa who is very evil
               daisy | <nod> KJ
                 Owl | Switch, Katie.  I want to have a sub do this to me.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | has me worship a certain body part
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I must praise it
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | ME??? <Looking very innocent>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | adore it
            ~wrywry~ | can you define the worship?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | kneel to it
*Night Spirit [HOST] | kiss it and tell him this vertain body part is the 
                     | best in the world
*Night Spirit [HOST] | then tell him why I think it is
  SideWinder(Berlin) | hmm ... <wonders what that part would be...> index
  SideWinder(Berlin) | finger?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | SW a wee bit lower
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | heehee dont men make most women worship their... 
                     | erm.. u know whats?
                 Owl | How does this make you feel, NS?
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Sometimes it might be SW
  SideWinder(Berlin) | <grins and shutsup>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I must stroke it and say nice things and beg to 
                     | love it
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | awwww
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Owl to me as in all things we desire to reach a 
                     | goal together, if he likes it
*Night Spirit [HOST] | who am I to say no
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | interested, GPDS.. what do you get out of that?
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Seddy, just like femdoms have parts for their subs 
                     | to worship
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | i understand <s>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | now I know some love to worship feet/heels
*Night Spirit [HOST] | they may kiss it, adore it, touch it and clean it
                 Owl | Does the worship put you into sub headspace, or do 
                     | you need to be there first
                 Owl | to worship properly?
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Seddy, the pleasure of having her submit to my 
                     | whims.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | no sub space without pain--I am a masochist
*Night Spirit [HOST] | GrPa may make me worship let's say his left nipple 
                     | and I do
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | She is doing something inherently silly, simply 
                     | because I want her to.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | he adores the pleasure of my obeying his wishes
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | would you say that was a part of worship or 
                     | humiliation?
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Both
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | <s> exactly GPDS
*Night Spirit [HOST] | no worship, because of what is said
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | i would say there is some humiliation there...
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I am not humilitated by much
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Well, that
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | is ture
  SideWinder(Berlin) | would say that it really depends on the bit 
                     | worshipped
  SideWinder(Berlin) | wether it is humiliation or not ....
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | true even
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I kneel to this body part and tell it how wonderful 
                     | it is---longest time was
*Night Spirit [HOST] | about 1/2 hour
                 Owl | I'm wondering - a light flogging during the worship 
                     | - would that intensify, or
                 Owl | would it distract?
       MoL's Katie J | I was thinking that, SideWinder
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | i know a Domme who makes their sub talk to their 
                     | penis... reprimand it...
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | speaking to a body part ... i would say that is a 
                     | kind of humiliation
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Owl to me, would intensify it
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Also depends on how the person doing the worshiping 
                     | feels about it Seddy
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | true
         johnny love | Hey sidewinder frankfurt a/m here!
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | I have done that to her Owl
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | i can imagine the results can be interesting GPDS
  SideWinder(Berlin) | oh great johnny ... this is a co, if you want to 
                     | talk, page
  SideWinder(Berlin) | me
*Night Spirit [HOST] | There was a Dom on line years ago named Lord 
                     | <something> and you would speak to
*Night Spirit [HOST] | him "Lord I kneel before thee and beg an audience 
                     | with thee"  I would say he
*Night Spirit [HOST] | liked to be worshipped
                 Owl | GPDS - do you allow her to touch the part?
               daisy | <listening>
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Well, there is a problem. If I do it to heavy, it's 
                     | hard for her to concentrate.
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Yes, Owl, reverently
      Dmi's crickett | hhmm...wait aminute now..i am alittle lost as 
                     | usual...<sorry> how can
      Dmi's crickett | humilation and worship be considered the same thing?
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | wow NS...... imagine having to do that every time u 
                     | wanted to speak to the
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | guy.........  do you find worship a task ro an 
                     | enjoyment?
         johnny love | Are we worshiping a higher spirit here?
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | johnny this is a D/s conference about worship
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | NS had to go to the ladies room for a min.
                 Owl | <grin> sometimes a stiffer one, anyway.
         Erek & kisa | Greetings to all
         johnny love | ah so, had to know where we are going early am 
                     | here!@
   Master of Leisure | johnny,,,,i have a huge cane for you to
   Master of Leisure | worship.....buddy,,,,page me
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | hello Erek, kisa
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Worship and humiliation are not the same thing, but 
                     | they can overlap.
       MoL's Katie J | hello, Erek and kisa
      Dmi's crickett | in what way? overlap?
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | i'd agree with that GPDS...
                 Owl | GPDS - do you have NS do any postures?  Kowtow, or 
                     | anything like that?
      Dmi's crickett | i mean worship to me is pleasure...something i do 
                     | frely...humilation i abhore
      Dmi's crickett | freely even
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | If I have you worship, very reverently, my little 
                     | toe on the right foot.
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Wouldn't it also be humiliating?
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | well cricky... imaine your Master wanted you to 
                     | worship his right knee... made
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | you love his right knee like it was nothing else u 
                     | had ever seen before - like u
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | were honoured to be in its presence... would u find 
                     | that humiliating?
      Dmi's crickett | not if i was into feet...now...but since i am not i 
                     | would not do it
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | How about the toenail on that toe?
      Dmi's crickett | i wouldnt do it...it is that simple
         Erek & kisa | cricket - you just stated exactly why I keep trying 
                     | to explain
         Erek & kisa | to people that the dynamic is *specific to the 
                     | people, the
         Erek & kisa | individual people involved and no one answer fits 
                     | all <g>
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | you wouldnt?
      Dmi's crickett | if i find it humilating..i wont do it
                 Owl | crickett - what if the alternative is punishment?
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Got it. It would be humiliating.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | why crickett, if Master asks, and it makes him 
                     | happy why not worship his knee?
      Dmi's crickett | i am not into humilation at all
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | That was the point
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | brb
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | keep my seat warm pet <s>
        (V)'s Tom©at | <--------------- sneaking on my Mistresses lap
      Dmi's crickett | no punishment...... that is why we talk about 
                     | things before hand...the likes
      Dmi's crickett | and dislikes
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Owl, not any predefined postures.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | to me it is not humiliation to me, I am making him 
                     | happy by obeying--no matter
*Night Spirit [HOST] | how silly I feel
               daisy | for me, part of this is stretching what i perceive 
                     | as my own limits crickie
   Master of Leisure | what do you consider to be humiliation,,crickie
   Master of Leisure | ???
            ~wrywry~ | exactly dais..
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I understand crickett--in other words it is a limit 
                     | :)
      Dmi's crickett | something that i find totaling embarrassing 
                     | Mol///and beyond what i feel
               daisy | i may fear humilaition, but i allow Exile to 
                     | stretch and exercise that fear
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Humiliation is a limit for some. Others enjoy it
      Dmi's crickett | yes Night Spirit<s>
                Lori | hi everyone
                 Owl | OK, how do you manipulate the humiliation/no 
                     | humiliation factor?  (My regular
                 Owl | sub likes humiliation, so I want to step that up.)
         johnny love | Hi lori!
   Master of Leisure | each person is different and each has their own
   Master of Leisure | levels that they can take punishment or
   Master of Leisure | humiliation...crickie....just depends on what you
   Master of Leisure | think it is
        (V)'s Tom©at | <-------------- waving a tired hello to everybody
*Night Spirit [HOST] | see to me, I don't mind being silly (I know you are 
                     | all shocked) but I do it,
*Night Spirit [HOST] | because he wants me to, pure and simple as that
      Dmi's crickett | i dont mind streaching my limits at all....what i 
                     | do mind is being forced into
      Dmi's crickett | humilation
         johnny love | Hey there amanda!
                Lori | hi johnny
               daisy | i agree NS
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Owl the best way is like Lord <whatever> did, you 
                     | will only address me in such
*Night Spirit [HOST] | a way--after a while it is a regualr thing hard to 
                     | be humilitated
         Erek & kisa | The transfer of power often is confused with 
                     | "force", it isn't
         Erek & kisa | always that.
      Dmi's crickett | silly and cute is one thing.......but if i feel 
                     | threatened...i clam up...shrink
      Dmi's crickett | back...to much of my past gets in the way, i think
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ERek & kisa you are right
   Master of Leisure | it doesnt have to be forced.....crickie......one can
   Master of Leisure | fall into it without force and not feel h umiliated
                 Owl | OK, NS - so how do you keep the humiliation level 
                     | up when it becomes standard?
      Dmi's crickett | i understand the transfer of power...and of force
               daisy | <nod> MoL
   Master of Leisure | nods at Erek and kisa
*Night Spirit [HOST] | crickett I agree, I have been worshipping this 
                     | certain body part for 3 yrs. on
*Night Spirit [HOST] | GrPa, it is normal now....
      Dmi's crickett | and i trust the one i am with to understand 
                     | me...and what i need or dont need
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Owl how else--change the course
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | I was planning to do this as a surprise to NS, but 
                     | it applies here, so I'll let
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | the cat out of the bag. How about having her 
                     | worship my toejam. She doesn't
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | have to touch it, just tell me how wonderful it is. 
                     | Humiliating enough?
               daisy | ewww<giggle>
            *~tina~* | rofl....
                 Owl | <taking notes>
               daisy | <smooch< tina
         Erek & kisa | <kisa> Erek is one the strongest men I've ever met, 
                     | yet he
         Erek & kisa | is also the most patient and gentle.  I think that 
                     | may come
         Erek & kisa | from his knowledge that he has the strength to not 
                     | have to
         Erek & kisa | use force, just be there.
  SideWinder(Berlin) | ehm ... toejam?? <-- nonnatve speaker
      Dmi's crickett | this is about worship? or humilation?
            *~tina~* | <giggles and waves>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | in fact I kinda like telling GrandPa how wonderful 
                     | is body part is, then
*Night Spirit [HOST] | telling him why I adore him and praise him--course 
                     | his head gets big
       MoL's Katie J | which one, NS?
                 Owl | Sidewinder - dirt between the toes.
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Sweat and dirt that collects between the toes is 
                     | called toejam
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <ggl> ^5 little sis
  SideWinder(Berlin) | ic
       MoL's Katie J | <g>
   Master of Leisure | so you do not feel it is h umiliation,,,NS....
                Lori | i need someone the worship me
            ~wrywry~ | ::feeling a little sick::
   Master of Leisure | whereas ,,,crickie would..it is a mental state
       MoL's Katie J | It's all a matter of perception.
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Sorry wrywry
         Erek & kisa | Hmmm, sounds silly, not necessarily humiliating <g>
            ~wrywry~ | ::ggl:: it's ok
                 Owl | Kind of like having him lick my boot.  The sole, 
                     | that is.
      Dmi's crickett | not to be disrespectful , here.....but where is the 
                     | worship part of this
      Dmi's crickett | conference?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | no MOL he likes it, makes him happy if I worship 
                     | him so I do, my sig line used
*Night Spirit [HOST] | to be "She who worships the shadow of GrandPa 
                     | DeSade"
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | How about doing it in front of others?
                 Owl | Ever done that, GPDS?
               daisy | <thinking that my kneeling before Him, eyes down, 
                     | respectful answers when he
               daisy | asks, shows him my worship in a quiet way>
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Yes
       MoL's Katie J | crickett, one can worship without humilation.
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | Tom.... if i asked you to worship... say... me left 
                     | elbow... speak to it... and
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | treasure it like it was something more spectacular 
                     | than you had ever known....
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | how would you feel?
      Dmi's crickett | i mean i dont have to say shit when i am 
                     | worshipping...a body part...lets
      Dmi's crickett | say.....i worship by action...not voice
*Night Spirit [HOST] | worshipping is praising adoring the dom, telling 
                     | them they are perfect and loved
  SideWinder(Berlin) | <-- sure would feel a little stupid, seddy
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | That's also true cricket
      Dmi's crickett | i dont have to speak
      Dmi's crickett | i show them
      Dmi's crickett | and that is what they like, and i like too
                 Owl | That's valid, crickett.  But if a dom wants to 
                     | *demand* worship, it might take
                 Owl | more outward signs.
                Lori | crickett i can help you
      Dmi's crickett | so that is how it is done
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Worship can take many forms.
      Dmis crickett | Lori, get a life? ok? sweetie....i am not your kind
       MoL's Katie J | Lori, The Shopping Network takes place on Wed nites 
                     | .. this is a discussion
       MoL's Katie J | group   
         Erek & kisa | I wonder if we aren't confusing adoration of the 
                     | person with
         Erek & kisa | an ordered action to "worship" 
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | How would you worship crickett?
            *~tina~* | ditto Erek
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | i believe we are Erek & kisa
        (V)'s Tom©at | Seddy (or better my Mistress <G>), i would look at 
                     | you.............smile and then say it's not only
        (V)'s Tom©at | one part of you that i like.............i like this 
                     | whole woman
               daisy | how so Erek?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | please keep the his off the CO, do it in private
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | lol Tom you creep lol
                 Owl | E & k - I think you're right.  I am considering 
                     | mostly the order.
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | They do overlap at some points
      Dmi's crickett | how would i get worshiped?....i get worshiped by 
                     | thier touch back....perhaps a
      Dmi's crickett | simple stroke of my hair...or a certain look...or 
                     | even a swat
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | <g> I like the sound of you worshipping my whole 
                     | ... <s>
        (V)'s Tom©at | Even tho there are some parts of this lovely body 
                     | that i like especially................... but that 
                     | is
        (V)'s Tom©at | nothing fer here <G>
      Dmi's crickett | i do what i do, for i like doing it...not because 
                     | it was i transfer sort to
      Dmi's crickett | speak...
   Master of Leisure | no crickie,,,How would your Dom have YOU
   Master of Leisure | worship him ?
      Dmi's crickett | i look for nothing really in return
         Erek & kisa | Well at the risk of sounding like a fight in 
                     | progress: A sub
         Erek & kisa | can and often does adore the Dom, but I find the 
                     | idea of
         Erek & kisa | worshipping a part of my body to be objectifing ME 
                     | and that
         Erek & kisa | seems stupid and anti-dynamic.
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | Lori - come worship my foot
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | >growlin<
      Dmi's crickett | i adore him Mol.... that is what i want to do though
      Dmi's crickett | he is calming to me
  SideWinder(Berlin) | lol seddy
        (V)'s Tom©at | <---------- worships her ...........ummmmmmmmmm 
                     | nebbermind <weg>
       MoL's Katie J | I have a question .... some Doms demand a 
                     | recognition by all subs that to me
       MoL's Katie J | borders on Worship .... how do you feel about that?
   Master of Leisure | i understand ,,crickie,,,that is not my 
                     | question......
            ~wrywry~ | no more for me..
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | Tom shhhh
                Lori | seduction, come sit by me
            ~wrywry~ | see you all another time.
       MoL's Katie J | <tossing it into the room>
       's crickett | then what was Mol?
   Master of Leisure | bye,,wry
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | >groaning<
                 Owl | Katie - that's a common cyber thing.  Anyone doing 
                     | it in meatlife would be
                 Owl | labeled a jerk.
            *~tina~* | stupid ...katie <g>
         Erek & kisa | Katie - if they aren't MY sub then why should I?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | dolphan and lori I will not ask again--take it to 
                     | private
         Erek & kisa | Bye wry
       MoL's Katie J | Damn, I like how you people think <g>
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Katie, I don't feel other subs owe me anything 
                     | special
   Master of Leisure | your Dom tells you to worhships his belly
   Master of Leisure | button........to talk to it....to lilck it.....how 
                     | would you
   Master of Leisure | react ?
        (V)'s Tom©at | <-------------- moaning <wefg>
   "*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | Tom.. shhh trying to be serious
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I will not worship a Dom they must earn it, GrPa 
                     | has more then once earned my
*Night Spirit [HOST] | respect
                 Owl | OK - another question - can you worship in cyber?  
                     | Or is it a warm flesh&blood
                 Owl | thing only?
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | i agree with you on that 
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | >shooing the kiddies off to another room to play<
         Erek & kisa | ((YICK - the hot sens are out in force tonight - 
                     | uninvited
         Erek & kisa | ones))
      Dmi's crickett | i dont think he would tell me to *do* that...but if 
                     | i wanted to do it...and
      Dmi's crickett | knew it made him happy i would...i suppose....to 
                     | me...sex is more
      Dmi's crickett | sensual....D/s is the concept...the sex is 
                     | extra...if i am lucky <s>
        (V)'s Tom©at | kiddies???????????<PERK>
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | lol NS
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | And i feel a submissive ows me nothing special 
                     | unless I have earned it, and
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | they wish to give it or we have a relationship.
      Rude Awakening | when masturbation is that considered SUB or DOM <g>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Owl yes I beleive you can--if it comes from the 
                     | heart and is not machinical
         Erek & kisa | NS - like respect, which again leads me to the 
                     | conclusion
         Erek & kisa | we're talking about dressing up one thing and 
                     | calling it
         Erek & kisa | another.
      Dmi's crickett | that is true to GP
         Erek & kisa | Too many Gor books being read maybe.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | RA this CO is about worship not masterbating--sorry
      Dmi's crickett | yep E&k
*Night Spirit [HOST] | would love to do a CO on GOR but I know nothing
                 Owl | E & k -yes.  And that's another thing which 
                     | differentiates between cyber and
                 Owl | meat.
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | Lori - no i DONT want to play
       MoL's Katie J | Erek, what would you consider worship?
      Rude Awakening | ok then i worship Manchester United  does that fit 
                     | in
   Master of Leisure | hands RA a hustler mag......the bathroom is on
   Master of Leisure | the right...
      Dmi's crickett | worship is willing.....
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Definatly NOT a GOR person, but that's just me
                 Owl | RA - go for it.  You *did* ask their consent, 
                     | didn't you?
      Dmi's crickett | i mean think about it...for i minute
            *~tina~* | not nessessarily crick<s>
            *~tina~* | oops
            *~tina~* | necessarily
         Erek & kisa | Katie - that's only gonna be good for what I think 
                     | is
         Erek & kisa | worship, but OK, remember you asked <g> ---
       MoL's Katie J | yes, Erek, I did.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <--listening to Erek
*Night Spirit [HOST] | <--listening to crickett
      Dmi's crickett | if you believe in God....you worship him, for you 
                     | want to...as a all
      Dmi's crickett | being...worship....and i am sorry if this is wrong 
                     | in D/s...still means that to
      Dmi's crickett | me...for i want to do it...not because i am *told* 
                     | to do it
         Erek & kisa | Yes I can feel worshipped, usually when a sub does
         Erek & kisa | something very pleasurably physical for me, to me - 
                     | like
         Erek & kisa | something very pleasurably physical for me, to me - 
                     | like
         Erek & kisa | good oral sex.
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | ok crickett..... but then if your Master wanted you 
                     | to try something new..
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | something like you had never done before .. would 
                     | you do it?
         Erek & kisa | Hmmm that was odd
      Dmi's crickett | that it Erik <SSSS.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ah crickett good point, but let me ask you why do 
                     | you worship GOD fear of
*Night Spirit [HOST] | punishment?
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Any of these definitions have a lot of leeway, 
                     | depending on the people involved
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | and the area of the country or world.
      Dmi's crickett | i would try it yes
   Master of Leisure | worship can abe mental to..Erek....doesnt just
   Master of Leisure | have to be physical
      Dmi's crickett | if i didnt like it i would hope he would care about 
                     | me enough NOT to make me do
      Dmi's crickett | it again
*Night Spirit [HOST] | good point Erek and MoL
                 Owl | It helps if you're pagan.  Worship the god/dess in 
                     | your master/mistress.
         Erek & kisa | Wierd
         Erek & kisa | MOL -Exactly - and it's how things are *percieved 
                     | that
                 Owl | crickett - does he never ask you to do things you 
                     | don't like, but that he does?
   Master of Leisure | yes,,,,I agree..erek..and each of us perceive
   Master of Leisure | things differently.......
*Night Spirit [HOST] | well I get a kick outta GrPa getting his kicks, if 
                     | he asks I do because I love
*Night Spirit [HOST] | to see his evil little smile
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | crickett, wouldn't you get pleasure out of doing 
                     | something that really pleased
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | him, even if it didn't do a thing for you otherwise?
   Master of Leisure | chuckling
      Dmi's crickett | NS....my fear days are over...i fear noone...... 
                     | any more....i went thru to
      Dmi's crickett | much hell years ago..to ever fall into fearing 
                     | again..i know where the door
      Dmi's crickett | is...and now know it WONT hit me in the ass when i 
                     | leave
         Erek & kisa | counts, no?
         Erek & kisa | Hmm I'm lagging
            *~tina~* | to me crick...caring doesnt mean always getting 
                     | things the way I like
            *~tina~* | it.......sometimes doing things that I might not 
                     | think are really
            *~tina~* | *tasty*...lol.......allow me to expereince so much 
                     | more......ya know what I
            *~tina~* | mean?
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | well i think fear can play a part of D/s... an 
                     | important part
*Night Spirit [HOST] | good for you crickett  :) :) :)
      Dmi's crickett | yes i know tina...and like i said i would try it...
       MoL's Katie J | I can do things for the pure pleasure of my Dom .. 
                     | regardless of what they
       MoL's Katie J | might do for me .. do I consider that worship .. 
                     | no, not really.
      Dmi's crickett | it allows me to learn more about myself
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok how many here out of their own freewill are 
                     | willing to worship a body part
*Night Spirit [HOST] | of a dom/me?
      Dmi's crickett | i am
            *~tina~* | me
*Night Spirit [HOST] | how many hear want their body parts worshipped?
         Erek & kisa | ...
         Erek & kisa | I'd rather a sub honestly set a limit than for me 
                     | to demand
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | But, Katie, if what pleased him was worship. . .
                 Owl | I would, if ordered to.
         Erek & kisa | what would not be done well.
       MoL's Katie J | then Grandpa, I would.
      Dmi's crickett | <--------------------------agrees with Erek
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | i have not experienced it but willing to try <s>
                 Owl | I expect my sub to, if I order him to.
      Dmi's crickett | for if i dont like it...i dont do it good at all or 
                     | refuse
      Dmi's crickett | i think many would want it done right....
            *~tina~* | what constitues *done right*??
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok we discussed body parts and barely touched on 
                     | the person---how many would
*Night Spirit [HOST] | worship the Dom/me as a whole person, as their 
                     | God/dess?
  SideWinder(Berlin) | in a way ... yes ...
      Dmi's crickett | crap tina...<chuckling> dont make me think...i am 
                     | blonde ok?
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | but .... lets say .. if u didnt like anal sex.. but 
                     | your Master did.... would you give
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | that gift to him or simply say - no im not doing it 
                     | because i dont like it?
                 Owl | <smile> NS - that's what I do when I'm vanilla.
            *~tina~* | <g> crick
*Night Spirit [HOST] | crickett who is to say what is right or wrong 
                     | besides the folks in the
*Night Spirit [HOST] | relationship?
      Dmi's crickett | <s>
         charlie :-) | <rides in on a big wheel, eating grapes n grinin>
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | All my demands are always within limits, or right 
                     | at the edge. If I slip, I
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | expect a submissive to let me know. I'm not 
                     | perfect, and I don't want to
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | injure, physically or mentally
         Erek & kisa | ..
         Erek & kisa | <kisa> Technically I have no limits with Erek, yet 
                     | I don't
         Erek & kisa | ever worry about it, he sets his own and sticks to 
                     | them.
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | (((((((((*.)))))))))
         Erek & kisa | That gives me stablity and I crave that.
      Dmi's crickett | that is what i am trying to say NS...it is part of 
                     | the limits that were/ have
      Dmi's crickett | been set
        (V)'s Tom©at | NS............me definately......... it's not only 
                     | a part of a body that is fascinating........ i mean
        (V)'s Tom©at | there are people like me who are ugly as 
                     | person......... but there are still people who like 
                     | me as
        (V)'s Tom©at | person and for what i am
         charlie :-) | <tosses one into Katie J's cleavage and spins away
         charlie :-) | laughing madly>
            *~tina~* | if Spartan has me do something........for him or 
                     | whatever.......it doesnt
            *~tina~* | matter to himmhow well I do it...only that I 
                     | trusted enough to do as he
            *~tina~* | wanted.....to me that being *done right*
         Erek & kisa | ..
         Erek & kisa | tina - right is in the attempt, not the "successful"
         Erek & kisa | completion.
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | i guess its that old phrase "its the thought that 
                     | counts"
                 Owl | Yes, the effort and attempt is what's important.
         Erek & kisa | ..
         Erek & kisa | I only ask that a sub try, there is no failure
            *~tina~* | agreed Erek
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | and Tom you are not ugly >swat<
      Dmi's crickett | look let me put it this way, might be 
                     | simplier....if it was something that
      Dmi's crickett | totalal made you sick to your stomach, tina, would 
                     | you still do it just to
      Dmi's crickett | please him?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok tina, would you worship Spartan and if so--how?
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | NS actually has very few limits with me, but I have 
                     | some things I will not do
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | to her for various reasons, even though she would 
                     | probably go along with them.
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | (For instance, one causes flashbacks.)
        (V)'s Tom©at | Well.........OK i have a cute butt
                Lori | wrong sub fail all the time, they must keep trying
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | lol
         Erek & kisa | ..
         Erek & kisa | Lori - that's one attitude, not necessarily always 
                     | correct.
                 Owl | Yes, they must keep trying.  But I wouldn't punish 
                     | if they don't succeed the
                 Owl | first (or 2nd or 3rd) time.
         Erek & kisa | ..
            *~tina~* | yes........I would let him know my concerns 
                     | crick.....and he would take that
            *~tina~* | into consideration as I know he would....and he 
                     | still chose to think what he
            *~tina~* | asked of me was the best in that circumstance 
                     | ......my answer is yes........
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | mine would also be yes
*Night Spirit [HOST] | crickett a Dom/me who forces a sub to do anything 
                     | to cause such injury (unless
*Night Spirit [HOST] | agreed upon) is wrong
      Dmi's crickett | i see...then you have been very lucky <s> for i 
                     | think Spartan seems to always
      Dmi's crickett | know the difference between right and wrong
       MoL's Katie J | all I can do is my best .. and I will always do my 
                     | best for MoL <s>
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | NS gags when deepthroting me, does that stop me 
                     | from doing it? No.
            *~tina~* | NS......I would not worship him as a god per 
                     | say....but I would worship him as
            *~tina~* | my Master..........in what ways....Im not sure of 
                     | the specifics........not
            *~tina~* | something that he has required me to do 
                     | yet.....worship as a preson,......<s>
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | But I know she won't be hurt
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | And she enjoys pleasing me
      Dmi's crickett | hell i gag to but i dont stop..
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | i dont see anything "wrong" in "sacrificing" 
                     | something for a Dom/me
            *~tina~* | <smile> crick
   Master of Leisure | no Dom should force a sub to cause an
   Master of Leisure | injury,,,,,,
      Dmi's crickett | for i know he will stop too
*Night Spirit [HOST] | seddy tell us more
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Gaging is a short step away from getting sick to 
                     | your stomach
      Dmi's crickett | lol GP
        (V)'s Tom©at | Sacrificing...........hmmmmmmmmm that is OK with 
                     | me........but there are still some borders
        (V)'s Tom©at | that i wouldn't cross
      Dmi's crickett | depends <eg>
                 Owl | True, MoL, but if they don't keep making an 
                     | attempt, they won't get any better
                 Owl | at it.
      Dmi's crickett | gaging just means your thoart isnt open far enough 
                     | <s>
            *~tina~* | lol
      Dmi's crickett | oopss typos
      Dmi's crickett | got excited ther
      Dmi's crickett | sorry
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | Owl - or the Dom is going at something the wrong 
                     | way to
         Erek & kisa | get the response wanted.
         Erek & kisa | .
      Dmi's crickett | there even
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | ie... when i first started in D/s.... there was 
                     | something that REALLY put me off.... i
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | was willing to do anything for my Master... but 
                     | that thing turned my stomach... but
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | i made a mental "sacrifice" for my Dom... to do it 
                     | because it pleased him.. for
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | ultimately that was why i was his sub.. to please 
                     | him
   Master of Leisure | you can stretch limits...owl...but to cause an
   Master of Leisure | injury to your sub,,,,,,to me,,shows lack of
   Master of Leisure | respect........unless they both agreed to it....even
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | And sometimes we must recognize that item is 
                     | something they will never get
   Master of Leisure | then,,,,as the Dom,,I would set my limits and not
   Master of Leisure | do iot
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | better at for reasons they may not even see.
      Dmi's crickett | ya'll slow down...i cant read all that
             slave m | Hello everybody
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | (((((((((slave))))))))) hello darlin
       MoL's Katie J | Hello, slave m .. the topic tonight is Worship :)
             slave m | Hi Seddy
*Night Spirit [HOST] | seddy did you ever get over that stomach churning 
                     | feeling?
      Dmi's crickett | ember...i please....because it please me to 
                     | please...no other reason
             slave m | Thanks Katie
        (V)'s Tom©at | Seddy...........well that is life..............to 
                     | sacrifice something for somebody............
            *~tina~* | <---gags to damn easily as well...
            *~tina~* | lol
                 Owl | I'm thinking of the first time I domme'd 
                     | chlorophyll.  There were a lot of
                 Owl | things I had to go easy on.  Now he's a lot more 
                     | able to do them.
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | yes i did NS.... i found pleasure in it
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | gagging=> more practice <g>
      Dmi's crickett | i will have to teach you how to do that better tina 
                     | <giggling>
            *~tina~* | lol...please!!!
            *~tina~* | <---keeps trying though......persistant
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | so u do not please your Master bcause it makes him 
                     | happy.. but that it makes
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | you happy crick?
        White Zombie | Hello gang
   Master of Leisure | it is a gradual learning process..Owl...with your
   Master of Leisure | sub
      Dmi's crickett | nooooo problem...its a tilt of the head <smirks>
   Master of Leisure | practice,,,,,makes perfect
                 Owl | Back to worship - there is no injury involved, so 
                     | why not make the sub do it
                 Owl | often, so he gets better at it?
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | All the male doms will be glad to line up to help 
                     | you tina. We want you to get
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | it right.
             slave m | Better at what if I may ask
      Dmi's crickett | in a way ember.....yes....but i get pleasure also 
                     | out of pleasing him too <s>
   Master of Leisure | chucklin
            *~tina~* | such helpers you all are <wink>...
     Jaswinder Singh | hi there
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | so if u knew something you didnt like to do - would 
                     | please him - wouldt you do
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | that for him?
      Dmi's crickett | not gagging....slave<m>/////<chuckling>
         Erek & kisa | .
       Lady Rapunzel | tina... just don't forget to breathe, hon, and 
                     | you'll get the hang of it in no time <smile>
         Erek & kisa | Considerate people we Doms <g>
        (V)'s Tom©at | Seddy.............. depends on what it is
*Night Spirit [HOST] | MoL how would you feel if a sub got on their knees 
                     | to you and told you how
*Night Spirit [HOST] | wonderful you are, and worshipped you
             slave m | Ah then why was it "so HE would get better at it"?
        White Zombie | Hmmmm    breath-holding?
      Dmi's crickett | that all depends ember...on what it was...if he 
                     | wanted me to have sex with a
      Dmi's crickett | dog....hell know...... i wouldnt do it
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | IMHO it is but a small sacrifice to make - as long 
                     | as it is safe and not life
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | threatening
       MoL's Katie J | one can always change the pronoun to suit the 
                     | situation, slave m
                 Owl | slave m - because mine *is* a he.
      Dmi's crickett | hell no...shit i cant type worth a damn
            *~tina~* | what gives me that ultimate feeling....total 
                     | submission and gratification...is
            *~tina~* | when I do something that he has asked of me.....and 
                     | I see that look in his eyes
            *~tina~* | .......of pure happinesss....and hes so proud of 
                     | me......nothing feels so
            *~tina~* | content for me.....well..maybe a few other things 
                     | <g>
             slave m | Yes Maams
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | »»`*"*¤*"*´««(¯`'·.¸°«´¯`·.¸>×Lady 
                     | R×<¸.·´¯`»°¸.·'´¯)»»`*"*¤*"*´««
       Lady Rapunzel | <quiet smile>
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | That's limits again crickett. How about something 
                     | within your limits?
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | lol tina!
   Master of Leisure | only one sub would do dthat to me..NS.....as to
   Master of Leisure | how I  feel,,,,,,,I would feel honored and respect
   Master of Leisure | her worship of me.....it would bring me
   Master of Leisure | pleasure..NS
                 Owl | brb
       MoL's Katie J | <watching tina do her Spartan imitation>
            *~tina~* | kisses Ldy R <s>
            *~tina~* | lol..swats katie <s>
       Lady Rapunzel | <waving from a distance>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | hiya Lady R and welcome
      Dmi's crickett | that is just it GP...i have never been pushed to 
                     | them...
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok MoL why would it do that?
              hybrid | hi
              hybrid | wheres purple
      Dmi's crickett | so i cant really say, for all my Masters have 
                     | respected the limits that i have
      Dmi's crickett | set, and never tried to push pass them
          ~Marianne~ | <watching from a distance...>
         Erek & kisa | .
            *~tina~* | so ultimately crick...you retain control....
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | MOL, what if a sub you didn't know started 
                     | worshiping you at some party?
         Erek & kisa | AFK
      Dmi's crickett | hhmm.. <sighs> i suppose so , tina
            *~tina~* | <s> crick....
   Master of Leisure | because the sub is submitting to my
   Master of Leisure | request....she is giving of herself to me......cause
   Master of Leisure | she wants to......totally and of her free will to
   Master of Leisure | please me.......whether it pleases her or not
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Pushing gently on those limits is how we find new 
                     | things we might enjoy crickett
   Master of Leisure | she would not....GPDS....i would stop her
   Master of Leisure | and it has happened
        (V)'s Tom©at | <------------- waving a sweet byebye to my Mistress 
                     | and a simple bye bye to everybody else
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | >kiss pet< goodnight
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | I have had it to MOL. I just wanted someone else to 
                     | say it.
        (V)'s Tom©at | (*(*(*(*(*(*(*Seddy*)*)*)*)*)*)*) 
                     | <kissssssssssssssssssssssssss>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | MoL so a sub (who is a stranger worshiping you--is 
                     | not a turn on) a sub you
*Night Spirit [HOST] | know is---would you order a sub to worship you?
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | bye now Tom xxxx
      Dmi's crickett | i understand that GP...just noone has ever really 
                     | wanted to push me past
      Dmi's crickett | them...i think of so many things that keep them 
                     | totaly happy within my
      Dmi's crickett | limits......that they never push it further
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | bak
*Night Spirit [HOST] | and a lovely bak <back> it is Erek and kisa
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | <scrolling>
         Erek & kisa | .
      Dmi's crickett | ooppss goning to pully a E&k......... brb
         Erek & kisa | LOL
   Master of Leisure | In my world,,,GPDS,,,i take only one sub,,,,i dont
   Master of Leisure | feel I can share all of myself with more than
   Master of Leisure | one......i want her to submit to me totally and of
   Master of Leisure | her free will..that is what I ask..........and that 
                     | is
   Master of Leisure | understood....if I want her to worship me as a
   Master of Leisure | whole or some part of my body,,,,I expect her to
   Master of Leisure | do that......I also know my limits and hers....that
   Master of Leisure | is a mutual discussion between us so that we
   Master of Leisure | know what we want and need and can stay
   Master of Leisure | within,,,,,shit,,im starting to type like Spartan
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek would you like a sub to worship you? if so 
                     | why, if not why?
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | lol MoL
            *~tina~* | hey.....quit makin fun of my Daddy<pouty lip>
       Lady Rapunzel | <- loves the way Spartan types
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | awwww tina
   Master of Leisure | <snortles> at tina,,,,<BG>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | lol MoL
       Lady Rapunzel | (Amongst other ways he has <g>)
            *~tina~* | <sniff sniff>
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | All the time worship, NO.  Occasionally, yes.
            *~tina~* | <wink> Lady R
*Night Spirit [HOST] | and tina ya know we all love spartan even if when 
                     | he is on we all have to have
*Night Spirit [HOST] | full screens up
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | lol
      Lord Excalibur | Spartans typing is fine as long as you record <s> 
                     | good evening all
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek what do you get out of it?
            *~tina~* | I know I know........<s>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | good evening Lord E :)
      Lord Excalibur | sorry I am late everyone
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | So, what would you do Katie, if MOL asked to to 
                     | worship a single hair on his
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | arm? Would you? And how would you?
   Master of Leisure | evening,,Lord E
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Hi there LE
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | Again if adoration becomes for a brief time 
                     | something that I
         Erek & kisa | percieve as worship then fine, otherwise,  hmmm, 
                     | I'm not a
         Erek & kisa | God, just a Dom <s>.
 `*"*¤§êdú¢t¡øñ¤*"*´ | bbs all
       MoL's Katie J | I would do most anything to please him .. and if 
                     | that was what it took, then I
       MoL's Katie J | would do my best to make that hair the focus of my 
                     | attentions.
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | I'd rather be a person enjoying my sub than an 
                     | object of
         Erek & kisa | worship - is that clear?
   Master of Leisure | it wouldnt be a hair,,,GPDS.......<w>
          ~Marianne~ | worship is a lifestyle..an attitude.. a way of 
                     | acting towards someone.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | good point Marianne
*Night Spirit [HOST] | and yes Erek it is :)
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | Marianne - and in the fact that it's strictly an 
                     | attitude, for
         Erek & kisa | me it seems too contrived.
   Master of Leisure | understood ..Erek....and I thoroughly enjoy my
   Master of Leisure | sub.....as you do kisa
          ~Marianne~ | contrived how?.
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | When I have NS worship me I don't feel like a God, 
                     | even though she would
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | probably let me do anything to her. She considers 
                     | herself to be my property. So
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | I can't be a God to her, just the owner.
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | I picked a hair because of the silliness of it MOL.
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | M - a continual role "play" rather than an actual 
                     | living
         Erek & kisa | emotion.
   Master of Leisure | yep..i know..GPDS.....
          ~Marianne~ | i think there is true emotion in being submissive 
                     | and allowing someone to own
          ~Marianne~ | you and take you over
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | M - nut that doesn't necessarily mean worship - more
         Erek & kisa | adoration
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok folks last thoughts we are about to wind this up 
                     | :)
          ~Marianne~ | but worship requites the living emotion .. surely
          ~Marianne~ | requires i mean
   Master of Leisure | the worship of a sub,,,,is just one form of
   Master of Leisure | adoration and submission by the sub to the
   Master of Leisure | Dom..........or role reversal if requested 
                     | .........it is
   Master of Leisure | just part of the total attitude of D/s
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | M - Nope, just "faith" without seeing, conviction 
                     | without
         Erek & kisa | proof, etc.
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | I think so maryann. You must have some feeling for 
                     | the whole that you are being
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | asked to worship part of.
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | I want my subs faith in me to be proven.
          ~Marianne~ | you have faith and conviction in your dom
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | By my actions as well as hers.
          ~Marianne~ | that he will act in your best interests and trust
          ~Marianne~ | trust and faith is fundamental to worship
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | <==== Horrible lag
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Agree Marianne
          ~Marianne~ | <s>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | ok folks once again thank you all for comming, you 
                     | all make this special
*Night Spirit [HOST] | remember next week we move to Keychat
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | How about at the start of a relationship E&K?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Sunday July 26th
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Favorite bondage movie or book (minor and 
                     | mainstream)
*Night Spirit [HOST] | --Get out all your bondage books and videos and 
                     | lets play critic
       MoL's Katie J | sounds good, NS
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | Thanks again - sorry to have missed a few, will
         Erek & kisa | unfortunately miss more as we have a regular Sunday
      Lord Excalibur | does that mean I get the wages they get NS <s>
            *~tina~* | thanks NS and GrPa <s>
   Master of Leisure | Videos..i like videos....<eg>
         Erek & kisa | outting most weeks.
      Dmi's crickett | crap...i missed everthing..<whinning>
       MoL's Katie J | we're always glad to have you attend, E&k <s>
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Thanks everyone. It wouldn't be anything without 
                     | you.
      Dmi's crickett | but i was out of cigs, and had to run to the store
      Lord Excalibur | sorry I was late, I will read what I missed in your 
                     | site NS
   Electricblueyes>M | I missed everything  too--Crick!  LOL
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | GPDS - you mean the leap of faith to commit??
   Master of Leisure | thanks,,GPDS...NS...and katie......good
   Master of Leisure | conference
          ~Marianne~ | beginnning of the relationship is most important
          ~Marianne~ | laying the foundations
      Dmi's crickett | you would like videos....Mol......<laffen>
*Night Spirit [HOST] | also folks if you want our own BDSM forum please 
                     | send me a letter via email and
*Night Spirit [HOST] | I will forward it send to 102404,2505
             Marlêne | will someone define
   Master of Leisure | hehehe..
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | You said you needed the subs faith to be proved E&K
             Marlêne | what   D/s    means?
*Night Spirit [HOST] | more push for it more likely we get one
   Electricblueyes>M | at least u have an excuse Crick--I just can't tell
   Electricblueyes>M | time ,s> oh well...............
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Domanience and submission
      Dmi's crickett | no i was here just ran out
             Marlêne | Oh... NS.    Big D   &   Little  s    huh?
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | That's the way it's usually used marlene
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | GPDS - That comes from the assumption the the sub 
                     | has
         Erek & kisa | faith in the Dom or wouldn't be with them ,so the 
                     | Proof
         Erek & kisa | comes from the Dom and then back from the sub.
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Marlene even
             Marlêne | I've not watched this event before.
          ~Marianne~ | It's all about communciation and honesty
   Master of Leisure | will send you the video..marlene
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Good start E&K
*Night Spirit [HOST] | trust and communication above all else
          ~Marianne~ | set that at the beginning.. and it will be a strong 
                     | foundation for testing the
          ~Marianne~ | limits later
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Agree Marianne
             Marlêne | um   er     uh     do I want a video?
      Dmi's crickett | he lieks videos Marlene....careful <lol>
      Dmi's crickett | likes even
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Don't know Marlene, Do you?
   Master of Leisure | you will love the video...just send $29.95 to me
   Master of Leisure | and i will send you a copy
       MoL's Katie J | <liked the video
      Dmi's crickett | lol ...Mol....be nice...she seems sincere
*Night Spirit [HOST] | what video?
             Marlêne | In no position to judge just now,   GPDS
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | Actions are important, intentions are proved and 
                     | re-proved
         Erek & kisa | (hmmmm that isn't good English)
      Dmi's crickett | that aint godd....<giggling>
      Dmi's crickett | damn...i quit
      Dmi's crickett | good
*Night Spirit [HOST] | also last thing please anyone with anything they 
                     | wish to post about our
*Night Spirit [HOST] | lifestyle to keychat [ALT]ternative please do, the 
                     | more we prove we want our
*Night Spirit [HOST] | own forum better chance we have
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Got an old copy of Debbie Duz Dishes you are tyring 
                     | to get rid of, huh MOL?
   Electricblueyes>M | Hi GPDS and NS--sorry it has been so long--good
   Electricblueyes>M | to see you even though I missed the whole show
   Electricblueyes>M | :-(
             Marlêne | yeh     emotions governing typing....  lol
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | I hate CIS4 btw - will be back whenever in DOScim
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | I'm kidding Marlene
      Dmi's crickett | lol
       MoL's Katie J | Erek, just takes a while to get used to it ...
             Marlêne | figgered
      Dmi's crickett | see i like her already...she is picking on my 
                     | typing!
       MoL's Katie J | I'm trying to get used to a terminal program, so I 
                     | can relate
      Lord Excalibur | DOScim, damn we can't have that back I threw my 
                     | hammer and chisel out
             Marlêne | awww crickett
      Dmi's crickett | <s>
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | Katie - it lags me
       MoL's Katie J | what processor?
       MoL's Katie J | what modem speed?
             Marlêne | cruising ,,,,  looking for a long lost friend.    
                     | bye  all
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | All these pirods (.) you see are to force my typing 
                     | onto the
         Erek & kisa | screen!
         Erek & kisa | .
       MoL's Katie J | could be a lot of things <s>
   Master of Leisure | laffin...nahhh..its a new one,,GPDS...has shots
   Master of Leisure | from a bunch of those movies,,you
   Master of Leisure | know..specialty stuff,,,,grinnin
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | True MOL, but we also need a program that doesn't 
                     | destroy many of the systems
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | it's installed on
      Dmi's crickett | ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~waving bye....going home 
                     | <SSSS>
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | CIS4 corrupted all the dun files - had to reload 
                     | them.
       MoL's Katie J | 2.6 is a good compromise, Erek .. most of the bugs 
                     | have been worked out .. and
       MoL's Katie J | it's downloadable from the web.
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | I thought they were to make your comments stand out 
                     | E&K
       MoL's Katie J | or they will mail you diskettes
         Erek & kisa | .
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Night crickett and thanks you
         Erek & kisa | GPDS - Like I need to do that??? <LOL>
   Master of Leisure | chucklin
   Master of Leisure | nite all.......we are going back to 10
       MoL's Katie J | hugs goodnight .. see you same time next week ... 
                     | in our new home.
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Hehe, gotta give someone a hard time
   Master of Leisure | thanks again,,,NS....GPDS......take care
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Ok, I'll say good night too.
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Night all
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | I wonder if this cranky version will take me over 
                     | to 10
         Erek & kisa | .
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Night Mol & Katie
*Night Spirit [HOST] | good night all and once again thank you :)
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Remember, Keychat next week.
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | Also any chance this could be delayed an hour - to 
                     | after
         Erek & kisa | 6pm Pacific???
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | We are busy until 6 most Sundays now.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek we are hoping others will like to run 
                     | discussions :)
      Lord Excalibur | aaarrgggghhhh Erek, its 1:00 am here
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | The times are a problem
      Lord Excalibur | give me some time to sleep
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | SOrry Lord E
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | It's 8 on the east coast, and 2 AM in England
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Ok, sorry, 1 AM
         Erek & kisa | .
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Erek ever thought of hosting a weekly discussion?
         Erek & kisa | Ah well we will miss many of these then
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | We have been talking about having LE do a european 
                     | version.
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | I am doing so, but over in PCEN
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | We did weekly CO's there for a while
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Erek, you could do one in Keychat too.
*Night Spirit [HOST] | if we get our own forum--interested?
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | Could be tho only could commit to a sometime thang, 
                     | not
         Erek & kisa | necessarily a regular, nor in any additional charge 
                     | area
*Night Spirit [HOST] | in that case I shall keep you informed :)
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | Sorry, I don't remember. Are you in the US E&K?
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | Thank You <s>
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | Yes - Seattle
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Night!--yes hon he is in seattle aren't you?
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | We would want a no additional charge area.
      Lord Excalibur | sorry friends, I must away, I will talk to you all 
                     | soon
 GrandPaDeSade[Host] | OK Good night
*Night Spirit [HOST] | Night all gotta run, children problems :)
         Erek & kisa | .
         Erek & kisa | Take care Lord E
********** 7/19/98  6:25 PM End logging Sub Pub - D/s.