Games we can all have Fun Playing
In all the games below a Referee may also be appointed or not depends on the group and the rules set. It is always a good idea to have a wimp way out so everyone can play and have a good time.
A person is chosen to be the Referee. The Referee doesn't play. (a new Referee is chosen for each round). The purpose of the Referee is to make sure all players have fun & that nobody's limits get pushed too hard.
The Referee is issued "a Wimp paddle ." (Loud whack. Little pain.) The Referee will also need a clock or stopwatch. All final decisions rest with the Referee.
After briefly reviewing the rules for all players, and especially new players (voted on by the majority), the Referee picks a person to start the round This chosen person is the Asker. The Asker looks at another person and asks "Truth or Dare?"
The questioned person responds with "Truth," or "Dare." (After this questioned person has responded, they may ask "Truth or dare?" of any player except the Asker)
If "truth" is chosen, the questioned person must answer a "fair" question truthfully and in a manner that all can hear. Questions may be probing and pointed but, because the purpose of the game is to have fun, they may not be harsh or mean-spirited, or reveal information about another person without that person's consent, or violate serious "real world" confidentiality matters. The Referee makes final determination as to the fairness of a question. Answers should usually take less than three minutes, but may be a bit longer if they are interesting. If the Referee rules that the question is unfair, the questioned person is automatically entitled to a "pass."
If "Dare" is chosen, the person must perform the requested action. A "fair" dare must be something that can be done then and there, and in the presence of the other players, and take less than three minutes. Dares may not be harsh or mean-spirited, or bring the game or players to the attention of people outside of the playing area ex: neighbors.
Dares involving explicit sexual or SM-type contact, including self-play, may be declined
without penalty. Dares involving nudity are fair. Dares involving additional people
may be done with consent of those people.
Dares involving any sort of SM-type play will be done only with a safeword in effect which
shall be honoured -- "safeword" will act as the game's safeword.
Play may be enhanced by including a small number of carefully chosen "relatively low risk" SM toys such as a few lengths of rope, a paddle, and so forth.
If the Referee rules that a dare is unfair, the dared person is automatically entitled to a pass.
If a player refuses to answer a fair question truthfully, or refuses to perform a fair dare, or if the Referee determines that the questioned person has inadequately responded to a fair question or a fair dare then the questioned person has revealed that they are a "Wimp." They must then accept three swats upon their either bare buttocks, administered by the Referee, from "the Wimp paddle." If the person refuses to accept their swats, they must leave the game.
After the questioned player has successfully completed their "Truth or Dare," or has been awarded a pass, or has wimped out and accepted their swats, it is then their turn to ask "Truth or Dare?" of another player. This must be someone in the game who has not yet been asked that question during the current round.
At the end of the round a new Referee is chosen and "Truth or Dare" starts again.
For Some Good T or D question click here
This is a simple game played with three dice (6 sided cubes which you add labels to as so to create the game).
On one die is listed actions such as spank, paddle, pinch, lick, kiss, flog, fondle, touch, massage, tickle or any other action you may also want on of the sides to have "???" which may stand for anything.
Die #2 has body parts on it such as back, chest, legs, ass, thighs, shoulders, crotch or any other body part that is interesting , course you may wish one side of the die to have "???".
The Third die has 5,
10, 15, 20, 25, 30 (or any other numbers that may fit your fancy).
Also needed is a bowl, paddle, flogger, or other instruments which are mention on the first dice.
The last equipment you need is the infamous "wimp paddle"
The first person will hand the 3 dice (in the bowl) to a 2nd person. The 2nd person must shake the dice and toss them in a bowl. Whatever is thrown is done to person number 2 by person number 1 who had handed them the dice.
~OR~ 1) wimp out and get a gentle spanking from an item that is soft and gentle
~OR~ 2) get the area done by a vibrator.
~OR~ 3) Or for subs use the die with--paddle, spank, flog and whip and for DOMs use the dice with kiss, fondle, lick, etc.
NOTE: Area being done to (kissed, massages, spanked, paddled, etc.) -- should be bared. In other words you remove the article of clothing while the deed is being done, afterwards you may put the article of clothing back on.
After the deed is done the person takes the dice and hands it off to the next person (round starts over). Dice may not be handed back to the one who gave it to you. To be fair everyone should be given a chance at the game before anyone gets 2nds.
NOTE: I also have a set of Dom dice now Doms spin them it gives them only kisses, hugs, licks & etc. to those sensitive areas instead of a spanking or flogging <wg> after all a Dom should never suffer.....(can also be used for a nice romantic adult game)
Guests are divided into
two teams. One is composed of submissives. The second one is composed of Doms.
(Switches need to pick a side). In the middle of it all is a large bucket of
cheap plastic loose clamps AKA clothes pins (any type of clamp can be used for this game).
The Dom will pick up a clothes pin and ask a sub a trivia question. If the sub gets the answer right the clamp goes back into the bucket. If the sub misses the question the clamp goes onto the sub's body
~~Variation: Dom (who asked the question) can place the clamp on sub or hand the sub the clamp to place it themselves.
~~Variation: If sub gets question right either no clamp is added (but none are removed) or a clamp is removed from their body (either by the Dom who asked the question or the sub themselves). Or if they get it right they may remove a clamp from another sub's body.
NOTE: I said body--NOT clothing
~~Variation can be played with nipple clamps (this is better for one on one) Dom attaches nipple clamps on sub so they just fit, questions are asked, if sub misses, the clamp is tightened, if sub is right no change happens (no tightening, but then no loosening either) or if sub is correct clamp is loosen.
~~Variations this game can be played with regular trivia questions, sexual trivia or can be played with GrandPa DeSade's trivia which includes such questions as, "What type of dog did I have as a child?" "What is the exact temperature outside?" "Who was my first grade teacher?"
~~Variation using clamps or clothes pins without teeth, the Dom may choose to whip the clamps off instead of just removing them. A good question would be "If I hit the clamps on your body, how many would fall off?" The try it, if sub guessed wrong replace clamps that came off and add one more.
From Walt: This game needs 2 or more subs to play--the subs (naked of course <wg>) stand side by side and sub 1 is asked a trivia question (now as with all the trivia you can use real trivia or evil trivia which no one would know the answer to) If the sub answers correctly they get 10 swats if wrong the sub next to them gets the 10 swats
This is a team game (or can be played one on one). Doms on one side and subs on the other, (Switches may decide which side to be on).
You need a set of 10 (more or less) different toys. and a blindfold.
A sub is chosen (using whatever idea is thought of to chose a person, roll of a dice works good), they are then blindfolded.
The chosen sub gets to be flogged, whipped, paddled or spanked (depending on the toy) from one of the 10 toys.
The toy will be used on them 10 times (10 swats, paddles, or floggings, etc.). The sub is then asked afterwards to identify the toy that was used on them.
~~Variation sub may also be asked to identify "who" used the toy on them.
~~Variation or guess the colour of the toy that was used on them
If the sub guesses correctly then the sub picks the next sub by giving the blindfold to them. After that sub is blindfolded the Dom who did the last punishment, picks the next Dom by handing a toy to be used on the blindfolded sub to the 2nd Dom and they give "it" to the blindfolded sub.
If the sub guesses wrong they get 10 more from the same person with the same toy and then picks who goes next by handing the blindfold to another sub.
Now this game can have a lot of variation--but this is what we thought. Blindfold a sub (topless) and have a different DOM touch (pinch rolls, pull--or whatever) the nipples and the sub has to guess which one is doing it. (Of course there is a penalty if sub can not guess their own DOM)
~~OR~~ Topless sub blindfolded then have different DOMs rub their naked chests against the subs chest (best would be to have subs hands behind the back so they can't grab the Dom)--This can be played the opposite way DOM blindfolded and subs chest against them--guess the subby....
From SMKnight: Do D/s sound challenge. Record various sounds, some common some not so common, have subs try to ID the sound, if they fail, they get punished if they don't fail they get ??? Of course this can also be done with guess the song (like "Name that Tune...")
OK so I am a sick puppy!!!! This is a real simple game to play has a lot of variances you can use.
- Three super balls (you know those balls that bounce a lot) are inserted into the sub (orifice to be decided by the Dom/me of course). The sub on command must drop one ball into a tiny cup. If the ball bounces out, the ball is re-inserted, if the cup tips, ball is reinserted. This game continues until sub puts all 3 balls in the cup without them bouncing out, or when the Dom/me says so. You can add of course punishment to the failure of the sub not to complete the ordered task. Like 10 swats then re- insertion. Due to safety factors I suggest buying the super balls in bulk (Oriental Trading Co.) so after the game is complete they can be properly disposed of (could use condoms or other protection if so inclined.)
If played with a group you can have the sub hold 1 superball with their thighs, and on command drop it into the cup, if the ball bounces out, or misses, or tips the cup, sub is paddled or spanked 10 times and awaits their turn again.
This is a game played with different sizes of sticks, now a really good set made of metal was done by Toast & Toastmaster. But I am not able to afford a fine set, so I went for my own way. I have wooden sticks from small to long, some have pointy ends some do not. They measure from about 1 inches to 24 inches. Now there is 2 ways of playing this. Depends if you have 2 or more subs or only one. You put the sticks between to different parts of the body so like on one sub they are shoulder to hand, next sub is thigh to hip they must hold the sticks between them as the Dom/me puts more sticks in, kinda like a strange game of twister. You can have subs interconnected. Now if you have 1 sub, you just have them hold them between their own body parts, thigh to hand and such, keep putting more and more sticks between body parts that the sub can not drop.
This is a quick game with 2 or more Dom/mes. with a sub blindfolds doms on both sides flog, paddle or spank the sub, then ask the sub how many the Dom/me on the left did. If they give an incorrect answer they are punished <wg>
~~Variations can be Dom is blindfolded and has to guess the sub seducing them or rubbing their naked chest against the Dom's naked chest. (or reverse it have the sub guess the Dom)
from WW: "Like spin the bottle of out youth you play this as you spin the paddle and whoever the handle lands on gets to paddle who spun it for 10 strikes. Of course you may wish to do some rules such as boy-girl or top-bottom so tops never get spanked and bottoms always do. This is a quick and fun game to get to know each other."
This is an interrogation game loosely based on the Marathon Man movie scene torture in the Dentist chair. A dentist had Dustin Hoffman prisoner and drilled each tooth and dug around in the nerves asking him questions. Course the game doesn't go that far <wg>. What I like to do is to blindfold a nice "victim" get them very comfortable in a chair or on the couch. (This can played with or without clothing depends on the moods) Can be played with 1 or more Doms but only one "victim". Basically once the victim is ready you have many toys with sounds (stun gun sounds, belts whipping sound of a cane) or sensations soft to sharp. You can do this with them comfortable in a chair or even tied down for a "victim that prefers bondage or pain. Once the "victim" is blindfolded you get the toys out--you can fib about what you have stun guns, blow guns, truth serum, heavy duty chain floggers.....remember there is NO SIGHT on the victim so using sound toys is ideal. You can tie them down and use other devices like needles, knives, violet wand (be creative)
You ask the "victim"
Inquisitor: "Is it safe?"
Victim: no answer or asking "what?"
Inquisitor: Wrong answer
(then touch or zap near the ear with a sound or best use a zap sound and just gently touch arm or leg with finger). Crack a whip (single tail) drape a cold chain on them, use clothespins, needles, even a nail or paper clip anything to gain attention. I find sounds work best at first then move to touch. Even jokes like putting a dead mouse on them (put a fur rag on them or stuffed toy). Say hot coals and touch them with even ice or candle wax. Remember they have no sight.
Inquisitor: "Now I ask again Is it Safe?"
Victim: Yes
Inquisitor: "Is what safe?"
Victim: I don't know
Inquisitor: Wrong answer <punish as above>
Basically this game is supposed to be a no win for the victim and fun for the sadist Dom. You need a good imagination to come up with continuing no win questions. Good ones are "where is it?" "how many is it?" "guarded?" "how did you learn about it?"
PLEASE NOTE: you need to discuss this before hand with the "victim" some folks can NOT handle "no win situations". Remember to negotiate this scene before proceeding. "Victims" I have done this too feel it is very intense if the "victim" is not up to intense mind fucks (which this is) DO NOT DO IT!!!!!!
Began by dividing the room into "tops" and "bottoms." ("switches" need to make a decision...!") Then appointed a spokesperson to lead each group in brainstorming five or six questions that you "always wanted to ask the other side." The bottoms (or tops) moved into a separate room so all could have complete privacy.
Narrowed the questions down to the best four, then reunited the two groups. The bottoms get to go first. They assembled their chairs into a circle, also facing the center, which encompassed the bottoms' circle. The tops asked the bottoms their first question and then the tops "SHUT UP" while the bottoms began to discuss the question amongst themselves. After the round the tops and bottoms switched and the Tops are asked the questions the bottoms wrote.
The term "Fish Bowl" arises because the outer circle sits back and observes the inner circle, like looking into a fish bowl.
From Paul of http://www.fetish-floggers.co.uk/: Not so much a game, but still fun to watch -- cuff a pair of naked subbies with leather wrist cuffs, clip them together, left wrist to left wrist, by means of a short length of chain, hand one a riding crop and the other a paddle and let them crop or paddle each other on their bare behinds.
~~Variation: have one or both blindfolded or, at least, restrict their vision with blinkers or cloth bags over their heads with *small* holes cut for minimal vision...
From Master Kevin: Red or Black is a BDSM card game
- A Dom(me) a naked sub, with hands bound over their head.
- The sub(s) must not be blindfolded or gagged, for reasons shown below.
- The other ingredients for play are toys
- A deck of cards.
This card game begins when the dom(me) asks the sub guess “Red or Black”. ("Black" means a black suit and "Red" means a red suit.) The sub guesses, which card the dom(me) is holding, the Dom(me) reveals the top card.
- If the sub guesses correctly, the sub gets a reward - teased, fondled, kissed, nipples sucked, or gets to suck the Dom(me)'s nipples or fingers, etc.
- If the sub guesses incorrectly, the sub gets punished. The value of the card determines the number of swats or strokes
from slaveboy_k1: In this game, the sub worships the Domme's breasts, but the sub has adjustable clamps on the nipples. The sub may worship Her breasts as long as the sub can stand the pain, or until She has had enough. Of course, the Domme stops periodically to tighten the clamps -- just a little, that is.
~~Variation: Sub can worship the Dom’s Cock
From Bunyip: My favourite game is with a deck of cards, but each card dictates an action, eg 2 indicates hand spanking, 3 indicates waxing, etc..
Two cards are turned over. The first card dictates the action. The second card dictates the intensity. You might turn over a 2 for hand spanking, then a 10 for 10 smacks.
Throw wild cards in (Kings usually give everything to its maximum) and you have, in my opinion, a good game to play with many different types of BDSM activities in quick succession.
From Ste Thom: The sub is on her knees, hands tied behind her back. I dip my cock in chocolate, (or another favorite edible sticky substance) then I tell the sub to clean me with only her lips and tongue. I also tell her that I will make *no* effort to hold myself back, and if she makes me come then she has "lost". If she gets me completely clean without me coming, then she "wins".
For extra fun, I give her a time limit by which she needs to have me clean.
From celestial harlot:
- Slave stands with her feet as far apart as possible to leave her off balance...
- She holds a glass of water that is full to the very brim.
- The Master plays with her, pleasing her, you pick the areas and the pleasure.
- If she spills--she gets the crop on her pink parts.
See how long it takes to empty the glass *grins*
- A line is drawn or you can use painters tape horizontally across the wall at waist level.
- The slave stands far enough from the wall that when she leans over and places her hands just above the line.
- She is extended flat backed and legs apart, difficult balancing.
Same rules apply (as above) pleasing her but if her hands move below the line—LOOK OUT!
From meliciaTC: I love "pervertibles" so in my experience, pretty much any game can be turned into a reward/punishment scene. Sometimes with the Dominant *not* clearly explaining the rewards and punishments, just that the sub knows they will happen is a great mindfuck.
~~Variations: Other times listing out all of the rewards and punishments very specifically
A sub is tied tightly and not able to move, blindfolded, and is told that the sub would receive pain for wrong answers, and pleasure for right answers.
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The questions can be playful
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Silly
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NO-Win like "what number am I thinking of?"
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Trivia
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Or whatever
From Alex in Buenos Aires: A sub is tied tightly and not able to move. He must be complete naked. He should endure a predetermined time of tickle torture.
He can surrender whenever he wants, but the quantity of minutes that lack til reaching the predetermined time, will become quantity of spanks
Let's say for example the predetermined time is 40 minutes. If he only endure 10 minutes of tickle torture, he will get 30 spanks.
We can think of many variations of the same
game.
If there are many subs, after the first slave passes the test it will designate
his successor. The second slave is not allowed to surrender before the time of
the first one. If he does, he will get 2 spanks for every minute.
"The King, the Executioner, and the Slave"
From Alex in Buenos Aires: Three players. All of them throw up in the air two sneakers or sandals (sandals are better).
- The guy whose both sandals fall with the sole down: He is the King.
- The guy whose one sandal fall with the sole down and the other with the sole up: He is the executioner.
- The guy whose both sandals fall with the sole up: He is the slave.
- If two players tie, they should break the tie by throwing the sandals again. Always, sandal with the sole down is better than with the sole up.
After the characters are assigned the game is very easy.
The King tells the executioner what he must do with the slave.
The punishments can be predetermined or not.
Once the punishment was done, all players must throw the sandals again. It is a game that promotes the revenge, because the player that before was the King, now he can be the slave.
If you have other game ideas, you will allow me to share with the kind folks reading this--please let