Truth or Dare Ideas
Truths
- Tell
us about your favorite BDSM fantasy
- Tell
us about an experience with a favorite toy
- Tell
us about your experiences and/or fantasies with anal play
- How
has the reality of AIDS impacted or altered your play/sexual patterns?
- Tell
us something you like about your body.
- Talk
about a fantasy or experience with the gender other then the one to which
you are usually attracted (Bi’s tell us any story you want)
- How
did you discover masturbation? At what age?
- Tell
us about any childhood “BDSM” type of play experience you had.
- What
kind of play do you like that will really get you turned on?
- Talk
about any fantasies or experiences you had with group sex
- Describe
a favorite way of masturbating.
- What
sexual activities have you not yet tried but would like to?
- Talk
about any fantasies or experiences with body manipulations. (piercing,
tattoos, etc.)
- What
is your relationship with pornography/erotica?
- Tell
us the kinds of things you like a lover/partner to say to you during play.
- What
do you think are the best and worse potentials of group sex?
- In
what situation(s) do you feel sexy? (e.g. dancing, in the woods, when
dressed up, etc.)
- How
do you feel about “dirty” words? When
are they a turn on? When are they a turn off? Which ones are your favorites?
- Name
some favorite places or settings you like to be sexual in.
- What
physical characteristics do you usually find sexy?
- What
adolescent fantasies or experiences still hold an erotic charge for you?
- What
clothes or costumes do you enjoy wearing when you want to feel sexy?
- What
clothes or costume do you like your partner to wear to make them sexier?
- Does
the idea of sex in a public place turn you on? If so, describe.
- What
characteristics do you find attractive in members of your own gender?
- Tell
us a specific technique you enjoy/want from a lover performing oral sex on
you.
- What
goes on in your mind when you cum?
- List
some of the "toys" that can be found in your personal arsenal?
Which is your favorite? Why?
- Talk
about any fantasies or experiences with role-playing.
- What
is your favorite compliment to hear?
- Have
you ever fantasized or experienced watching a lover with someone else?
Describe.
- Describe
how you like to kiss.
- Tell
us about a particularly dramatic kissing experience you have had.
- Tell
us any fantasies or experiences with sex in cars, planes, and trains.
- In
what ways do you find yourself embodying traditional sexually repressive
attitudes?
- Talk
about your favorite S/M experience?
- Talk
about your favorite S/M fantasy (something you haven’t actually done yet
but want to).
- How
does menstruation (yours of a partner’s) affect your sexuality?
- Tell
us about any fantasies, experience or “almost” with a threesome.
- Talk
about any fantasies or experiences with FOOD and SEX
- Share
a favorite “gasp producing” technique or trick with us
- What
everyday items do you LOVE to use or have used on you?
(Spatulas, ropes, rubber bands, clothespins, wooden spoons, rulers).
- Tell
us are you turned on just playing this game? If "yes" what did it? If not, what could someone tell us about right now that
would make you instantly "hot"
- You're
playing with someone in this room. You've
wanted to have your way (or them have their way with you).
Who do you pick? Why?
- What
kind of play scares the hell out of you, but you keep finding yourself
getting excited at the thoughts of it.
- Tell
us about a time where you had some "unplanned bodily function"
happen to you at the worst time during play.
- Do
you solo play? If
"yes" describe one of your solo play scenes.
- Describe
one of your favorite scenes for us.
- Do
you (or not) like to play in public??? Why?
- What
kind of behavior in a scene would be reason enough for you not to play with
a person again?
- What
play have you always wanted to try but are too scared to?
- Where
was the most unusual place you ever played in?
- Where
have you wanted to play but are totally afraid of playing there?
- Tell
us the first time you did anything related to BDSM (even if you did not know
at the time it was BDSM)
- What
qualities does your ideal play partner have?
- What
everyday things do you see that make you "hot"?
- What
is your fetish?
- What
kinds of clothes or accessories can help put you in the proper headspace for
play?
- What
is the ONE toy you cannot live without?
- Name
some of the necessary elements for a scene to be HOT for you?
Which single one brings out the strongest response for you?
- What
one thing can your sub/Dom do that makes you absolutely want to PLAY NOW?
- What
qualities in your play partner would be a turn off? (Why you would choose
NOT to play with that person?)
- What
type of play is just not your type of play? What kind of play IS your
type of play?
- What
is the stupidest thing a DOM/sub ever asked you to do to them?
- What
toy have you always wanted used on you but it hasn't yet?
- What
toy did you always want to try, you did and it was not all that great
Dares
- Demonstrate a favorite sexual position
- Demonstrate how you masturbate
- Demonstrate
what you sound like when you cum (must be at least 30 seconds)
- Show
us how you would flirt with someone
- You hear that someone who you've been dying to play with is suddenly
available. How do you approach
them? What do you say? Pretend
it's the person to your right and act it out.
- Turn to the person on your left and give us a sample of your best
"Naughty Pillow Talk." (Duration
must be at least 1 minute.)
- Strip
the person to your left.
- Demonstrate
how you masturbate (give a time limit)
- Do a
striptease
- Seduce
the person to your right
- (sub only) Beg the person to your left to spank you.
- (Dom only) Tell the sub to your left why they deserve a spanking
from you.
Collar
- Dom: What does giving a collar to
someone to wear mean to you, what does it taking it back mean to you
- Sub: What does being given a collar,
wearing a collar mean to you? What does it mean to have it taken back
from you?
Job Application
- Dom: Turn to the person to your left
and tell them what is expected of your subs (in your sternest voice)
- sub: slip onto your knees in front of
the person to your left and beg for a chance to prove your worthiness
Weapon of Choice
- Dom: What's your favorite toy to use
and why?
- Sub: What makes you "hot"
just thinking of a certain toy being used on you.
Enjoy Fisting? If "yes:"
- Dom: Tell us all about how it
feels to fist a bottom?
- Sub: Tell us what it feels like
to be fisted by a Top. Give full details.
Ownership Marks
- Dom: Would you want to put one on your
sub? why? What does it mean to you?
- Sub: Would you want to be marked? why?
What would it mean to you?
Enjoy Restraints? If Yes
- Dom: What does it feel like to
take a sub when s/he can't get away.
- Sub: What does it feel like to be
enjoyed, used, entered while restrained for a Dom's use?
What did you say?
- Dom: What's your favorite order to
require of a bottom?
- Sub: What order to you dread
hearing? Cause you're torn, your mind says "no" but your
body is all excited just hearing it.
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